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Hello everyone,

I am a 22 yr old female from the Midwest. I've been in a few long term relationships and a few not so long term. I'm on here not only to give others my point of view, or see things from a different perspective but I am also here to learn about different instances and different dynamics of relationships from other peoples point of view and their perspective based on their knowledge, experience, and/or opinion.

Thanks,

TTYS

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A.   12 February 2012: Yes I did ask about the living situation and he is still living with his wife. It sounds more and more to pme that he isn't really getting divorced, it seems a little too coninsidentail but why through all the trouble of lying?... (read in full...)

He's twice my age, has children and has asked me out. I've accepted but where do I go from here?

Q.   Oh my gosh. So today at work I was talking to the man who is twice my age and who I am interested in and he has admitted to being attracted to me as well...., and he asked me on a date!! (Reminder: he has been married for 18 years and currentl...

A.   10 February 2012: Last night we talked on the phone for nearly an hour, HE did what you all told me to do, to be up front about what this is... He said he wants to take things very slowly (which actually makes me think that he wants this to develop into something) I ... (read in full...)

I tested positive for HIV. I very obviously got it from my boyfriend but he's turning around and blaming me for everything!

Q.   Hello all I have a very sad story to tell and I need some advice as I am at breaking point. I have been tested HIV positive recently, and that was already really hard to deal with...I had a boyfriend and on the day I found it out, I cound't br...

A.   10 February 2012: Wow this is a heartbreaking story that happens all too often. Men sleeping around, catching something, sleeping with their significant other and passing it along...and then have the NERVE to blame us, the women and tell us that we're the ones who ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fancy a woman who is 25 when your 44?

Q.   Im from the usa and 44 im divored 10 years this march and always dated woman my age . I'm friends with this Irish woman at work and its strange because when i see this particular woman my heart pounds weirdly fast! This woman she is about 5...

A.   10 February 2012: No that is not weird at all, I am 23 and recently broke things off with my fiancé of 3 years... There is a man whom I see almost daily at my workplace, he is 42, and in the middle of a divorce from his wife of 18 years... For the last year there has ... (read in full...)

I'm married and she has a boyfriend but I cannot ignore my attraction to her, how do I ask her out?

Q.   There is a new lady in office. She is 38 and I am 26. She is really very cute and hot at the same time...rare combination but yes she is. I have been wondering how to ask her out and what subjects could I talk to her on to attract her towards me. ...

A.   10 February 2012: Ohhh I missed the first sentence, there's a new lady in the office, give her time to acclimatize And get comfortable with the new routine and daily activities. You don't want to be like the guys from Anchorman with Will Farrell - all trying to date... (read in full...)

Should my spy reply to this message?

Q.   I asked a male friend of mine on FB to do some snoop work for me about a potential future boyfriend. The chap who wanted to help me ended up receiving an actual message from the guy (bf) in question telling him that a little bird told him that he's ...

A.   10 February 2012: Honestly I spent about 45 mins today looking around the Internet for Info and more background info about my new interest just to see if there was anything I needed to know out that may jeaporize my safety or well- being. Now i prolly wouldnt ... (read in full...)

I'm married and she has a boyfriend but I cannot ignore my attraction to her, how do I ask her out?

Q.   There is a new lady in office. She is 38 and I am 26. She is really very cute and hot at the same time...rare combination but yes she is. I have been wondering how to ask her out and what subjects could I talk to her on to attract her towards me. ...

A.   9 February 2012: I am in the reverse situation. I am 23 and recently ended things with my fiancé. For the last year I have had an interest and attraction to a regular customer at my workplace whom I see almost everyday and speak with for a good amount of time, ... (read in full...)

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

Q.   So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know ...

A.   9 February 2012: Please read the newest update of my situation it's part 2. I need advice and insight... (read in full...)

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

Q.   So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know ...

A.   7 February 2012: Deagan, in this situation I do not feel i am a rebound. I haven't taken any initiative towards something more, so im not being used for anything. however the attraction and "tension" for lack of a better term has been there for over a year. And you ... (read in full...)

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

Q.   So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know ...

A.   7 February 2012: Wow thank you for your responses. You have given me points of views that I haven't look at the situation from. And yes there are children involved - he has 2 boys. ... (read in full...)

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