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Never had an orgasm! Is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (9 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

please help me im 35 with 2 kids and have never had an orgasam been married 13 years why is this is there something wrong with me

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (11 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI hope you do solve this issue with him.

You know, I understand that you're not the only woman to never have an orgasm. I recently saw a post by another lady who said she never orgasms through intercourse alone. Many women need other forms of stimulation. I suggested you talk to your husband because, you know, he's in the bedroom, and he should be able to find other ways to help you with this. Thirteen years is a long time and I know this is hard on you.

So, I do want to help you with this. Out of respect for the people who check what we write (yes, that is done by individuals, not machines) I try to give brief advice. I didn't want you to think there is nothing to say about this.

Sometimes I wonder whether I should post some things here or I shouldn't. I have a question, but I wouldn't like to post it here, out of respect for you. Maybe you can e-mail me? All you need to do is click on my nickname ("danielepew") and then follow the link to "Send a private message". This would all be handled in this website only; I would never know your actual e-mail address, or who you are.

Take care,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

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thanks for your answer Danielepew after 13 years you would think we could talk about it thanks will work on it

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (10 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI don't think so.

This you should solve with your husband, and he should be understanding and cooperative. I think he doesn't take you in consideration.

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