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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I need help on getting my bf to open up sexually!My bf and I have been dating for quite some time. We are both mature adults, have both been married before, so it's not like we are inexperienced, but his timid sexual habits are driving me crazy.I consider my self rather liberal in the sexuality department, you know, as long as it agreeable to both of us, it's not demeening, considered morally wrong, or painful, go for it. He on the other hand will suggest nothing new, share his desires or his fantasies. Don't get me wrong the sex is great, I'd just like him to feel comfortable enough to share and hopefully experience those desires with me.I think sharing this portion of yourself is a great way to get closer, fullfill each other, and have fun in the process. I have no problems approaching him with my desires and he fullfills every one of them. I'd just like him to approach me with his. He alludes to having some but seems too shy to speak them allowed!Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): He may tell you in time, but it will be his time. If you are like that then fine, but don't expect everyone to be the same. Men in particular can be a bit shy about things like that, don't worry you are not alone. One bloke that i knew for 3 years never did let me know what he wanted, we both split up, not for this reason. We had so many other issues that didn't match up. Take care and enjoy all you have together.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 You sound like you're totally fulfilled sexually, on your end. Why badger him about things he's not complaing about. Some people just don't like to discuss those things or put less importance on them.
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