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writes:this is gonna be a long story but im gonna start from the beginning ok im gona call this guy xxxabout 10 months ago when i was with my 2nd bf i met xxx and his gf. we hung out a bit and when me and this guy was alone usually for like 2 mins we flirted loads but didnt go any further as we were both taken. then me and my bf broke up so i didnt see xxx any more but i thought about him alot.about a month later he was sitting in my living room it turns out his gf was my bros gfs best friend. i couldnt flirt with him as his gf was there. but i sat next to him and he kept smiling at me. then him and his gf broke up and i was back with my 1st bf so he couldnt flirt with me and we lost contact then.about 3 months ago i was on a chat site and he pm me and when i said my name he like oh i know u and we exchanged emails and started chatting on msn. we flirted loads but i was on my 5th bf and he was single again but i stopped after a week as i felt like i was cheating and he got a gf as well.then my bf started treating me bad lying loads never contacting me and then as i later found out he was cheating on me through all this i told xxx and he gave me advice and support. i then dumped my bf. about a week and half later at 2 in the morning i got a text from xxx saying guess what i reply and he goes im single again with a winking smile.we met up for the first time in like 8 months to hang out. we sat in a coffee shop and talked until i got a text from my 2nd ex(the one that we both hung with 10 months ago) saying he in town wanna hang out so we agreed we went and got pizza and when we was sitting on the sofa eating, my ex was going on about sum random shit and xxx started rubbing his finger on the side on my leg so my ex didnt see and i held his hand we then walked my ex to the bus stop and then me and this guy went to a quiet spot and made out loads which lead to hand jobs and fingering. he then got the bus home and texted me loads and he still does.2 days later he met me after school and we went to town and hung out and brought some condoms as i was having a party later on. i asked him out on the way to get some food and he told me that he wants to know me better.at the party he met my friends and they love him (gud sign). we had sex that night and it was amazing and then we went downstairs and joined the guests and cuddled all night and people said we make a great couple.the next day i found out i work with his best friends and she said if i date him it be the best thing ever to happen to him. so she is currently working on setting us up.last week i was getting stalked by my exs ex and she was pretty threatening so i text xxx and he came and walked me home from school and he stayed and we cuddled up and watched a film and kissed a little. the whole time he was nice to me kissing my forehead and looking in my eyes and made me feel special.the next day his best mate came up to me saying that i might have to wait up to 3 months for him to ask me out or say yes if i asked him out because his past gf have all messed him about and now finds it hard to trust any girl. we might be hanging out wednesday and seeing a film or go for coffee again. do i tell him i know about his past as only his best friend knew until now and how can i show to him i like him and wouldnt ever mess him around
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Thank you for asking your question. First of all, I think it is pretty obvious to both of you that you like each other because of what's happened between you both in the past. He's been hurt in the past and you want to show him that you would never mess around with him. ACTIONS speak louder than words! If an ex calls you up, you tell him you're not interested. Reassure this guy and let him know you want to be with HIM and him alone. Let him know that you know about his past and you would never intentionally hurt him. (You don't need to go into detail about how you know, just laugh and tell him you've been doing your own detective work.)
He obviously cares for you or he'd never have came to walk you home from school. Continue to see him, have coffee with him, go to the movies and build on what you already have with him. If he can see by your ACTIONS that you are not remotely interested in anyone else then his trust for you will build and in time you could both have a very fulfilling and wonderful relationship. I wish you both all the very best.
Eve
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