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writes:Is it okay to notice other guys when I'm out with my boyfriend or just by myself? I think he's beautiful in his own way but not attractive in the "standard" sense of what you see in the media so I feel guilty when I notice guys that don't look like him. I fell in love with his personality first and I would never cheat on him but when guys flirt with me and I get a sense of pleasure from it I feel guilty about it afterwards. I think he would feel insecure if he caught me looking so when we're out I try not to look at any people at all and I don't know if this is healthy?
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 i believe even if u r in a great relationship people still look at other people boys do it and girls do it. just try not ot make it in his face so that he won't get too upset. as long as u just look but don't touch. u come home to him if u do that it means something so don't worry
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reader, DV1  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Guys don't mind if you look at other guys as long as you don't cheat... Flirting is a whole different story... Flirting with another guy in front of your boyfriend is a quick way to being single again...
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reader, flower girl +, writes (9 July 2007):
 I would say that it is perfectly natural to look at other people when you are in a relationship, and especially due to the fact you have said you would never cheat on him.
You see a thing of beauty and you want to look at it wether it's a piece of art or another person.
All the time it is just looking then there is no harm in it, just try and spare your partners feelings by not making it too obvious.
Take care.xx.
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