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Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: Ah.. found your claim..
"“In 2003, a meeting of the American Academy of marriage advocates, two-thirds of the 350 divorce lawyers who attended said the Internet played a significant role in divorces in the past year, with excessive interest in onli... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: calico58,
You've stated that pornography is the number one cause of divorce in the UK. That is a very intresting claim to make. So like you, I've turned to the internet and am doing research on statistics relevant to the UK.
Firstly, ... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: "when using unresonable behaviour as a reason for divorce you have to give 5 reasons no more no less"
Divorces are granted for "unreasonable behaviour", not pornography use. As you said yourself, you have to give five reasons not just one. As... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 9 February 2010: Sorry, I'm British... I looked in the dictionary, but I don't understand.. What's an Ingwe, Is it painful, will his penis drop off?... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 8 February 2010: "in fact it is still one of the biggest causes for divorce worldwide and im pretty sure that the divotrce states porn use rather than insecurity"
Actually I would love to see statistics to prove this, if you have any. Pornography use is not a re... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 8 February 2010: Agreed Baddogdj, I shouldn't put words in your mouth that you did not say.
Sorry sltayor that your post may have become a little hot. No harm meant, we are really trying to think about the question and answer it. Race always brings out differen... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: He sounds like he's jealous of your friends and family, as well as scared that he'll loose you.
Interesting, now he's in therapy, so much more to the story than we first thought. Do you love him?... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: PS: Now he is looking like the bad one.. so I have to ask the question... why are you still with him? What attracts you to him? What makes you put up with this bad behaviour even though your feeling lonely and ignored?... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: Thanks for getting back to me jamie90, now we can talk honestly my respect for you grows so much. Can't think now, I need thinking time. But please don't worry, I know you are a smart girl with good friends. A man is not everything, your more ... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: Not true babes, longer posts give us more information, and bad assumptions help to get the real story out.
Let's put aside the child, she's not the real issue. Your over 18, your 20 (still young) he is older (24)
Now we are left with a prop... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: Sigh.... "shes crying because she is sad.." NOT shes crying cos shes being a child"
He's talking to a child... we say sad to children, because this is what they understand.. He couldn't say more, because she wouldn't understand it.
The oth... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: By the way.. how old is your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: Nope... read your own post...
"i was a bit annoyed he couldnt organise someone else to drop her off but said ok didn't complain and organised the night anyway."
Body language speaks louder than words
"he gave me my gift and didnt even look... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 7 February 2010: Glad you brought this one back to the board Troubletoomuch... so many questions around jealousy for friends, past partners, pornography and anything else we can blame for reasons why we aren't getting the relationship that we want.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...
A. 7 February 2010: Ah mum, I've calmed down now, because it's not my son. I was feeling so angry on your behalf before, cause I can understand how hard you tried.
Reading the posts from the younger aunts and uncles on this board got through to me, and hopefull... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me about going to work...
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friends house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ...
A. 7 February 2010: JJ.. Did you post the original question? If your boyfriend is allowed his space to hang out with his friends, and you are feeling neglected because he doesn't find time to spend with you then yes, something is seriously wrong. How much time do you ... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 7 February 2010: And yes, I meant for you to feel the little digs.. "small weakling Chinese" stereotypes, bring up raw nerves, just like "black aggressive fat female" dose.. :) No harm meant, this is just discussion.... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 7 February 2010: Damn.. sorry, I wrote an essay.. hahahahaha.. :)... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 7 February 2010: Baddogbj, I accept that you are speaking from your cultural perspective, and understand that you were trying to answer the question that was stated. Yep, you touched a raw nerve, but that's because the UK situation is different, and I felt that you ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...
A. 7 February 2010: Don't get over them feelings, they are proper and natural. You did your job, you were open with him about sex and told him how to protect himself and his girlfriend. He was stupid, he was irresponsible, you have every damn right to be angry, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me about going to work...
Q. My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friends house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ...
A. 7 February 2010: Do you live together, dose he have to help you pay bills?
You need to wonder why your boyfriend can't be honest enough to say, "I'm going over to see some friends." Do you take up all his time, do you allow him to spend time alone doing boys stu... (read in full...)
My guy lasts FOREVER and can't even orgasm when he masturbates...help!
Q. On Jan 19th I lost my virginity to my bf (who was also a virgin)...and he lasted at least an hour, possibly upwards into two. I only know that before we started it was 2:30 am and shortly after he finally came it was 4:30. I was in pain, obviously, ...
