I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen
Q. I have been trying to squirt and it just wont happen. My husband hits my gspot and I feel like I have to pee but when I try to let it go I cant! I push it out like if im peeing and nothing comes out. Im frustrated because I want to experience that ...
A. 19 March 2011: Same exact thing for me, I've tried to for a long time and yeah it feels like you have to pee all of the sudden, but just like you said, when I try to "push it out" nothing happens and then afterwards I have a weird and annoying pressure behind my ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 7 December 2010: Hey everyone, just an update just in case you were wondering...
So I'm in the process of divorcing him... pretty much I got sick and tired of being treated like crap and all of his lies. I completely changed myself for him to be a better person a... (read in full...)
He's breaking my heart with his neglecting ways, why would he say he loves me??
Q. I have been seeing a man on and off for the past 10 years. I really love him and the biggest problem is that he dosen't seem to make time for me. He use to call every day some times 3 times a day. Until three weeks ago I just got tired of waiting ...
A. 1 August 2010: Totally agree with Rescuer...
You didn't even need to ask him if he wanted a girlfriend or not because he obviously has been giving you that answer for 10 years!! He doesn't want one!
Hun you deserve someone who will always be there for you an... (read in full...)
Is there a 'best' time around my cycle to lose my virginity?
Q. first time doing sex. i'm just curious and when is the best time to have sex before or after my period?...
A. 1 August 2010: I think it's the same for most girls but of course I can't be sure but sex usually feels best right before your period because everything is really sensitive down there.
Be safe! Have him wear a condom! :D... (read in full...)
I love sex but don't have orgasms!
Q. I'm a female and I love having sex. This may be a weird question to ask, but I'm curious. Every man that I've had sex with experienced an orgasim but myself. Even my friends have. Is it me? Are my sexual partners not pleasing me enough? I would ...
A. 31 July 2010: I just have to say one thing... I love how almost all of the male readers blame it on the partner not knowing what they're doing LOL!!! No guys.... like I said, for some women it's IMPOSSIBLE for them to have an orgasm with penetration alone. It's a ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Oh no I didn't make it clear lol he DOES like that kind of stuff. Like when we were first dating and first got married we were all over each other so I just assumed he would miss that... so I sent him dirty stuff all excited because I thought he ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Thank you so much Miamine.... I'm definietly going to try writing those kinds of letters as well as my journal entries of just what I did that day. Just write about the good times we have had when we're together like someone said earlier on here.
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So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: Caringguy, yes I know there's a chance something bad could happen if I talk to other guys. That's why I don't want to! Yeah it might be innocent at first but it's putting myself in a stupid situation where things could happen and I might be too weak ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: Caringguy, that's what I'm afraid of... the fact that we can't get help now so eventually I'll get tired of trying so hard and being treated this way and leave so I try to tell myself that it will pass and I just have to deal with it until he gets ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: We wanted to go to marital counseling before he left but we were about to turn in divorce papers so he put the paperwork through with the Army to send me home so by the time he changed his mind it was too late so I was sent home so we never got the ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 27 July 2010: I know it's my fault and I know I'm a piece of crap so I don't need you to tell me :( That's why I'm trying to get help and trying to understand what's wrong with me...
Yes he knows my needs and I can understand him trying to insulate himself ... (read in full...)
I love sex but don't have orgasms!
Q. I'm a female and I love having sex. This may be a weird question to ask, but I'm curious. Every man that I've had sex with experienced an orgasim but myself. Even my friends have. Is it me? Are my sexual partners not pleasing me enough? I would ...
A. 27 July 2010: Well while you're having sex to you play with yourself? As in your clitoris?
I know when I first had sex I realized that penetration alone won't get me to orgasm. A lot of girls are like that, where they have to have clitoral stimulation in order... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 24 June 2010: Well it's hard to say if you did it the "right" way without some more details like did you shave with your hairs? As in the same direction they grow or against? If this was your first time shaving down there EVER then I wouldn't be worried about ... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 23 June 2010: Well it's hard to say if you did it the "right" way without some more details like did you shave with your hairs? As in the same direction they grow or against? If this was your first time shaving down there EVER then I wouldn't be worried about ... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 5 June 2010: Thank you all so much and Miamine I really appreciate your honesty. I rather have people be brutally honest then flaky so thank you.
He knows it take two to make it work and he says he's doing it in his own ways and wants to let go of what hap... (read in full...)
How do I get him to see that we still have a strong relationship, it's just broken???
Q. Hey everyone I need help :( My husband and I have been married for 2 years but have only actually been with each other 5 months out of that due to the army and him being deployed. Our relationship before the army was very strong and healthy but whil...
A. 4 June 2010: Hey, I just posted a new question about another issue with my husband. It would be great if you guys could read up and give me some advice :/
It's called My husband told me he's not "in love" anymore, is it over?... (read in full...)
