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writes: i want to ask this girl out on a few dates before valentine's day. than on valentines day i would like to ask her out. i'm plannin to watch movie with her and hopefully kiss her durin the movie. i really dunno how to! help! how do i go in for the kiss? will she respond? shall i put my hand over hers durin the movie and than maybe kiss? as you can see i have no clue! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): put your hand on hers during the movie but dont kiss during the movie- kiss at the very end of your date- when she is leaving- you are walking her to her door/ dropping her off- and be VERy VERY light and gentle with this first kiss- almost make it hesitant- and a teaser- hold back as much as you can and be bashful- there is nothing more attractive than a guy who is slow and concerned- my first kiss was horrible because the guy just went for it and it was really hard and he didnt hold back at all- TURN OFF! so- yea- hold hands during the movie not to distract from the movie- and when you drop her off at home- leave her wanting for more when she goes to bed at night... it might be hard to resist putting on her an all make out( if she wants it to happen she will pull that one on you first..) but holding her hand is good enough of a signal for that v-day date... save the kiss for last! She will get the clue and be wayyy more turned on by you being soft than you going straight in for it... Next time give her the oppourtunity to go straight in to it for you! Hope this helps!
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reader, JulietteElise  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 first off, i have to say "awwwwwwwwwwwww"
ahem... yes... sorry :0)
one thing you could do, is jsut to ask her if you can kiss her. this may seem silly, but i bet it will create a ton of butterflies in her tummy and then u will know it's allright.
otherwise, a great idea is to hold her hand first, that way you can gauge how she feels towards you better. for if she pushes her hand away it could mean shes not ready yet. Also, if her hand is sweaty, though this may seem groos, is actually a good thing becuse it probably means she is nervously happy as well. and obviously, if she holds your hand tight then everything is going perfectly.
for the kiss, you can, when you feel the moment's right, put your face and lips fairly close to hers, thus waiting to see if she goes the rest of the distence to kiss you back, or closes her eyes waiting for you to kiss her. When kissing, it will feel even more wonderfull and romantic for her if one of your hands is gently brushing or holding her face, or running through her hair. Dont worry if you guys mess up somehow or if it seems really awkward at first, just laugh and try again together :0) if she likes you, i guerntee she wont mind. After all, the first time my and my first b/f kissed, i was laughfing and he kissed my teeth and then ran away..... but then we dated for 4 years :0)
if you are at all comfertable being close together, holding her during the movie whith her head on your shoulder is wonderfull, and then you can easily lift her chin with your hand slightly while gazig into her eyes, and go in for the kiss :0) otherwise, just keep moveing closer to her (and if you do it all silly i'm sure she will laugh and like it)...eventually holding her hand... and then either putting your arm around her (like they do in the movies all cliche like with the big yawn) or just waiting untill a good point in the movie to kiss, or untill the movie is over, or just pause the movie while going in for the kiss... etc etc. Don't worry, even if you feel horribly embarressed, or knock something nearby over, or so forth, she wont mind at all, for i'm sure inside she is feeling just as nervous and happy :0D
good luck!
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reader, cupidschokehold +, writes (29 January 2007):
 ok. so the whole taking her out to the movies is great.
hold her hand.
dont do the whole yawn put ur arm around her. just hold her hand.
and dont kiss her during the movie.
but while walking out ask her if she needs anything. -wait for reply- then hug her and kiss her on her forhead..
while dropping her off stop about a house away from hers. and kiss her. tell her how much she means to you. then ask her out :]
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