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*lisabette
writes:i never have a relation ship whith someone.i want to have it but i m sker. because i want a real love and a good personne .im 19 years old and i never have a relation ship whith somone.ihave many boys friend but they are just friends . is this normal???????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): You know best if you should accept a date with them.
Ask yourself why you distrust them. Is it because of something they've done? Is it the way they behave around you? Have they given you good reason for you to not trust them? If not, do you think you distrust them because you are afraid of being hurt?
You could be blaming the reason you have not had a relationship on not trusting the men who ask you out, when really it is because you are afraid of trusting men. There is a difference.
It is perfectly OK to go out on a date with a guy without having to do anything physical with him. Maybe this would be something worth trying? Go on a date somewhere with a guy you think you like and see if, after the date, you trust him a little more. This is how people usually begin to trust someone, by spending time with them and finding out what kind of a person they are and what kind of things they want out of their life. All the best!
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reader, elisabette +, writes (10 July 2007):
elisabette is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthink you Dr pete so much but many guys asked me to have a relation ship with them but i refuse.in fact i want to have it but in the same time i don't want it .i can't truste them shod i accept or not???????
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reader, skoolof life  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 hey dont stress, your the same as everyone else in the world!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): It is 100% normal, I know tons of people, guys and girls who don't have their first relationship until they are 19 or older. It will happen for you, you'll meet a guy and it will just feel really different from the guy mates that you have. Hold out for someone special - good people are hard to find but great people are even harder to find.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 There is no such thing as normal to be true.
It depends on where you are and who you are.
Your problem may be caused by one of the following reasons:
#1: "real love" the way you understand it is almost unreal;
#2: you are not doing things needed to find the "real love".
Advice: you should look at your priorities list more often.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Yep, it is. Just keep looking and you'll find someone who is right for you. Don't become desperate, though.
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