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writes:I need help! I am in a relationship of a few years and lately we haven't been as passionate and "in love" as in the past. A lot of the relationship has been long distance and it is right now. The lack of passion thing has been a problem for some time and i've been wanting to work it out until.. I met a great girl. We have a million things in common, I really like her (she likes me too), and I think it could really work. I'm young and it seems like switching gears like this could work, but my current relationship is very established, and our lives are just entwined and that is difficult to get through.What should I do??
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reader, Shygirl  +, writes (10 July 2007):
Hey Im in the exact same situation and the same age! Ive been with my fella for 7 years we are engaged! He recently kissed someone else and i stayed with him. now im asking myself have i done the right thing which i dont know!We live together and our lives are so entwined just like yours maybe its just the habit we are afraid of losing? Our passion has completely gone out the window, i have no sex drive cos all i think about is this "kiss".But ive met a guy too who is so nice and sincere and we have loads in common too he told me he is mad about me and now im questioning my feelings for my fiance! Its a horrible feeling really but im still stuck in a rutt!Maybe if you put this other girl aside and ask yourself do you love your girlfriend and is there a future for you forget about the other girl and just ask that? decisions at the end of the day are not easy but have to be made. just be careful in doing so let me know what you think???
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reader, nologo  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 No, you should not step out of relationship.
This "great girl" that you met may be crush.
Most crushes fade after 3 to 18 months and you land nowhere.
Another point: think why your current relationship is stale.
Unless your GF is satisfied with it "as is" try to add flame.
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