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writes:im far away from my 2 kids, i love them dearly but i got no choice to be far from them, i have to work to support them for what they needs. the problem is they are now growing from my parents, and they hated me being far from them they dont even call me or send me sms or email me which i always do for them, they only write to me a´very very short email when they need financial support from me. just ask for money and after that no more., i feel hurt when its happining somebody help me how to deal with this, i cant stop my support to them because they are still studying and i was thinking even only their schooling at least i can support. i dont want to stop my support to them until they done to their school.pls. help me how can i accept this situation... helpppppppppppppppppp
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 I think you should make them see they are lucky by havin a mom that can stand up for herself and living and mantaining a family by her own means meaybe take them to the red cross or to charity organizations to see how other people and maybe obligue them to volunteer and help sometime or in the futute you could ask them to take up little jobs outside or responsibilities in the house as ironing, washing up or doing hte shopping so they see everything is not free and that it's dificult to get money notas easy as to sit there by the pc or tv and complain about their mom a very drastical solution would be to stop giving them pocket money until they behave as educated kidsgood luck and be sure ur right to do what ur doing as soon as they're teens they will not care about you honey childern are really selfish mind that and take carelove
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reader, cd206  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Don't take this the wrong way but when your kids grow up do you think they're going to think we were lucky growing up because we had everything we needed or are they going to think our mom wrecked our lives by not being there when we were growing up? I know you think you're doing the right thing by living away from them but I'm sure theyd much rather not have everything and have you with them. There must be something you can do which would mean living at home, even if it paid less money?
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