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I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 15 February 2010: Oh yea.. certain words you use.. I don't like..
Dumb, immature, stupid... please don't say stuff like this. You are young and learning. Don't allow anyone to talk to you like this, and don't hurt yourself with such harsh words. It's not fair... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 15 February 2010: I was sharp for a reason, and yes it's unpleasant when people talk to you this way. I wanted you to see how bad everything sounds on paper, I wanted you to have a good clear look at your life and evaluate where you are going wrong.
Thank... (read in full...)
I'm considering losing my virginity to a one night stand.
Q. Im going to Ibiza with some friends for 2 wks this summer. Im 21, single and still a virgin and was thinking of having a (protected)'one night stand' while i am over there. Ive never tried anything like this before! Has anyone else ever lost th...
A. 4 February 2010: Trust us honeypie. Go and have a lovely holiday with your friends. Don't drink too much. The sun will be out, there's ton's of young English speaking people over there. Don't plan to have sex, but you might meet someone nice, you might even find ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man, he wants sex, but if I give it he might break up with me
Q. i am dating this married guy, i am married too. i am 18 years old and he is 32. i know is kinda crazy but im really attracted to him. we met by our job, it was my first time i worked and damm! it happened, i am so into him, maybe is because i have ...
A. 2 February 2010: Go and tell the whole story to your mum.. Arrange for a divorce, then arrange to go back and live under your mothers roof.... (read in full...)
How do you feel about larger inner lips?
Q. Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !...
A. 30 January 2010: "I dont agree with the Miamine" (ReturningtheFavor)
You don't agree with what? Is there a "supposed" normal vagina that every woman expects to look like? You've got me a little confused there. Maybe you should also go take a look at that web... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?
Q. Well me and my bf had been dating for a week and i really love him and i don't know how to tell him right every time i do tell him he looks at me like what a child it hurts i just want to tell him.What do i do and say!!!!...
A. 30 January 2010: Nothing.. it's only been seven days, if you fall in love so quickly, he'll believe you'll fall out of love just as quickly and in a couple of months be saying "I love you" to someone else.... wait at least 2 months before you say such things. It's ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 30 January 2010: Sorry this is fun, I'm off to see if the statement still works if I use the words "swimming" and "water".. :)... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 30 January 2010: Sorry.. should read (EATING requires an increasing amount of stimulus to achieve consistent levels of pleasure) lol.. which idiot published this silly stuff????... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 30 January 2010: FOOD is addictive, and FOOD addictions are in fact self-induced drug addictions. The chemicals our bodies release during EATING create the same effect on the brain as drugs. Repeated EATING reinforces a brain chemistry loop of addiction. (ref: ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 30 January 2010: I can't believe that some people advise you that she is too young to masterbate at 11, when in a couple of years time, (or maybe now) she'll have puberty and be ready to make a baby...
And as for Mrs anonymous... all sex is bad, cut of her hand... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable to push her when she came at me with a hot iron?
Q. I've been married 10 years. On Thursday evenings my wife drops off our 7-year old son at football training and I drive from work to collect him. A few times there has been a last minute change and my wife has texted me but I don't think I've...
A. 29 January 2010: Knock it on the head Q1605, he checked, she aint got no personality disorder. OK, she tried to kill him, but, well....... yea, I'm still interested to find out why she would do that!!!
I like this tone a lot better Mr Husband. Your in a better s... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable to push her when she came at me with a hot iron?
Q. I've been married 10 years. On Thursday evenings my wife drops off our 7-year old son at football training and I drive from work to collect him. A few times there has been a last minute change and my wife has texted me but I don't think I've...
A. 29 January 2010: Why do I feel that this is a suckers bet... find the queen when there are only jacks in the pack.
Controlled and measured language, you did nothing wrong, you only raised your voice once because you were worried, and after that you just spoke in... (read in full...)
I'm considering losing my virginity to a one night stand.
Q. Im going to Ibiza with some friends for 2 wks this summer. Im 21, single and still a virgin and was thinking of having a (protected)'one night stand' while i am over there. Ive never tried anything like this before! Has anyone else ever lost th...
A. 29 January 2010: First time sex with some stranger in Ibiza!!!!!!!! Very dangerous, I've been there, they party hard down there.. It's "orgy city".... Many girls have been raped there, drink is cheap, sex is all over the place, people get the wrong idea. What ... (read in full...)
I was dissapointed I was not pregnant at 15.
Q. Alright, well my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and last week we had a pregnancy scare, I'm not but for some reason we were both kind of disapointed when my period came. Even though we should have been over joyed. I mean if I ...
