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I think this website is great, helpful and really positive for those needing advise and help.
I have a boyfriend in the army, a younger sister, housemates and many other friends and family members that in the past I have been through alot with!! I feel from the things that I have experienced so far, I can offer my advise to hopefully make peoples problems a little easier to deal with.
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I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!
Q. I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...
A. 24 January 2010: To be perfectly blunt and honest, I think what you have done is extremely wrong, you are a married man and whether or not you felt you were having troubles in your marriage, the last thing to do is to befriend a 19 year old and end up having sex ... (read in full...)
My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?
Q. I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?...
A. 24 January 2010: Well, do you like him? Do you think he is your type? Don't listen to what other people tell you as they arent the ones that will either be with him or not with him!! That person is you. So Definitely make the decision based on what you feel, not ... (read in full...)
Is 2 months too soon to get sexual?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend just asked me if i would let him figure me. i said yes cause i really want to get sexual with him. We have been going out for 2 months on the 24th and I am just wondering if we are going to fast? I don't want to rush things, but ...
A. 23 January 2010: If you're already having second thoughts about your decision to say yes, its a sign you're probably not ready. When you first start seeing someone, its easy to get carried away with your feelings and go too far sexually, you don't want to do ... (read in full...)
How often and when should I kiss her?
Q. Ok i'm 14 and male and my gf just kissed the first time today, now were going onto the weekend so I can sorta think on this and maybe listen to y'all! when do I kiss her in the day or when in school do I kiss her?...
A. 22 January 2010: Sounds like you're over thinking things? You should just chill out and relax, and wait for it to happen when the time feels right. You could make it feel awkward and a bit tense if you decide on a particular time.. !
When you have a spare few minu... (read in full...)
Help! Did I make the right decision...?
Q. Today i broke up with my long boyfriend called Sean who lives in ireland and who is the same age as me and i got asked out by a boy that goes to my school and he is called Fraser. Fraser was one of my ex boyfriends in the past and broke my heart a ...
A. 22 January 2010: I agree, the guy that was mean to you infront of your friends sounds horrible and hurtful. I wouldnt trust him again!!!
As for Sean, sounds like he does really like you, the trouble is, can you cope with him being so far away?? Maybe you can't an... (read in full...)
I broke up with him because I thought I couldn't handle a committed relationship, but then I realised how wrong I was! Now he wont take me back because he is enjoying being single too much!
Q. i broke up with my ex tim* 4 months ago (we were together for a year and a half and completely in love) because this is our senior year and i felt like i missed out on having fun with my own friends and i felt like i was in a committed relationship ...
A. 22 January 2010: I think you need to remember the way you hurt him when you first broke up with him. After all, you were the one that started the uncertainty about the relationship. He probably remembers the sadness he felt and is trying to avoid going through it ... (read in full...)
Should I let her back in my life?
Q. Hey. Heres the story... I have a friend lets call her *K* and we have been really close for just over 4 years. In september we moved up to college, and she was doing a diploma and i was doing A-levels. We didnt see each other as often but we still ...
A. 22 January 2010: She clearly has got in with a different circle of friends. I think it's important that you don't take these things personally making yourself upset and crying over it is so sad to hear, you sound like a genuine person who valued the friendship of ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about my issues? WITHOUT yelling, screaming, or becoming hostile.
Q. I am becoming one of those girls that yell at their boyfriend about everything. I feel automatically horrible and a lot of the time it's just because I want him to understand something that is bothering me. I feel I may have an anger issue. Whenever ...
A. 22 January 2010: It's always easy to let yourself get carried away with your frustrations, I know exactly how you feel, sometimes its easier to get things done by just shouting and getting an immediate response.
However.. as you say its causing your relation... (read in full...)
Am I just fantasizing about other people due to boredom in this relationship?
Q. Ive been in a relationship for 13 months and it has been quite turbulent to put it politely. The guy im with i have been friends with for 4 years before we got together. I have recently stopped smoking cannabis after years of smoking it and i am ...
A. 22 January 2010: I agree, your boyfriend gets upset when you tell him your frustrations, but he's not crying about losing you he's crying for himself and how difficult things would be without you. You're obviously a strong woman who has put up with working har... (read in full...)
Building a new social life is going to take such a long time, while my sexual frustration is increasing! What should I do?
