Is revenge worthwhile or just a waste of time?
Q. I would like to know what you think about this question.. Is revenge really worth anything, or it is just a waste of time? ...
A. 18 May 2011: I can speak from experience evil brings more evil. You can't let the bad things in life change the person you are. It will only make you more like the person who hurt you. best revenge is when they finally realize that what you've been telling them ... (read in full...)
I resent my boyfriend sometimes to the point that it disgusts me
Q. Hey aunts and uncles.. I have been using this site for a while but this is the first question that I have posted. I am very nervous so please be gentle with me. My problem is my hard to explain but here goes... I have borderline personality di...
A. 7 April 2011: i was in a relationship similar in which i was always on my GF about getting her finance in order. i took care of her and her 3 kids but it was like she really did not care about anything. she was in an abusive relationship before no matter what i ... (read in full...)
Am I out of line expecting more out of my mate?
Q. Me and my fiance are having problems ever since I asked her to marry me. First it was the ring, she wants something bigger and more expensive. Its hard for me because I am unemployed. Second she constantly points out things that are wrong and things ...
A. 18 February 2011: Just stay away from her. Be thankful that this happened now and not after u got married god has something better for u good luck... (read in full...)
Am I out of line expecting more out of my mate?
Q. Me and my fiance are having problems ever since I asked her to marry me. First it was the ring, she wants something bigger and more expensive. Its hard for me because I am unemployed. Second she constantly points out things that are wrong and things ...
A. 16 February 2011: I was in a similar relationship where I did everything for my ex and her kids. I paid mortgage on a house that I did not even live in and it still was not enough. Just get away from people like this they will only bring u down with them because of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend HATES affection.Should I seriously reconsider this relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years....he hates affection. I on the other hand am very, very affectionate. We are both in our early 30's and there have been talks about getting married in the future but I'm not sure that I can marry ...
A. 26 December 2010: you really should rethink your relationship it will not get any better. if he is unwilling to show you now that he loves you what make you think that he will when your married. i was in a relationship where i did almost everything to make my GF ... (read in full...)
How can I ever be appreciated for who I am, by him? Instead his ex was always better
Q. Hi, I've been with my bf for over a year now, and he often talks about the good old times with his ex. Well the thing is, he used to be quite attractive when he was young. Girls would do a lot of things just to be with him. He mentioned a lot of t...
A. 26 December 2010: Stop beating u self up. Money does not bring happiness a gift from the heart means more. You should tell him the next time he mentions his ex that why isn't he with them. You have to realize that he you can only do so much. The past is the past. ... (read in full...)
He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back
Q. So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...
A. 26 December 2010: Sometimes in life we don't realize what we have until its gone how were you toward the guy who treated u like a queen. Why did u leave him? These are questions you have to ask yourself... (read in full...)
He said I was cheating but 2 years later he wants to try again
Q. When you've dated someone for a long time and broke up because he said you were cheating. Then he turns around and buy you a christmas present 2 years later does that mean he wants to get back with you and make a furture with you? because i still ...
A. 25 December 2010: did you really cheat on him? if so you both need to discuss what really made him break up with you? Good luck... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend the monster wants to try again!
Q. I don't know what is right or wrong anymore about love. My exbf was a monster. He ripped my heart out and taunted and did vicious things to me for entire year after he dumped me. I went all the way down hill and hibernated but he still found ways to ...
A. 25 December 2010: i had a similar situation in which my ex wife left me for another man i was heart broken and wanted her back after a while she came back. although i still loved her it was not the same i knew that the trust was gone and it would never be the same. ... (read in full...)
Negative wife but I love her. How can I better cope with her outlook?
Q. Wow, where do I start? My wife and I have been married a long time, and its been challenging since the start. We both come from unhappy childhoods, and it's affected us in different ways. In her case, her father was a total prick and treated her ...
A. 22 December 2010: I know how u feel I was in a relationship where no matter what I did my gf was not happy. Some people just have issues that they have 2 resolve with themselve first. U can't make a person happy they have be happy for themselves. U realized that u ... (read in full...)
I cannot love him, even although we're married... Help!
Q. I have been married for the last 12 years, have wonderful 2 kids. My husband is a good man. We belong to different cultures. It was a difficult for me to adjust but I knew what I was getting into. I fell out of love with him a long time back. I ...
A. 17 December 2010: Why are u so unhappy? Have u spoke to him as to what he has done to make u feel this way? Communication is key to any relationship he not a mindreader he may be doing something that he does not realize. Does he love u? ... (read in full...)
I can't watch him destroy his life, what should I do?
Q. Should I stay with my boyfriend? Way to get right to the point right, it's just that my boyfriend and I live in two very different worlds. We started going out about two years ago, fall 2009 he went away to college, and when he came back last ...
A. 17 December 2010: What I've leared the hard way is u can change a person. They must be willing to change on ther own. You really need to sid down with him and tell him that u think he is destroying his self and u feel like leaving. if he does not change then you ... (read in full...)