A. 29 January 2010: Thanks for answering krashel,
You know what, I think you'd do alright if you got pregnant. But who wants to give their kid alright, most mothers want to give their kids the world. It's easier if you wait and have more money in the bank and more... (read in full...)
How do you feel about larger inner lips?
Q. Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !...
A. 29 January 2010: (sigh) There is no perfect vagina, there is no perfect nose, their is no perfect penis, there are no perfect breasts. Guys don't measure such things, they don't walk arround with a ruler and picture of how a human should look.
Some people a... (read in full...)
I got married when I was 14 and I've never experienced an orgasm!
Q. i need some advice well the thing is im married im 18 years old i know is stupid, i got married when i was 14 and my husband was 18. Wellthe thing is that we went over things that was makeing us apart and we came to the conclusion that its SEX! the ...
A. 29 January 2010: Thought this might be too advanced for you, but your a married woman and you need help. It's the best website on the internet that deals with sex. Take a look at the articles and have a good read and see if there is anything discussed there that ... (read in full...)
I got married when I was 14 and I've never experienced an orgasm!
Q. i need some advice well the thing is im married im 18 years old i know is stupid, i got married when i was 14 and my husband was 18. Wellthe thing is that we went over things that was makeing us apart and we came to the conclusion that its SEX! the ...
A. 29 January 2010: Me again... do you always have sex with you on your back? Many women find it hard to have orgasms like this.. try to go on top, this may help you find better rhythm as you can move in ways that please you rather than him... ... (read in full...)
I got married when I was 14 and I've never experienced an orgasm!
Q. i need some advice well the thing is im married im 18 years old i know is stupid, i got married when i was 14 and my husband was 18. Wellthe thing is that we went over things that was makeing us apart and we came to the conclusion that its SEX! the ...
A. 29 January 2010: wow!!!! Is it legal in your country to marry at 14?
Hard one... this is why in most parts of the world the age for marriage and sexual activity is at least 16 - 21years. You and your guy moved so fast, you've missed out on a lot of developm... (read in full...)
How do I fix my self esteem after dumping a narcissist partner?
Q. i have broken free of a narcissist after 4yrs. i know i must stay positive, use my exercise equipment, spend time with my grandchild,do some voluntary work, take up a hobby , go for a swim,but my self esteem is in the gutter, i have no motivation ...
A. 29 January 2010: How about taking up boxing to get rid of your angry feelings? Or ballroom dancing or salsa so you can move your body and be in the company of men at the same time. Judo is also good. You sound like you need energising, the things you listed don't ... (read in full...)
Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?
Q. Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple o...
A. 29 January 2010: Indeed.. too strange and bizarre to be true... reminds me off another Dear Cupid story about a guy who was drunk and woke up to find his wife having sex with several men.
Why haven't you brought this up, what are you waiting for? How can you be s... (read in full...)
After he told me his plans for our future I am just dazed
Q. Dear Cupid, I am white 25 year old Christian girl. My boyfriend is 31 year old Muslim man. I want to convert to Islam and plan to do so soon. I split with my ex-boyfriend (a university 5 year romance) just before I started dating my curren...
A. 29 January 2010: Why do I get the feeling that this guy is on the rebound from his last relationship.... much too fast honeypie... make sure you take them Islamic lessons real slow, so you buy yourself time and know exactly what you are taking on.... (read in full...)
I was dissapointed I was not pregnant at 15.
Q. Alright, well my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and last week we had a pregnancy scare, I'm not but for some reason we were both kind of disapointed when my period came. Even though we should have been over joyed. I mean if I ...
A. 28 January 2010: lol... $37 an hour, not bad for a 17year old...
Right, now we got to break that down.. He's working, you are under age and can't work. So he has to split that $37 with you. Now he's down to just over $15 an hour.... then the baby... get your... (read in full...)
I'm regretting what I did to my sister when we were younger, what am I supposed to do?
Q. ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played ...
A. 28 January 2010: I'm finding it very difficult to put things into words at the moment. I don't think you've any idea about the damage you have done with your stupid worrying and your self absorption.
You know little about human sexuality, and very little about ho... (read in full...)
Gave a man my virginity and now I don't know what to do.
Q. Im 16 and a few weeks ago my older sister had i party which i went to. Whilst i was out in the garden having a drink (i was a little bit drunk) I met this boy (he was a year older than me) anwe got talking for ages at the end we ended up snogging ...
A. 28 January 2010: Please make an appointment with your nearest family planning clinic or your doctor. You need to be tested for sexual diseases and if no contraception was used probably a pregnancy test will be needed.
What's done is done. Why do you need to talk ... (read in full...)
Will the package be discreet?
Q. Has anyone ever ordered from love honey? If so, i know the packaging is plain however are the items loose and can you tell what is in the package just from feeling it? Also if you order a magazine from there will it just come with your order, l...