Q. I'm a 26 year old male with very little experience in sexual and romantic matters. I became really fed up with this situation and i´ve decided to change it by making an effort to act in a more open a confident way and "put myself out there", leaving ...
A. 22 January 2010: It sounds like your a lovely guy with a need of a confidence boost!
Don't worry about it, get yourself into things you enjoy, sport? fitness? photography? cooking? etccc. join some social groups or look for singles evenings. To be honest, there is n... (read in full...)
Should I just be her friend for now? I don't want to get stuck in "friends zone" though.
Q. i went on a first date with this girl, and we had a great time, she admitted it was a great time. She lives a little far away so we cant see each other a whole lot but we txt each other everyday and i make her laugh alot. but she told me after our ...
A. 22 January 2010: Lets face it, if mr or mrs right comes along, no matter whats happened in the past its not likely that you let them pass.
I think you need to say to her that you like her, you want to be more than friends and leave her to make the decision... (read in full...)
How on earth can I get over him watching porn?
Q. Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been ...
A. 22 January 2010: Right... to begin with you are normal, of course you are, don't be so silly!!!!!!!
EVERY woman compares their body to others, and unless you are 100000% happy with your body you are likely to have things that you believe you're lacking.
My boyfri... (read in full...)
How often do teenage couples spend time together?
Q. How often do teenage couples spend time together? With work and school, how much in enough? I currently am interested in someone, but I don't want to commit because I may not be around all the time and it seems unfair making him wait around. I also ...
A. 22 January 2010: When you meet someone that you think is worth spending time with then I'm sure you won't feel worried about committing. I can totally understand that being your age means not much extra time to simply 'hang out' school takes up so much time on it's ... (read in full...)
One last text to make him feel bad
Q. i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special and pressured into sex.. and i gave in and i regret it and hate myself SO much:( he didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not..it was yesterday and i dont think hes e...
A. 21 January 2010: Totally agree with the other answers. This guy clearly thinks you're going to be desperately waiting for his next text, call etc. Dont give him the satisfaction!!! Play him at his own game, and just forget him. You reeeally dont want to be wasting ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!
Q. Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I ha...
A. 21 January 2010: Wow, so you're worried about not having a boyfriend at 14..! I didnt have my first boyfriend until I was 18!! This girl that has had 45 boyfriends... HOW??!?! She must change them every 5 minutes?!! I dont know anyone.. ANYONE who has had that many ... (read in full...)
I become obsessed with famous people and feel like I freak for being this way.
Q. okay heres the thing im a 15 year old girl and I become obsessed with famous people. it all started off when i was younger about 10 and im still doing it. its like i imagine being in that persons life and them loving me. im not in love with them, bu...
A. 21 January 2010: You're only 15! Don't panic...!!! Everyone at your age has those kind of thoughts, I remember when I was that sort of age, I LOVEED Leonardo Dicaprio.. big time. He was all I could think about!! Honestly, its just a bit of fun because we all know ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to let him give me oral in case I smell!
Q. heyy, i am in a relationship and love this guy a lot but i stop him going to give me oral because i am paranoid that i smell down there. can you give me any advice on how to over come this? thank you =)...
A. 21 January 2010: If you love this guy enough, you trust him, you're comfortable with him, and you want to do it, then let him know you're anxious and try it out! To be honest I think its something we ALL worry about, simply because - that part of everyone smells!! ... (read in full...)
It seems whenever I open my heart for someone I get crushed, its getting really hard to trust girls now!
Q. love sucks. Ive really liked two different girls in the past 2 months, and both of them have hung out with me a lot, told me they really liked me, kissed me and everything looked promising and for one reason or another they slowly became distant a...
A. 21 January 2010: okay, its easy to understand why you feel that 'love sucks' when you feel that you really like someone and they don't feel the same way or don't continue to act in the way that you like it can be so crushing.
What I suggest is not to go looking ... (read in full...)
I feel my boyfriend is taking advantage of me...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months now on and off, i do love him but i think he is taking advantage of me, he works and i go to school, i do not ask him for money but he does, where does his money go? well from what i know he less than ...
A. 21 January 2010: Hmm this is tricky, I think the fact that he works is the biggest problem, he clearly has enough money to run a car and to take his girlfriend out, I mean some men have to support their entire family of one or two kids, cars, pets, bills etc. if he ... (read in full...)
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