A. 7 February 2010: Sorry, anonymous is right, in doggie position is better, with him behind you become tighter, and like she says you can stimulate him in other ways.... (read in full...)
My guy lasts FOREVER and can't even orgasm when he masturbates...help!
Q. On Jan 19th I lost my virginity to my bf (who was also a virgin)...and he lasted at least an hour, possibly upwards into two. I only know that before we started it was 2:30 am and shortly after he finally came it was 4:30. I was in pain, obviously, ...
A. 7 February 2010: Yep, just checked on the penis website. Try the stuff suggested first. Make sure he's healthy, that means not overweight, no drugs, little alcohol, and exercises often. Nuts are good for production of sperm, helps to build up a lot of it. Check ... (read in full...)
My guy lasts FOREVER and can't even orgasm when he masturbates...help!
Q. On Jan 19th I lost my virginity to my bf (who was also a virgin)...and he lasted at least an hour, possibly upwards into two. I only know that before we started it was 2:30 am and shortly after he finally came it was 4:30. I was in pain, obviously, ...
A. 7 February 2010: Yep!! This is a hard one. There dosen't seem to be anything wrong with him, he's a natural. It's the brain that is taking over. Do you try sex talk to turn him on and make him hotter. Try to get him to think about his hottest, sexiest fantasies ... (read in full...)
Everyone hates my bf - now my ex bf.
Q. I didnt see myself searching for relationship advice on the internet but im desperate. im 23 and my bf is 25 we been together for almost a year. living together under my moms roof. we both love each other alot were pretty content besides for a ...
A. 7 February 2010: Your 23, he is 25. You are both adults. You don't "have" to go with your mum, you choose to live with her. She's not his mother, she doesn't have to have him in her house. If you love him, if he's as wonderful as you say, move out, get a place ... (read in full...)
Should she have been more honest, and was she a virgin for me??
Q. I have been married for 2 years and have been together for 4 years in total. One year into the relationship we knew we were going to get married and started having sex with each other. We were both virgins, and it was special knowing she had saved ...
A. 7 February 2010: Why does this make her less special to you? You've had sex thousands of times now, why aren't you thinking about all those wonderful times instead?
The guy got the head in, she felt pain and then they stopped. He probably didn't penetrat... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 7 February 2010: OP, holes in walls are also not suitable for sexual activity. Your family will notice and it will be difficult to explain.... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 7 February 2010: Not my name.. sorry for your pain, sorry your mum wasn't mature enough to make sure you felt comfortable. My story is opposite. As an only child I always came first after my parents divorce. So many times they walked away from relationships, when ... (read in full...)
Can you have all the elements of a great relationship but not be in love with that person?
Q. Is it possible to be great friends with someone... hanging out a lot, going out to dinner, movies, plays, etc... Able to be yourself with them, be extremely physically attracted to them, have amazing sex, and NOT have any feelings for them? i.e.... ...
A. 7 February 2010: Yep!!!! hahhaha... them are one of the best relationships one can have.. unfortunately mine went off and fell in love with a very wonderful woman.... knocked the sex on the head and the going out decreases as well... :(... (read in full...)
His ex is ruining our relationship...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. Prior to our relationship he was in a very intense relationship with a girl named Erin*, their relationship ended, six months later we got together however she will not leave him ...
A. 7 February 2010: PS: I'm very familiar with this situation. Don't feel comfortable. When I finally broke contact with my ex and refused to talk to him, he dropped his girlfriend he'd been with for 2 years. I'm taking my own example, and thinking that if she ... (read in full...)
His ex is ruining our relationship...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. Prior to our relationship he was in a very intense relationship with a girl named Erin*, their relationship ended, six months later we got together however she will not leave him ...
A. 7 February 2010: He's in love with *Erin, and she's in love with him. They probably can't ever be together because of arguments or differences in personality. He might even stay with you forever, but it's her he loves and will always love. If you can stand this, ... (read in full...)
Male Vs Female; A Debate On The Male Obsession With A Woman’s Past
Q. After recently seeing a large number of posts on this site from men asking how to deal with a woman’s sexual past, I wondered why men were so concerned with something that at the end of the day, cannot be changed. So I entered into a conversation ...