A. 28 January 2010: Dash.. now I got to go and order from them, just so I get to squeeze some packaging at last.... (lol.. I need to date more)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!
Q. I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...
A. 28 January 2010: In long term relationship for five years. You both agree to threesomes, and I'll assume that you were both happy with it. He now wishes to have sex with a married woman. He asked, you said no.. the difference is, you don't consent, and your not ... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 28 January 2010: I'm getting confused, your messed up love life is hurting my head..
Guy A... he's the depressed one, the guy you move in with and start having sex with after a month. He's also the one you shared alcohol problems, cheating, trust issues, domestic... (read in full...)
She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...
A. 28 January 2010: Trouble.. I'm hoping for a happy ever after here.... please do your best.. ... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 28 January 2010: Had some further ideas, as an attempt to explain why some people enjoy pornography.
Sex with the partner you love is very different to an orgasm by yourself using pornography. One is a true expression of love, it involves care and an ability ... (read in full...)
I think my g/f is trying to get pregnant so I marry her. What do I do?
Q. I have been dating my g/f for more than 6 months now and she has been hinting about marriage. We have been having sex since our second month of dating and up until a few weeks ago I was using condoms. My girlfriend went on the pill so I would ...
A. 28 January 2010: A woman this manipulative is dangerous. Buy condoms and use them, and make sure she never touches them or you will find out that they mysteriously develop some holes.
A woman who is willing to lie, and trap you into something you are not ready fo... (read in full...)
I was dissapointed I was not pregnant at 15.
Q. Alright, well my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and last week we had a pregnancy scare, I'm not but for some reason we were both kind of disapointed when my period came. Even though we should have been over joyed. I mean if I ...
A. 28 January 2010: How old is your boyfriend, and how much dose he earn in this "amazing job" that he has? ... (read in full...)
Will he leave me when he looses weight?
Q. Ive a bf who is overweight. He is planning to have a surgery but Iam little bit worried because he may cheat on me after surgery. Cause Iam thinking that oh nowhe is overweight and he thinks no girl looks at her thats why he is really into me and ...
A. 28 January 2010: mmm.. sorry, but there are valid reasons to consider such things.. consider, not worry and drive yourself mad.
Many people who have dramatic weight lost do re-evaluate their lives and decide to change things for the better. Sometimes, as you said... (read in full...)
I feel like sex completely ruined everything.
Q. I've been dating this girl for a little over a month. She wasn't sure of her sexuality but decided to try it out. We've had an amazing time together. She told me she sees me in a romantic way, is attracted to me, turned on etc. She's been so sweet ...
A. 28 January 2010: As you said, she's not sure of her sexuality. She might be using you because she can't find a decent man. She might be in love with you, but trying hard to resist because she eventually wants to get married and have children.
The issue though i... (read in full...)
She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?
Q. Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...
A. 28 January 2010: Sounds like you really love her, and I think your right, you'll be lonely and miss her and probably regret leaving her for the rest of your life. It's difficult to forget the past, when it stares you in the face everyday. But she's not that silly ... (read in full...)
Is sleeping on the same couch with him wrong?
Q. is sleeping on the same couch as your boyfriend wrong if you have been going out for a number of months and nothing will happen? ...
A. 28 January 2010: Not wrong, but dangerous. When we are asleep, we get relaxed, and in that state, when you are warm, comfortable, wrapped up and feeling safe, emotions and strong feelings take over. Don't take the chance. If your not ready for sex, then it's best ... (read in full...)
We have unprotected sex a lot, but I don't fall pregnant
Q. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have sex a lot and he doesn't pull out. He never does. But I still don't get pregnant. and I don't take birth control or anything. Is this something I should worry about?...
A. 28 January 2010: Are you trying to get pregnant?... (read in full...)
He's a good guy, my parents love him, but I lost interest one year in.
Q. ok let me start from the begging. when i was younger my parents didnt let me go out at all. i wanted to go out and have fun with my friends at the mall and parties, i would beg to my parents to let me go out but they would make up excuses. by the ...
A. 28 January 2010: Making wrong decisions, running away and looking for fun is what got you into this situation in the first place. That's what happens when adults have fun and are irresponsible, there are consequences that we have to pay.
Divorcing this guy, lea... (read in full...)
I want our relationship back but don't know what to do
Q. My fiance and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He has taken on my 4 year old son as his own. Things were so good in the first 2 years of our relationship. We were so happy all of the time, except for the ocassional fight from time to ...
A. 28 January 2010: He's not well, he sounds like he has depression on top of his anxiety. He needs to see a doctor, and get some counselling and some tablets. It's not his fault, he's not well, he has an illness. Unfortunately you cannot be with him at this moment, ... (read in full...)
