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writes:Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly.I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple of hours later to the moans of my wife. She was on all fours o the floor being f***ed on the floor doggystyle. I was still to drunk to do anything about it, so I just laid there in a stupor; however, if the cheating wasn't bad enough she was getting f***ed in the ass! I have asked to take her anal cherry and now it's gone....to another man! What do I do now? I really love her, but this hurts. She hasn't confessed to it as of yet and it's been a week, and she doesn't know that I know. She has been quiet lately and very submissive to me.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 Indeed.. too strange and bizarre to be true... reminds me off another Dear Cupid story about a guy who was drunk and woke up to find his wife having sex with several men.
Why haven't you brought this up, what are you waiting for? How can you be so patient, sitting their waiting for her to confess?
After she had sex, and you was in drunk and in a stupor, what happened next? Did you go to sleep, did she join you, did she go into another room. Who helped you get sober, who drove you home? Who was the guy, do you know him, has she seen him again. Why didn't you confront him about what he did. If she's never had anal sex, wasn't she in pain later, didn't she bleed???????
Pppfff.. this reads like erotic fantasy. Your in the wrong place, this is for real life stories for people who are suffering and need help and advice. Please search the internet for erotic sex stories and write down your fantasy for people who enjoy such things to share.
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reader, monkiegurl +, writes (27 January 2010):
just ask her and if she denies - confront her.. of you cant even be honest then where is the trust and honesty inn this relationshipobviously there is none - if she is f**k*n some other dude right in front of you (while your passed out) thats a disgrace to your guys marraige
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): Dude what the hell is wrong with you? Really? I think that you are a freaking idiot if you don't just pack your stuff and leave her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): Ask her is there anything that you want to tell me, or be cunning and ask for anal sex and see if she's changed her tune x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I think this is too bizzare to be true. it would have been believable although strange if say she was having straight sex in another room but to have anal on first encounter in a party with you lying around? can't believe it.nuts.
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (26 January 2010):
1) Stop drinking.
2) Tell you you love her. Show her you love her.
3) If she brings it up and wants to talk about it, talk about it. Otherwise, let it drop.
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (26 January 2010):
 I am a Wife, mother, and yet very young.. I feel for you in so many ways.. i wish i was there to give you a hug and be that good friend that gives you that shoulder to cry on... this is serious I would definently ask her to take time to talk to you.. say since this new year what kind of resolutions do you have for our relationship being husband and wife...?? if in your relationship you have been loyal then i would definently ask her if she has been loyal to you and tell her that you have been loyal and always will be.. this will make her feel guilty well it should and if she then lies to and says she has been loyal then there is no telling what else she will lie to you about and i would get a divorce, because someone who is not going to tell the truth to their husband is never going to be able to be trusted. nor' a good person to be with.. yeah maybe she was drunk to but that is not a excuse to do what she did, and i hope all works out the way you want.. please keep me informed.. i will be glad to help with anything...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): i have no idea y you havent said anything to her yet. she had no respect for u wht so ever someone that luvs u would never do such thing, and come on u being there HELL NO!!!!!! she crossed the line in so many levels i dont think there is any explenation that will justify wht she did to u. you need speak of wht u saw or else she will do it again if she seen she got away with it. am sorry but someone to b gettn F***ed infront of u they have no respect for themselfs or u.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 January 2010):
Confront her.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (25 January 2010):
Umm, I don't really think this is a real post. But if your wife was having anal sex with some other guy while you were passed out, I doubt it was her first time getting it in the behind. Just tell her that it's been bothering you because you know what she did, and say it like that; hopefully she'll confess. If she still doesn't, then just tell her straight up what you saw.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (25 January 2010):
 How can you cope with not telling her for a week? Confront her about it because soon it'll be too late to confront her about it. The fact that she cheated should be more important than the sexual acts she took part in, but talk to her and decide if she's still worth it if you can deal with her cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): which annoys u more? the fact that she cheated, or the fact that some1 else took her "anal cherry"?
Confront her on the cheating, and hear her out
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