His daughter will always be more special to him than I am, how do I get over this?
Q. Please help me, I want to leave but am so scared. I have been with my boyfriend 1 year. He is 7 years older than me. He has a daughter of 5 and I get along well with his daughter but do sometimes suffer with jealousy towards her,, although I never...
A. 15 December 2010: Why is it so different for men to feel this way. I have daughters from previsous relatioships and they will always come first. At the end of the day when that guy or girl leaves u your kids are always going to be there. It not to say that he does ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my first heart-break?
Q. About a week ago, I finally "manned up" and told the girl I love how I feel about her (by writing a note to her). This is the first time I have ever had to do this because I have never felt that way about a girl before, and as I am pretty shy it was ...
A. 14 December 2010: Don't get down it all part of life not everyone is going to feel the same way towards u as u may feel for them. Take it as a learing experience and try not be down. Goodluck ... (read in full...)
He's not their biological father, so I don't understand why he wants to keep in contact?
Q. Hi, I am going through a lot these days. I have a tough situation I am dealing with. I have a new topic. I have been together with My boyfriend for a year. He recently got a divorce from someone he was married to for 6 years. He has been sepa...
A. 14 December 2010: It a real difficult decision 2 make I myself am in the same situation my ex want me 2 still be a part of her daughters life but I have to begin distancing myself because I think in the end I will get hurt. Just like ur bf because when his ex find a ... (read in full...)
How to stop arguing and save our family?
Q. I have been with the same amazing man for almost 18 months now and engaged for almost 16 of the months. We have a 6 month old daughter and just got our own place in a new state. We have been in this new house for almost 3 months, but we have been ...
A. 13 December 2010: Maybe he feels unappreciated like he's doing everything ur not doing anything. This causes a lot arguments and stress. U both need to sid down and see how u both can help eachother out. Goodluck
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After 3 weeks he needed space, now he's talking to his ex-wife!
Q. A guy that I was seeing for 3 weeks told me he needed space for a little while. Now he is talking to his ex wife..The problem is he left something personal at my house. I want to take it to him, but I am torn between getting over him and giving him ...
A. 11 December 2010: Just give him sometime it will be good for both of u. If he love u he will be back. How long has him and his ex been seperated. Just don't get to caught up because u will get hurt even more.... (read in full...)
Having an affair and torn between my love and my husband!
Q. Hi, I am a married woman(33yrs)and i am having an affair for the last 1 year with a single man (31yrs) My husband( 55yrs) and i have a daughter together(3 yrs) and been together for 8 yrs. My affair started whn my husband wanted to divorce me aft...
A. 10 December 2010: The grass is not always greener on the other side. Councling will help but u have start thinking what u will di if ur husband leaves. Good luck... (read in full...)
I want to leave with my daughter and move on with my life. Am I wrong for wanting to be happy?
Q. I am 22 years old. I have been married to my husband for a little over 3 years. We have a 2 year old daughter together and he has 3 children from a previous marriage. In the beginning of my marriage my husband was great, we did everything together. ...
A. 9 December 2010: It might be best to leave but remember that all new relationshps are great at the begining just take ur time to be happy with ur hids. Good luck... (read in full...)
Help!!! Unhappily married...
Q. I am a 29 year married female with a 3 year old son. I have been married for almost 8 years and throughout our marriage have had ups and downs. Something has been missing for a long time. I am a full time working professional and throughout my ...
A. 9 December 2010: I felt like this with gf I was paying for everything and she still was not happy. She recently left because she said that we grew apart but it was she failed to grow up and be responsible. Have u spoken to ur husband and expressed how you feel ... (read in full...)
I want to tell him what makes me hot, but how?
Q. How do I explain to the guy I'm dating my favorite way of getting my nipples hard? I have large breasts (34ddd) so guys usually love them, and this guy is no exception (although I am quite small other than my breasts and feel a little imbalanced ...
A. 9 December 2010: Just tell him be open he may tell u somthing that he like also goodluck... (read in full...)
Can someone please translate this guy-speak?
Q. Hey, can any guys or girls reading this please translate some guy speak for me? I've been with my bf for 2 months. He showed me a text he sent to his female friend who he has known for years about a party they're going to next week. He'd tex...
A. 29 November 2010: guys answer thing different from girls. to a guy ok is just that ok most guy will not go into detail it like looking at a flower most guys will say it ok. but girl will be more descriptive in that it so beautiful and look at color. it just how guys ... (read in full...)
He wants an open relationship and I can't handle it! how do I let go?
Q. Need help letting go...Been w boyfriend for 9 years. We see each other once a month for 5 days (LDR) he moved 8 months ago for job. I have put alot of effort into this relationship from the start. Did not move down w him because of my job and he w...
A. 29 November 2010: it just another way of him saying he wants to be with other people and still be able to hook up with you when he get back. don't be a back up plan. if he want be faithful to u as you are being to him.
