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writes: Im a little confused with my girlfriends behaviour. At the moment my twin brother has a french friend (Girl) over to stay for just over a week and I can quite clearly see my girlfriend is not at all happy or a bit jelous. She has been acting more insecure and smothering me more by looking at me constantly looking for attention. She fiddles with me constantly and keeps being silly and saying 'Do you like me?' and 'Do you love me?' and stuff like that. She also asks a few questions about the girl and my brother and I answer her back and she gives a dull grunt or 'Yeah' back. Shes not her normal bubbly self and her normal response would be 'Really cool! Wow!' so its out of character for her. The thing is shes making me feel like I don't love her by doing this because she is asking silly questions and making me feel bad. And I know its not me, she has done this a lot in the past and as soon as she snaps out of it everythings fine and I love her loadz but when she acts like this I find it hard to love her because of the way she is acting.What is she trying to do to me? Is she jelous or what? I know for a fact that shes very insecure despite me complimenting her. She has to always know what I'm up to and if I go and do somthing she is glaring at me asking what im doing yet i'll be only turning a light off or somthing little.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 she sounds like she is very insecure n clingy. u shud try to explain 2 her that you do love her, n her insecurities make u feel like she is the one doubting the relationship. also explain how it makes u feel and say that her paranoia and silly questionning is whats puttin strain on ur relationship, not sum friend of ur brothers who is coming to stay! good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): Sounds to me like your girlfriend is worried that you are paying too much attention to the girl staying with you...she does sound insecure, and she is just needing more romance from you....perhaps take her out just the two of you to a nice dinner or give her some flowers.....or do something for her that she hasn't asked you to do, but you know she needs done....things like that, and if it really bothers you, just mention that you don't understand why she is so clingy all of a sudden, did you do something to upset her? Get the conversation flowing and maybe she will open up and tell you what is on her mind instead of playing little head games with you.
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