Separated for 12 years but not divorced -- am I being too picky?
Q. I have been talking(texting) to this guy i met online for about a month. He told me he was divorced and had 2 girls and I didn't mind at all.........I love kids and I too am divorced so.... Today I met him for the first time and during conversation ...
A. 8 January 2011: That is not prudish at all! You are wise and careful. If he really didn't want his wife he would divorce her. Intimacy at this stage still would be considered an affair. Kudos to you! I'd suggest telling him you aren't comfortable seeing him while ... (read in full...)
I asked her out because her friend told me she liked me, but she said no!
Q. Hello, So I am 14 and am really starting to like this one girl. She is a year younger and is very pretty. The one bad thing is that we have only hung out like 3-4 times. Her friend said that she liked me and wanted me to ask her out. We were ha...
A. 13 December 2010: She's thirteen, and maybe it's her first relationship. In my case , I see 2 different scenarios: 1. Her mom/dad told her that you needed to know her better first. My best friends divorced parents are often wary about her getting into relationships ... (read in full...)
He's my sun shine
Q. He's the sun. He brightens my day, he keeps me warm and whenever I'm an arms length away from him, I melt. I've known him for 7 years now and I've liked him for 7 years. Back then I didn't know that he would become this important in my life. ...
A. 31 August 2010: I love this question. I love it. Why? Because it makes me so happy that there is real love out there, not just getting married to your long time friend or to someone you aren't crazy about. There I nothing wrong with you. You're in love. Yes, he may ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went back to his ex while I was pregnant, but now he wants to come back to me! Should I give him another chance?
Q. I'm 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend who i've not been with for long. I became in love with him very quick and even though my family was shocked at me being pregnant at 18 they became happy and excited. Just last week i found out he was meeting ...
A. 23 August 2010: Um, NO. He can't just have both girls an when one dumps him have te other one! Uh-uh. He may be the father of your child, but that doesn't mean a thing. Go find someone else to be the father of your child, one who actually cares about you and the ... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 22 August 2010: Trust me guys, I don't know anything more to the story, but thank you all for your warnings and apparent worry for me. Thank you all... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 21 August 2010: Askoldersister- no, I totally understand your warning, just the one where it said she was lying about being raped? I understand the person who said that, too, my only thing is she doesn't have any reason to be ashamed about having sex, if it WAS her ... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yes, I know it is 'Springer-esque' but I am just saying what I heard. And I didn't believe that he came to her house either at first until I learned he only lived a block down from her and he knew her, actually he had been stalking her. I just got ... (read in full...)
Could he be cheating?
Q. okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 4 months. im am living with him! and our relation ship is great. we never fight about whos cheating on who. his very romantic he always brings flowers to me. and soo on.okay so i founf a ...
A. 21 August 2010: If he was mysterious about it, maybe he was planning a 'suprise in the bedroom' with it. And what he said about not having time for another girl that's very sweet although maybe he was upset about you ruining the 'suprise'. Don't take it seriously ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong that I had sex?
Q. I have a problem now that im starting 11th grade boys are very tempting about sex. my boyfriend and i of 3 years had sex and now i feel all weird at first we didnt say that much 2 each other and now we talk alot.. for me loseing my virginity at 16 ...
A. 7 August 2010: My dear, did you feel you were ready for it? If you didn't and were pressured into it, talk to a counselor or parent. I know my advice is against what most would say, but if you wanted to do it and it turned ou not being so great, maybe talk to your ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am her second choice best friend!
Q. My best friend is like a dear sister to me. I love her forever and she is my best friend. We agree about this a lot and hhave lots of notes and necklaces saying what best friends we are. However, whenever I am over she is always asking other people ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thank you so much! That makes me feel a lot better. :)... (read in full...)
Why am I still having these feelings for my ex when I'm happy with my boyfriend?
Q. I even feel awful saying this but... I have a new boyfriend who I really care about, he's a great guy and I have really strong feelings for him, everything between us is fine and I don't understand why even though I have moved on I am jealous of my ...
A. 4 August 2010: It's called heartbreak, and the only medicenes are time and time. The first time is just to wait it out. The second time is to befriend your ex. If you can't or don't want to be emotionally attached to him, even just a simple walk around town might ... (read in full...)
My aunt and I lived like we were married but then she married someone else!
Q. Im 19 yers old and i've become a part of an incest with my aunt (age:24) it was all started by me when i was 16! We used to sleep in my room in different bed !! One night i kissed her when she was sleeping! One night it all happend, but she...
A. 4 August 2010: She was unconcious when you went 'all the way'. She is your aunt, and when you hugged her she didn't refuse because she I your aunt. Now, I am not an expert on your relationship with her, but I am not surethat she felt the same way about you or even ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin if she will go out with me?
Q. I'm in love with my cousin, and i'm pretty sure she feels the same way about me. So what I want to know is: How do I ask her if she'll go out with me? I've been with other girls, but it's just not the same......
A. 4 August 2010: I would approach her when she was alone. Ask her carefully and kindly, "hey (blank), can I talk to you? I hope you feel the same way about me and if you don't I will understand, but for a long time I think I have liked you as more than a cousin. I ... (read in full...)
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