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writes:I think I may have messed things up with a potential love. Help me fix it or just give me a good kick in the butt. We have so much in common and have such a great time together. 2 weekends ago i thought was such an amazing time, but i might have rushed her into something, and i think it made her feel awkward when we hung out this past weekend. I feel like I am on a rollercoaster with this girl and all i want is to be riding its a small world. i am so scared i might lose her, and i think that fear, ironically, is preventing me from keeping her. It is just how i am, i get excited and i want to share my emotions with her. i want it to be like in the movies. how do i control my interest level and play it cool when i think about her nonstop? Reply to this Question
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reader, black_diamond329 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Sounds like she maybe just needs time to get use to the idea. Just give it time and her space. If she is still interested and can see you are willing to wait for her then she will be grateful for that. Then again she could perhaps have been disappointed by the sex or even just after you for the sex in which case she is not worth your love and some other lucky girl will win your heart. But best advice here is just to give her space don't try to suffocate her with your feelings for her cos if she is unsure that will definitely frighten her off. Hope things go well and let me know the outcome
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): we did have sex for the first time together, but i never pushed that on her. she asked to sleep over. when we were making out on the couch she said we should move to the bedroom. i guess it could have made things awkward, but i dont think it is that.
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reader, black_diamond329 +, writes (29 January 2007):
Did the two of you have sex 2weekends ago? If so was perhaps just too soon for her and she feels things aren't moving slowly enough for her liking. She does probably really like you it's just that she doesn't wanna get ahead of herself. Try to to hang onto her like a bad smell but don't hide the fact you really like her. Even tell her every so often (not 4times a day etc yet) and hold hands with her in public. Just let her get use to the idea.
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