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writes:My partner and I have been seeing each other for 12 months. His divorce has become very nasty and his ex wife is making his life hell. He is stressed out and not coping and therefore neither am I. We argue more often than we have been and now he has suggested moving out to his own house, but still seeing each other, so that we can have some space to sort his head out. Is this the end then? IS this a realtionship killer? I don't want him to go as it just feels so final, as if it is the end? I love him dearly, and I don't know what to do. Please help.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 i agree with the first writer, you need to cut him some slack maybe he is the cause of this arguments but dont you think you might be pushing too hard? i was gonna say to his exwife but she is also giving him hell as you say, so the poor guy is between the devil and the deep sea. be supportive and find things to talk about not fighting all the time giving him the space he needs doesnt mean you will stop arguing, so its time to take some responsibility and stop blaming everything on his wife you are to be blame for somethings that went wrong think about that, i am not saying he is innocent but it takes two to make a rship work.
let time decides for you if this rship is going somewhere but i am sure if this keeps going on and he doesnt move out you will be sworn enenmies sooner than later. but if he goes there is hope for u guys because time away from each other will give each time to think.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Well heck fire, he's going through a messy divorce and his live in girlfriend is arguing with him all the time. I'd want to move to my own nice and quiet place too. He needs your support during this trying time, if you can't give then at least let him move out and find some peace. Apparently you need to do some thinking on your own as well.
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