I just want to forget him...
Q. im 17, and this is quite a pathetic situation really but i spent all of last summer with my ex, it was the best summer i had, im really strict with the lads i get with andd he seemed perfect for me. first met him in a club january 2009, was toldd he ...
A. 11 March 2010: Well first off I just want to commend you on getting yourself through this enough to work again, talk to friends and family and try to get your back life. That's a really tough thing to do... I think your next step in getting over all this hurt is ... (read in full...)
I would love him to go further...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years and we have been to 2nd base and I don't know if I'm intimidating him or what but he dosent seem interested in going any further. I've tried but he always makes up excuses to quit, I just want to ...
A. 11 March 2010: Well it sounds to me that he's not ready to go further and doesn't know how to tell you that so you need to respect that :/ You might be ready and definitely willing but if he's not then you have to be patient and not pressure him. So just leave it ... (read in full...)
How can I make sure I keep him interested without seeming too desperate?
Q. I have been talking to a man for a few months now haven't met him yet as both have really busy jobs and live 200 miles apart. We text a lot. I have on occasions text him and he doesn't answer so text to ask if he's still alive which he then replies ...
A. 11 March 2010: You're exactly right on the last part, if he wasn't interested he wouldn't continue to text you so that's good! :)
Just give him some space and think about if he were texting you that much, how would that make you feel? Annoyed? Smothered? So just... (read in full...)
He is threatening me because I won't have sex with him.
Q. My friend hooked me up with her ex *joe and we have been going out for two weeks now. he is 15 and im 14. he already said he loves me and i fell for it.now all he ever wants to talk about is sex.i thought i wanted it but now im not so sure. he is ...
A. 10 March 2010: If it were me, I would tell my parents or an older sibling what's going on. Now of course I don't know how your relationship is with your family and if it would even be ok if they knew you were dating or whatever but if you really are afraid he ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to get advice about my marriage from a man I am attracted to?
Q. My husband and I haven't been seeing eye to eye on things recently,which causes us to fuss heatedly. I recently met a man who I can talk to and vent with. We are attracted to each other. Is it wrong to Get his advice?...
A. 10 March 2010: It's not really "wrong" to get advice from him since he is a friend to you it sounds like but if he's more than that in your eyes or his eyes then it's probably not a good idea since he's going to be biased. When you're having relationship problems ... (read in full...)
How can I bring up the subject of STI's without offending him???
Q. hello, well im in a bit of a dilemma, im 15 and i like this guy who is 18. im not in love or anything and i have seen him a few times, on which occaisions, he fingered me and i tossed him off. He is the first and only guy up to yet who i have don...
A. 10 March 2010: No even if he says he's clean I wouldn't just assume he is because like I said before there are many out there that have no symptoms so he might honestly think he's clean but actually have something. So yes a flavored condom seems like your best bet ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to see that we still have a strong relationship, it's just broken???
Q. Hey everyone I need help :( My husband and I have been married for 2 years but have only actually been with each other 5 months out of that due to the army and him being deployed. Our relationship before the army was very strong and healthy but whil...
A. 10 March 2010: Thank you all... I'll stay true to him and not "move on" like he wants me to. He's worth the risk and worth possibly waiting only for him to not want me back.
I'll also just continue to give him space and not call him or text him or anything but ... (read in full...)
How can I bring up the subject of STI's without offending him???
Q. hello, well im in a bit of a dilemma, im 15 and i like this guy who is 18. im not in love or anything and i have seen him a few times, on which occaisions, he fingered me and i tossed him off. He is the first and only guy up to yet who i have don...
A. 9 March 2010: The best advice I can give you is to be honest with him... just tell him that you want to do things but am worried about getting something especially bc there's a lot of things out there that have no symptoms so he wouldn't know if he had it unless ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to help out in the house more?
Q. Ok... I am a mum of two. A 3 year old and 6 month old. Due to my son still being young im not working but my partner is, But he helps out with nothing at home! Its driving me mad. He does nothing for the little ones, feeding, bathing, cooking, nappy ...
A. 9 March 2010: Awww I'm sorry you're going through this... you're a very strong woman so don't you forget that ok? You also deserve to be respected and appreciated so don't beat yourself up.
If I were you I would schedule an app. for couple's counseling and if h... (read in full...)
Should I contact this married man and tell him how I feel?
Q. I like a man who attracted me at first sight. hes family oriental man a good husband maybe with high flyin pay presentable mature but he's married with wife n kids what should i do? he has a wife who is not pretty why does she deserve him? i dont ...
A. 9 March 2010: Hmm... thats a real toughy.
I think what you need to do first is sit down and think if this man would really be worth leaving your man and life as you know it behind. And think about why he's better than your man now. Obviously there's somethin... (read in full...)
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