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writes: Ok this might sound kinda weird but stick with me. I'm almost 18 (one more month!) and I'm a freshman in college. My room mate is like never here. Basically she's living with her boyfriend but the college thinks she lives in the dorm.ANYWAY im all alone. and the other day at mcdonalds i met this guy whos so f-ing hot, he's 42 though and he needs a place 2 stay because his wife just kicked him outhe said he wouldnt touch me and he'd buy me beer and ****..should i do it? its tempting Reply to this Question
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 I'm curious as to what the four asterisks represent. This guy is going to buy you beer and WHAT?
I agree with everyone else. WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING? You're 17. You're thinking about having a 42 year old man move into your dorm room. Most colleges require dorm residents to be college students. Dorms aren't homeless shelters for husbands who have been kicked to the curb by their wives (so he says).
You need to focus on your studies and enjoy the solitude of NOT having a roommate. You might be able to get so much work done that you'll be able to graduate early.
Hit the books. Forget about Ted Bundy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): Yikes, have you never seen the movie about Ted Bundy and how he lured unsuspecting women into his car by pretending to have a broken arm? This guy probably doesn't have a wife, Ted Bundy was hot that is why he got so many girls to get in his car with him, then he raped and murdered them.
I can't believe you are in college and you think this way! Sorry, but that is just the craziest idea I have ever heard anyone entertain, especially a high school graduate who got accepted into college, come on you are smarter than that!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 If you want to get into trouble by living on the edge then yes, go ahead. Come on... you said you find this guy hot! Don't tell me if he moves into your dorm nothing's going to happen? You know as well as I do you'd probably be putty in his hands! It will also cause arguments with the friend you share with now. What will she say if she comes back to find another guy in HER dorm?
You need to talk this over with your room mate. And... if the College finds out you've smuggled someone else in there then it will only mean trouble for you. Although this guy's wife has kicked him out they ARE still married! Too many hassles love. Is he REALLY worth it???
Eve
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Sounds sketchy to me. You meet this guy in MCDONALD'S and suddenly it's okay for him to stay in your house? You have no idea what this guy has done in the past. Maybe his wife didn't kick him out, maybe he is a serial killer and he tells all women this. I don't know! You don't know either!
He's gonna buy you beer... classy. And he says he's not going to touch you? Yeah right. Maybe he won't, but I'll bet his thoughts are 'get 'er drunk and have some fun before i go home to the ball n' chain'.
Who cares if he's hot?!?
Sounds sketchy to me, girl.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Personally I think this guy sounds like trouble. It must be against the rules of your dorm to have guests to stay for long periods of time, plus your room mate might break up with her boyfriend and want her room back, the room she or her parents are paying for FOR HER. If you're feeling all alone get to know your neighbours and join some societies. Don't rely on men who are old enough to be your father just because he promises to buy you beer. It's not a good enough offer.
CD
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