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How do I get rid of this hair around my belly button?

Q.   I have a hairy belly and I'm a girl. it's not extremely hairy, it's like every other girl, but because I'm Asian and have black hair you can see the hair. It looks really terrible. I love wearing short tops that show my belly but I can't because ...

A.   3 October 2010: Its quiet natural and you don't need to worry. There is nothing wrong if you shave (shave is the best way rather than any other method). I am also asian in my 50s, have dark black hairs, starts about 3-4 inches below my navel. I had been shaving ... (read in full...)

Relatives criticizing me for what I wear around the house

Q.   my question is regarding wearing below navel low on hips. i am a housewife live in karachi. i wear sarees or salwar kameez suits. at house i avoid any under garments. i feel comfortable wearing any bottom below navel low on hips and at home without ...

A.   19 September 2010: I will do because I am also grown up in a culture to be a good host and make guests comfortable and cater to their needs. Our culture also for guest is to greet hosts and not to hurt them. Why elderly guests can't tolerate their host as they fee... (read in full...)

Is this boy dirty?

Q.   I am from Pakistan. In our culture elders use to hug and kiss children for blessing. It is a normal and routine practice. About a month before I hugged and kissed my 16 years old nephew and for the first time (never happened before) when I was ...

A.   19 September 2010: Understand answers by chigirl, TalkingHelps, Soon103 and AnnieLuck that I should kiss on cheeks instead of lips. I myself also thought to hug and kiss different with young adult boys and and I found above 4 answers like that only. Any way particul... (read in full...)

Relatives criticizing me for what I wear around the house

Q.   my question is regarding wearing below navel low on hips. i am a housewife live in karachi. i wear sarees or salwar kameez suits. at house i avoid any under garments. i feel comfortable wearing any bottom below navel low on hips and at home without ...

A.   19 September 2010: Thanks Ask oldersister, johnnyrockets and followtheblackrabbit. All three advises are same and I hope it will work. I will do it. Thanks again. Najma... (read in full...)

My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!

Q.   My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...

A.   18 September 2010: It is wrong. If any incident happens accidently is different and ignorable. When you say your sil doesn't mind being nacked it is not good. I don't like it. Najma... (read in full...)

My elderly neighbour had a go at me for dressing too revealing!

Q.   my question is regarding wearing saree, i am a housewife. i wear sarees only, recently was hurt when my neighbour, an old lady rebuked me for wearing a saree sexily, whe said that i should not expose hips n navel when i wear saree. i have got used ...

A.   16 September 2010: You just ignore her. Being an old lady always respect her in decent manner and wear as you like. Absolutely thare is nothing wrong in wearing saree below navel low on hips. It is comfortable, good for health and gives a lady elegance. Najma ... (read in full...)

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