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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've known this woman for a couple of years and we've always been attracted to each other,but she's married. And i regret to say we have slept together. I still have strong feelings for her, and she for me.What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): You stop sleeping with her, and stop seeing her!
I don't care how long you've known one another, been attracted/been friends, the simple fact of the matter is she is married. She is not free to have a relationship with you, period.
IF she ever gets divorced that will be a different kettle of fish. Even so, you should wait until she IS divorced before contacting her.
Meantime, don't help her betray her husband!
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female
reader, melschatbox  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Yes, you're asking this question in the hopes that someone will say..."aw, you poor thing!" You know the answer...you were aware of the risks of being with a married woman. Now, you want to be with her and vice versa. Guess what..you've both just proven to each other that you will cheat if you can justify it. Doesn't sound like a relationship that will be built on trust for sure. Take caution, as I fear this woman is not leaving her marriage. You better like being #2 on the list...cuz, I think that's all she wants.
Sorry....
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reader, cd206  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 You only have one option. Move on. Try to imagine how you would feel if you were married to her and she was sleeping with someone else.
CD
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 January 2007):
 You know very well what you should do. Leave her totally alone until she gets a divorce. Try to act with some decency.
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