A
male
age
41-50,
*esoreal
writes:I have dated a woman, age 28 for the past 10 months. We moved in together in March. Before this, she had another boyfriend in another city whom she kept in touch with until we 'fell in-love"I was told that there was no communication after we moved in, however, I discovered that she has been routinely viewing his web profile pictures, and Ebay acccount.When confronted, she tells me she was just 'letting go' of him.... is she being straight forward or is she still in love with the other guy?
View related questions:
her ex, moved in Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, neverguesswho +, writes (18 June 2008):
hard to say. I'm dealing with trust issues of my own. My question would be .... what exactly does 'letting go' mean? Are there still feelings there.... or what. In a perfect world none of us would have to deal with this but the truth is we all have baggage and we all have exes (and some remaining feelings)... I would just need to know that he was in her past. This could be innocent but she could be holding on too.
This, like so many trust issues, is a sticky situation.
A
male
reader, mesoreal +, writes (10 July 2007):
mesoreal is verified as being by the original poster of the question She signed a lease at another apartment today and will be moving out in August. She Explained that is was the only way we could "regroup" Anyone buy that?
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): its probably just curiosity like flower girl said. i think women do this sort of thing more than men. i don't think its a big deal.
...............................
A
male
reader, kenny  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Got to admit it does sound abit funny, why would she check his web profile pics, and his ebay account?. Maybe she is curious, who knows. But she is with you and not him, and im sure she would tell you if she still had feelings for him.
Good luck
...............................
A
female
reader, flower girl +, writes (9 July 2007):
 It's probably just curiosity and i should think there is nothing to worry about, at the end of the day she is with you and if she did not want to be she wouldn't.
Take care.xx.
...............................
|
