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writes:What do i do when i girl i really like already has a boyfriend but is so unhappy that she doesn't want to be with him no more but is scared to end it as she cares bout other peoples feelings rather than her own? I'm struggling to wait much longer even though i really like her as i am worried i'm going to get hurt. I can't do anything as it will just cause problems and he will think she's been cheating...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): I think you should walk away now. She will finish with him if and when she is ready. Don't there waiting on the side lines. Give her some time and space and in the mean time get out there and enjoy life! If they do finish then wait and see if she comes around, but don't be the one chasing after her. She should have some time after finishing with him, by herself or you will be the rebound boyfriend, and we all know what happens to most of them. Ditched after a while. Come on, stop mopping around and waiting and go out and have fun!
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): I think you should walk away now. She will finish with him if and when she is ready. Don't there waiting on the side lines. Give her some time and space and in the mean time get out there and enjoy life! If they do finish then wait and see if she comes around, but don't be the one chasing after her. She should have some time after finishing with him, by herself or you will be the rebound boyfriend, and we all know what happens to most of them. Ditched after a while. Come on, stop mopping around and waiting and go out and have fun!
Take care
xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (29 January 2007):
 I know you probably don't want to hear this but you say she cares about other peoples' feelings above her own but she also cares about his feelings above yours if she's continuing to be with him and hurting you. Tell her you're giving her some space to sort her head out and if she still wants to be with you then she has to make a decision and stick to it.
CD
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