Lately, I've developed a liking for transexual porn.
Q. I'll start off by saying that I'm a 16 year old male and I've been watching internet porn for quite some time. Lately, I've developed a liking for transexual porn. I have absolutely no desire for a relationship with a male or a transexual so I don't ...
A. 28 January 2010: "I never believed all of that stuff on how internet porn is corruptive until now." (Quote)
Hey.. it's not the porn that's corruptive, porn didn't force you to do anything. Take responsibility for what you are doing. You choose to look at porn,... (read in full...)
He didnt get me a birthday present, am I just being used?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months. A few weeks ago he moved away for work for 3 months. It was my birthday last week and he sent me nothing. Yes he rang a few times on the day and sent a few texts...its not like he forgot. I asked him ...
A. 28 January 2010: Maybe he's broke, maybe he can't afford presents. Maybe it's like he said, he didn't know what to buy, and is still looking online.
Your 36-40years old, and your crying about a stupid birthday present... wow.. guy remembered to call, but no, that... (read in full...)
How do to "grinding"?
Q. I am going to a dance soon and there is always a lot of griding going on....can someone tell me in details how to do front grind nd back please...
A. 28 January 2010: It's impossible to tell someone how to dance. Wait until someone asks you to dance, then they'll show you what to do. It's not compulsory to "grind" when you is dancing, just move your body in a way that feels good and suitable to the music.... (read in full...)
Can dreams predict the future? Am I freaking out over nothing?
Q. I'm not sure if this post has anything to do with a relationship, but I really could use some help. I had a really weird dream last night, and I'm not sure what it meant. I'd like to hear from anyone who knows about dream analysis. I...
A. 28 January 2010: Ok.. Dream analysis.. I'll give it a try.
Sometimes dreams can be read as our mind problem solving whilst we sleep. It takes problems, feelings, and situations from our everyday life, turns them into stories and fills them with symbols.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man, he wants sex, but if I give it he might break up with me
Q. i am dating this married guy, i am married too. i am 18 years old and he is 32. i know is kinda crazy but im really attracted to him. we met by our job, it was my first time i worked and damm! it happened, i am so into him, maybe is because i have ...
A. 28 January 2010: Your 18 years old..... How long have you been married.... And already your flirting and dating with a older married guy... and your little joke.. hahahaha.. NOT VERY FUNNY AT ALL...
What is gonna happen when your husband finds out all about yo... (read in full...)
We're getting married but we have issues
Q. Ok where to start I’m 21 years old I got with my first boyfriend when I was 12 my mother allowed him to move in with me, once I had sex with him at 13 he started putting his hands on me I stayed with him for almost a year only because my mother ...
A. 28 January 2010: Your not old enough to get married, you have so many issues that need to be sorted out first.
MONEY!!!!! Yep, I know that this is important to you, your a survior, and money is therefore very important to you. But the amount of emphasis you put ... (read in full...)
Emotional cheating, should I accept it and move forward?
Q. If your partner/spouse of over 30 years with whom you had been very happy (most of that time) cheated on you emotionally and got close to someone else to confide in instead of you although declaring how much they love and always have loved you, ...
A. 28 January 2010: After 30 years of marriage, and my guy still loves me, but was "emotionally close" to another woman, spent time with her and shared his problems with her and is no longer in touch with her, (probably because I disapprove).
Hahaha... I'd be kissi... (read in full...)
My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her
Q. My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding....
A. 28 January 2010: Honeypie, remember, guys like this start off with comments, and if they have nothing to fear, then they make it physical. He's got to be stopped, before he grabs your wife and assaults her for real. At the moment he has nothing to fear, so he ... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 24 January 2010: Original poster.. as I said, "don't ask, don't tell" may be a good way for you to get over this. Tell your guy how much it disgust you, and then ask him to find away of following his porn "hobby", in a way that doesn't expose you to it. He can ... (read in full...)
My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her
Q. My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding....
A. 23 January 2010: Under reacting..
This is serious sexual harrassment, and she has witnesses. Take her to the Citizen's Advice Bureau and get advice about making plans to sue him. Her boss is rude with a big mouth, he should pay for his bad manners with money. ... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 22 January 2010: Bharat Mehta can you please write a longer article about sexual pleasure done in a more spiritual way. It would be a great help to many couples in developing sexual intimacy in a more satisfying way. I study tantric, and the emphasis in society on ... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 22 January 2010: Damn.. so sorry babes, I'm one of them women who has no problems with pornography. I've found it very useful in helping women develop their sexuality, open their minds and get over past issues of abuse. I am thankful to many of the people working ... (read in full...)
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