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Need help on how to deal with father-in-law to be
Q. I need help!! Ok, I am 20 yrs old and I have been with my fiance for almost 4 yrs. We had our own mobile home but someone burned it down in august. I found out I was pregnant a couple weeks ago and we are having to live w/his dad for now. I just ...
A. 29 November 2010: it not much you can do. did you ever try to talk to him while he is sober. what does your BF
think. maybe you should start seperating his food from yours. this way he does not have to touch your food.
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My boyfriend keeps referring to the issues in my life as "baggage"1
Q. I'm going through a tough time right now and need some advice. I am In love with a man who constantly refers to the things going on in my life as baggage. To break it down these are the things he has issues with and how I'm dealing with them. Firs...
A. 28 November 2010: as a guy i can understand what he is talking about i just recently got out of a relationship where i kept picking my Gf out of her own problems. she seem to keep making the same mistakes with money and i was alway trying to pick her up. i tried ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 26 November 2010: for guys and girls sex have different meaning for guys sex is just that sex it more physical like a notch on there belt to say i was wit her. but for girls it more emotional and it more complex as a girl you would know. also when a person cheats it ... (read in full...)
At what point do you throw in the towel?
Q. What would you suggest in this situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. We are both deeply unsatisfied with the relationship but have seem to have trouble letting go. According to him, the biggest problems are the lack of sex ...
A. 26 November 2010: what exactly are you look for him to do to show you that he loves you. i think you both have to sit down and discuss what the real issues are. you have to make yourself happy. i was i a relationship where i gave and gave an got nothing in return. ... (read in full...)
Is love enough? Should I leave, should I ask him to leave?
Q. Is love enough? Should I leave? I have been dating someone for 20 months, but I think I am at the point where I am ready to give up. During this time we have argued at least once a month about the same things (i.e. cleaning, finances, moving...
A. 24 November 2010: i just recently go out of a situation like this. and found myself always trying to pick her up finacially, and emotionally and it just became like i was her father. we were going out for 5 years and we had our ups and down i've been married before ... (read in full...)
Does this mean deep down I am not happy in my new relationship?
Q. Hi guys, some help would really be appreciated. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years back in October 2007. It was a very traumatic break up as he had moved abroad and started seeing someone else. He broke up with me by email. For a year my li...
A. 24 November 2010: you are always going to think about the good times of your life and that all it should be memories because you alway have to remember that he was the one that left you. how do you know that he will be willing to talk to you. you need to concentrate ... (read in full...)
My married lover returned to his wife. Should I try to salvage my own marriage?
Q. i've been married 10 years. were generally unhappy. what my therapist calls a toxic relationship. i stayed for the kids. had no feelings for my husband nor him for me. i had a friend (S) who's also married (no kids) our friendship sort of developed ...
A. 22 November 2010: you really have to ask yourself what are the thing that are making your marriage toxic? the same way you talked to him did you try talking to your husband? this is what most couples fail to do rather than sitting down and talking to there spouse ... (read in full...)
I have a partner but I want to holiday alone
Q. I live with my partner of 10 years, we are both in our 50's, we both took early retirement and I now find we have very little in common although I do love him. I find myself wanting to go on holiday abroad with a solo group - this is because I want ...
A. 22 November 2010: you should tell him how you feel if he really loves you he will to do some of the thing that you want to do every relationship is a compromise. i would tell him my intentions and if he disagrees then you shold go alone and really thing about your ... (read in full...)
Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?
Q. 11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me ...
A. 16 November 2010: only you can decide if you want to take her back. but you have to ask yourself if she left you now will she do it again. when you love someone want to try and make it work but sometimes it best to just move on.
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His current girlfriend is clearly not right for him, and there is so much attraction between us! How should I handle this situation?
Q. Hey Guys, I have a bit of a situation , not sure what to do. There was a guy I was hooking up with just over a year ago , started to fall in love with him - we didn't go anywhere but seem to be growing closer and closer and calls me his best ma...
A. 15 November 2010: i think the best thing to do is "Run" he is telling you all these bad things about her but he still stays. you have to wonder what's keeping him there. if he just a friend treat his as such. i think he might be looking for a backup plan. You should ... (read in full...)
Boyfriends best friend confuses me!
Q. Hey there, So I have this "problem" (4 a lack of better words), I'm confused about my boyfriend's best friend and men in general. So let me tell u all about it and if u can give me your opinion I'd b truly grateful. My boyfriend and I have b...
A. 14 November 2010: The true question is do you still have feeling for him?
it might be best to just stay away for him ... (read in full...)
I bought her a house and proposed, she's still not happy!
Q. i been i a relationship with my girlfriend for close to 6 years. and no matter what i do she does not seem to be happy. i bought a house for her and her kids to live in. ive asked her to marry me. but she is still un happy. she doe not help me with ...
A. 14 November 2010: i sat her down and spoke to her and told her that she really need to see someone but she still did not listen.
since she stated that she wanted to leave i stopped giving her any money. and what do you know the 2nd week she ran out of gas how does... (read in full...)
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