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I have been in a relationship where Love hurts me to the point that I believe it does not exist. I have been in a relationship where I portray myself as Love's nemesis. Allow me to share my experience, and also advise me on my weaknesses, and we will achieve great things in Love, together. Good luck and always remember, Love does exist.

Retrograde jealousy

Q.   DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...

A.   18 December 2010: @Tisha-1 I just want to thank you for creating this post, I have this kind of feeling towards my girlfriend's past...and the response in here, all the posts, it has helped me a lot and I am now able to feel much better than before. I will kee... (read in full...)

I didn't get to sleep with her when she was a virgin!

Q.   Dear reader, my question concerns a deep psychological anxiety which I suffer from. In my more rational moments I know that it is immature, petty and even silly. But we are human and often the chaos of the psyche escapes into the lived reality of ...

A.   18 December 2010: Brother, you and I are in the same situation...I am not a virgin myself, and although I have slept with virgins, my current girlfriend is the one I love most. Sadly, she is also the one with the "least decorated" history. She has had way more sex ... (read in full...)

He said we should get back together sometime in the future?

Q.   Hey everyone. Well I'm 14 years old and I have a really complicated problem. So my ex boyfriend and I started talking again last month. But I found out he was with somone else from another school but I was still cool with it. Well one day after ...

A.   8 December 2010: Dear 14 year old female, I am a 22 year old male who wants to tell you that I love women more than anything else in this world. One of my goals in life is to ensure that women do not get duped by men, and that all women will be able to think for ... (read in full...)

Is getting turned on by people touching my ears normal?

Q.   I feel really weird, I have this strange attractions to ears, i love it when my boyfriend touches or kisses my ears, i even make him bite my ears, I just love it.. But it makes me feel weird because it a ears and surely it shouldn't turn me on if ...

A.   8 December 2010: I am a 22 years old male, and everytime my girlfriend nibbles my ear I get aroused so much that I just shiver... Parts such as the ears, neck, shoulder, etc are sensitive parts that arouse you, and everybody has a different "ultimate point" You a... (read in full...)

He prefers to look at porn rather than have sex with me!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend got together when i was 16 and he was 17. We have now been together for just over 7 years and living together for 3 years. 6 months befor we moved in with each other the sex dried right up. I usually get sex once a week but i ...

A.   8 December 2010: I disagree with giving him an ultimatum. I am a 22 year old male and I have such a high sex drive that I actually watch porn and masturbate 1-2 times a day on porn, and have sex 2-3 times with my girlfriend (I've been living with her for 5 months) ... (read in full...)

I'm disturbed by the fact that my girlfriend had a lot of sexual partners before me

Q.   Hi, I am a 22 year old male and I'm currently with my girlfriend of 4 months. She is 18 years old. We have been having regular sex since we were together, and I love her very much. In fact, I love her more than anyone I've ever been with. Unti...

A.   8 December 2010: thank you for your posts...i am dealing with this one at a time, and im getting better at that. I hope I will, in time, be able to put this behind me and enjoy my relationship with the woman I love most. Once again, thank you guys.... (read in full...)

I'm disturbed by the fact that my girlfriend had a lot of sexual partners before me

Q.   Hi, I am a 22 year old male and I'm currently with my girlfriend of 4 months. She is 18 years old. We have been having regular sex since we were together, and I love her very much. In fact, I love her more than anyone I've ever been with. Unti...

A.   13 November 2010: thank you very much guys for the support and answers..i feel much better now, and i have had a talk with her.. i feel like such a kid now, but i really dont know why this is affecting me.. although it is really nice to read all your response..i hope ... (read in full...)

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