A. 7 February 2010: "The only thing more confusing than a man feeling entitled to define a woman's sexuality is that women accept it. And that many women are complicit in the double standard."
Amen brother, but your preaching to converted here.. hahaha... for me, ... (read in full...)
The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!
Q. Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the on...
A. 7 February 2010: Actually, your catholic religion is very relevant here. You want to remain a virgin until you are married. Understandable.
You don't like kids and you don't want them... mmmmm... this goes against catholic teaching. Marriage and sex is for the ... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 7 February 2010: "I was a bit annoyed he couldnt organise someone else to drop her off......" Jamie90
She's not a toy, she's not a present to be dropped off, she's not a dog that you can dump on someone else. She's a little human being, who is growing and need... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?
Q. I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...
A. 7 February 2010: THIS IS VERY BAD ADVICE. DOUCHING WITH ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY ALUMEN IS NOT RECOMMENDED, AND SHOULD NOT BE DONE WITHOUT A DOCTOR'S PERMISSION. Douching destroys the natural ph balance of the body and can cause inflammation and leave you open to ... (read in full...)
I only feel turned on when someone else touches me!
Q. So, when I try to pleasure myself by touching, I feel nothing. I mean I feel my hands on myself but It doesn't turn me on. When my guy friend touched my leg and somewhat rubbed it, I got turned on. Is it normal that only someone else can turn me on ...
A. 7 February 2010: Totally normal.. when it comes to sex and desire, people like all types of things. You find touching your own body too normal, and don't see anything sexual in it. But when another person touches you, then it feels different and it interests ... (read in full...)
He scares me with the things he says about sex!
Q. ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...
A. 7 February 2010: Damn... I'm very afraid for you now.... Can you show these texts messages to your mother. I'm scared that he may have hurt some other girl before.... (read in full...)
He scares me with the things he says about sex!
Q. ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...
A. 7 February 2010: Please listen to ms anonymous, this guy is being very truthful with you. He likes to hurt women during sex, it makes him happy to see them in pain and watch them cry. If you continue to contact him, if you go anywhere alone with him, he will rape ... (read in full...)
Is it right for a man to flirt with other women? Should it bother me?
Q. Do you think it is right for a man to flirt with other females.(ex.online,texting,and in person.)I have been with my bf for over 4 yrs and I am seen as the jealous one if I tell him it bothers me..Should it bother me? ...
A. 7 February 2010: There are some people who flirt, and others who see this as a low form of adultery. Most of the people I know are flirts, they flirt with everyone, children, old people, the postman and the milkman. If flirting is saying nice stuff to people to ... (read in full...)
I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?
Q. How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...
A. 7 February 2010: That porn stuff is rubbish, there is no credible science to back up what ms anonymous is saying. She's using an illogical argument, that can be used to demonize anything that give us humans pleasure. What she is saying is not accepted by either ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?
Q. Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...
A. 7 February 2010: Ain't we supposed to kick sleeping boyfriends?.. (Miamine takes out notepad to write new idea down.)
I had a cousin like that, she used to get us involved in a lot of fights. However we were girls, so mostly the guys forgave us and backed o... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 7 February 2010: Yes, shame and embarrassment, and probable arrest is the reason why this is not safe sexual practice.... (read in full...)
Parents and sex...
Q. Right... I'm 17 and my girlfriend has just turned 16. I have to admit we haven't been in a relationship that long although it seems like we've been together for ages. We just really love being around eachother and having a laugh a lot... which is ...
A. 6 February 2010: Yes, they have no right to invade your privacy, or decide what to do about your love life, as you say you and the girl are both legally over age.
However they can say no sex in their house, and they can refuse to let her come over to see you.
... (read in full...)
He got a birthday card from his child and the mother, what does this mean
Q. If a woman throws her boyfriend out of the house and tells him to leave and then 6 months later sends him a birthday card is she wanting him back?? I have been seeing a man who split up with his girlfriend but they have a child and still see each...
A. 6 February 2010: Children give their father's birthday cards. If the child is young, they can't buy it, so the mother has to do it instead. Children are happy when they can stay in touch and do normal things with their parents, like sharing celebrations.
Six m... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and we want to have a baby
Q. People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to ...
A. 6 February 2010: Wait a moment.. your 15... isn't your boyfriend in danger of going to jail, or ending up on the "sex protection register" for having sex with an under-aged child?
