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*chill1689
writes:ok, so me and my girlfriend are back together, thanks to all those who answered. the idea of a break instead of a break up worked out better for her. but now i have another problem. this has been going on for about 3 weeks. she never wants to talk on the phone. like during the school week, she wont call me until like 10:00, and on the weekends, its just about the same. and when i call her she ALWAYS says she doesnt feel like talking. she says its just because she wants free time and sometimes because she just doesnt feel like talking. now i'm an understanding guy. but i just cant seem to understand why she cant talk to me at least 2 times during the day. any ideas on why she doesnt want to talk or ways i could get her to start wanting her to. is it because i'm boring? everytime we talk, she laughs though. WHATS UP?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): I'm in the same position as your girl.
I have never anything to say on the phoen (i hate phones i really hate them)
my boy always calls me throughout the day and sometimes i just want the day to myself without any interruptions, i sometimes just sit the phone down on silent and forget about it for a day.
if she is anything like me...
mate your coming on way to strong and theres no point talking on the phne if nothing needs to be said
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reader, appygal81 +, writes (30 January 2007):
 I agree with CD. My ex boyfriend used to call me alot like that, and when we got together we had nothing to talk about. I found it to be quite annoying and almost possesive feeling. I found myself repeating stories i had told him before, over and over again. It just gets old. respect her space, call her maybe once every other day so at least you have something to talk about and make it worth the phone call in the first place. Its no fun having a phone call full of awkward silences
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 The simple answer to your question is she's gone off you. There's no "spark" with her any more. If she had any true feelings for you she'd be wanting to speak with you. You deserve better love, kick her to the kerb and find someone who WILL put you first in their life.
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Maybe she just doesn't have enough to say to you twice a day. Twice seems a little excessive to me. Can't you settle for once a day and a text at say lunchtime to see how her day is going?
CD
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