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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. I am recently divorced and he is in the middle of a divorce. I was looking through his cell phone the other day (I know bad me..) and I came across some naked pictures of him that he had sent to his soon to be ex-wife. These pictures were sent 2 weeks before we "officially" became a couple. I confronted him with this and he says that he was just scared because he wasn't sure if we were getting together he knew i was still arguing with my ex-boyfriend (i have been separated from my ex husband for 2 years but just finalized the divorce). He thought I was still with my ex boyfriend so he said he was just looking for some kind of comfort. Anyways, my question is he lying or should I just let it go? He is a good man and this is the only incident that has ever happened I searched the phone and there is no other such pictures except before the time we "officially" became a couple. It makes me feel uneasy still, but I know he is a good man. What do I do?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Hi hun,
I am going to be blunt here, serves ya right for looking, a reltionship is built on trust he sent those photographs before you were an item and yes, I think he is being honest because if he had sent them and meant it he would not have it on his phone for you to find he would have deleted it....
I don't know what happened in your previous marriage but if your husband betrayed you in anyway then you have to let go past is the past, not all men are the same hun, give him his privacy and trust what he has told you otherwise you have nothing my sweet...I know its hard but don't allow somthing like this to ruin what you have got you say he is good man well don't loose him hold onto him tight, enjoy!!!!
All the best honey
Love Donna xx
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