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*ricia
writes: Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't seen in over two years. I asked why what prompted that and he said she had sent him one of herself so he said he was just messing and it meant nothing. He says he loves me more than anything and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He also told me that she was a physco I said why then would you have anything to do with her. He has another phone too where I found her number saved under a different name. We split up, not sure if I have done the right thing or not. I am devestated. He also promised last Aug that he wouldn't text exes anymore and sent them all text telling them not to text him but of course he couldn't resist replying when they started texting him again. Sorry for the long question. What do I do?
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reader, Patient1 +, writes (29 January 2007):
Girl, move on!!! I know it hurts, but if this guy REALLY loves you he would not be texting or calling his ex period. If he is sneaking behind your back now and trying to justify it, then he will always be a sneak. The truth is, if he can If he can't respect your feelings and cut all ties with all of his exes immediately, then he doesn't deserve to have you. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): Stay away from him. Why did he need to text her in the first place, do they have kids together. No you are so right to end it all! The last thing you want is to be part of a triangle. Please do not beat yourself up about this. I have been in a similar situation in the past and it nearly wrecked me until i walked away and got my life back on track. You do not need this cr*p in your life! He has been dishonest in the past. He said he would stop getting in touch with exs yet he still did. If you were the best thing that has ever happened to him, how could he let you go. You are well rid. He sounds full of sh*te!!!
Take care and you will meet someone you so deserve
xx
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