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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my fiance have been together for about a year and a month now, were getting married in two months. I've known him for over two years now and all is well but we want a child even thow we're young, were not as young as some couples with children we know. He's busy with work a lot so do I plus school and not everything is about sex but when we decided to have sex was about a month ago, we had unprotected sex twice but he came in me twice each time, it's been about a week since the frist time and half a week since the last. I don't mean to make this long.my stomach has been hard at the bottom and I know that signs don't really show up for at least a few weeks but I'm also real sick to my stomach and have pains but I also hate chocolate but yet I've wanted chocolate cake and ice cream at 3am and thats not like me, I want to know do I sound like I could be or is it all in my head? Thank you for your time and any advice would help I'm real lost but I am grateful thank you ps. if it helps my fiance and me are both 22 years old so were not to young
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reader, love-him  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 You could be pregnant, seeing as though you had unprotected sex.. but you also may not be. 22 isn't young. my mum had me at 15. and i am now 16. Take a pregnancy test etc and get yourself to the docs.. mail me if you wanna talk x x x
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reader, rambini +, writes (9 July 2007):
 22 is not too young at all, age (to an extent) is by far not the most important factor. i know women of 18 who make fantastic parents, I also know women of 30 who make bad parents so it is all to do with the time and love u are willing to give. if you are pregnant, then u have to decide if you are ready to have the baby, the fact you are marrying soon is good as at least there is commitment there on your side. as said before i think the signs could be psychological, which suggests you do want this pregnancy if indeed there is one. whatever u decide good luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): There are possibilities with him ejaculating inside of you. That was very risky of you two.
If you were pregnant and you have all these symptoms it's strange that you are getting them so soon. But since all women are different and these symptoms are due to the excess of hormones working with the new creature that'e growing everything is possible.
On the other hand maybe all the symptoms are just psychological. I know it has happened to me.
Please use protection the next time. If you were pregnant it's a gift from God. But is always better to receive a child in a much more stable situation than the one you two are right now so try to avoid pregnancies so soon while you can.
Best Wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): Yes, you could be pregnant ... you had unprotected sex. No, you are probably not having pg symptoms. Pg symptoms do not start that early. In fact, most women will continue to pms up until they miss their period. Anyway, calm down (I know its hard ... I'm on my third child right now) and buy a pg test one day after you miss your period. First Response is probably the best brand for early testing. And if you need more support please visit twoweekwait.com :) Good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 You might be pregnant, yes. But, if the sex happened only a week ago, I'm afraid you wouldn't know by now. I understand that this kind of manifestations take place later in the pregnancy.
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