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*aby_caridee
writes:I have this stupid problem. About year 2004 my boyfriend had a "third party", Kabit is the word here in Philippines. They broke up when I made my boyfriend decide who he really likes, and he chose me because he loves me and can't live without me. (It's true though, I already tried, almost.)But now the "third party" or should I say the "KABIT" is befriending my boyfriend's aunts, sisters and family. I don't feel good about the idea, because my bf's aunt is a very bad person and we dislike each other, my family and her aunts had a war before. And her sister and I are former enemies. What should I do? I think the KABIT is up to something... HELP.
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reader, baby_caridee +, writes (11 July 2007):
baby_caridee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thx very much... You're right.
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reader, xSarax  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Have it out with "KABIT". Confront her and say that. "My boyfriend choose me, now deal with it. And stop contacting his family." You are right to think that Kabit is up to something because she is. Make sure you inform your boyfriend about her behaviour and tell him that you are not happy about it. The most you can do is wait for what he says about it. Dont let Kabit get you down, make sure that you have the best times that you can with your boyfriend and make sure that he respects you. If you keep your boyfriend happy then he won't think twice about her. But if making him happy isn't making you happy then get out of the relationship whilst you can. Because you deserve better than to be worried about Kabit.
I hope it all works out for you because there isnt anything worse than a boyfriend stealer.
Best of luck x x x
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