And Tanya2010, there is a big difference between having a child at 15, and having o... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and we want to have a baby
Q. People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to ...
A. 6 February 2010: Your gonna struggle, what about the baby. YOU want a child, but dose a child want you. First your too young, so the risk of premature birth, an underweight child, and various other things are very high. Two, you can't work, so your child will ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: "I got stung in the hand last year and I thought it was going to fall off."
It!!!! Falling off!!!!! Troubletoomuch, me and you need to have that bees, birds, and trees talk.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: Time to get serious aunts and uncles...
Tisha, new sexual activity found, don't forget to put it in the manual, must say it sounds a lot less painful than the nasal thing, but we mustn't give the boy ideas.
Dear caller, your at the right age to... (read in full...)
The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!
Q. Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the on...
A. 6 February 2010: WOW!!!!! Have no problems with you not wanting children, we like what we like. However you are also a virgin,that changes things a little. You don't like the idea of something inside of you, you don't like the idea of someone depending on you, ... (read in full...)
I don't like my father's inappropriate behaviour! Should I be worried?
Q. I think my father is acting really weird. I've never been too close to him and whenever he wanted to kiss or hug me like my mother does, i silently rejected him because I didn't like it. That made him angry and we started to argue about unimportant ...
A. 6 February 2010: Same as Trish and Angzw..he's stopped drinking, he noticed you and him are distant, he wants to get close and be friends with his little girl, but he's not sure how to do it.
He wants to get to know you. Arrange some family stuff, bowling,... (read in full...)
I'm gay, she is straight! An unrequited love story!
Q. Hiya, I'll try to make this short (and not too boring for whoever is reading!) It's a pretty traditional story of unrequited love with a best friend, the problem is that we are both girls. I'm gay, she's straight. I told her I was gay a few years ...
A. 6 February 2010: She's straight (or trying to be straight) you are gay..there is nothing more to the story. Move on,and find yourself someone who is available. Don't continue to allow her to step over the bounds of friendship. I think she's playing games with you, ... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 6 February 2010: opps..Sorry wrong post...:(... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 6 February 2010: Quick note heed to say I like your style... Your a very clever man, like a said before. You see a problem, and you bring out the big guns to get it sorted. Taking her to dinner, remembering previous problems, thinking about counselling... ... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 6 February 2010: And since you brought it up...did you make allowances for race, muscle and bone density... you quote figures that you have no understanding about.... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 6 February 2010: Baddogdj, you said West African women, you never said anything about African American women originally.... I've got Jamaican parents and live in the UK, where do I fit on your statistics... and while your there, can you look up Ethiopian women, they ... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 5 February 2010: Hey troubletoomuch, you forgot about me..
And not all black women are fighters, look at me, I'm a little pussy cat.. :)
Caller, yep, notice the dating problem meself... mmmmm... no answer for you, I'm still pondering the issue.... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 31 January 2010: Exactly Ms anonymous.. and also it's important to keep a clean house. Dishes, washing, cleaning the toilet, all these silly things can play on a woman's mind and make it impossible for her to relax and have fun. Are you helping enough arround the ... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 31 January 2010: Yes trouble, perhaps working together is the way. I just thought she might be embarrassed or feel inadequate with the husband along. But she'll need him, who else is she gonna practice on.... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 31 January 2010: I gave you that sex101 website.. she says she's interested in learning.. take my suggestion, ask her to find some game in their that you two can share... but the others are right, you don't seem to know much about what goes on in this woman's head. ... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 31 January 2010: All I can glean from your post is that you have a woman living with you who fulfils her 'duties' with no passion or interest, and that you 'take care of her'. You are often trying to insert things into her/stimulate her/try to get her to do things ... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 30 January 2010: We can only base our opinion on what you write here. One little word, and yep, you've pissed a lot of us women off. Women hate to be compared with others, that's insulting, each and everyone of us is very unique.
Brooklyngirl has a point, i... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 30 January 2010: Here try this website, it's fun for adults and suitable for teenagers. She might find it funny and it might relax her enough to see the fun in sex. For some women, vibrators, sex toys and anything except the usual is very frightening. But there's ... (read in full...)
I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.
Q. For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...
A. 30 January 2010: Instead of lumping all women together and thinking that we're all frigid and scared of sex, I suggest you read some of the answers on this board. Women here have done it all, and a lot of times it's the gun who is scared of sex and runs off.... (read in full...)
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