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Texting - he said he could tame me sexually so I gave him some back and he didnt like it!

Q.   There's this guy I've met offline and he and I are 12 years apart. I don't know if it's the age difference or my immaturity that's causing him to shun me for my behavior. We were texting about sex and he said he could tame me and I started talking a ...

A.   6 September 2014: Right. Tough cookies is the stat men for him. I see he must want a submissive woman who will bend at his every will. He would act like a supportive figure until he feels like I've wronged him. Then he would try to sum up what he "thinks" he know ... (read in full...)

Texting - he said he could tame me sexually so I gave him some back and he didnt like it!

Q.   There's this guy I've met offline and he and I are 12 years apart. I don't know if it's the age difference or my immaturity that's causing him to shun me for my behavior. We were texting about sex and he said he could tame me and I started talking a ...

A.   6 September 2014: HoneyPie, thank you! I know better than to allow someone to try to "mold" me. He use to be married and claimed his wife cheated on him and he haven't been sexual for half a year. He doesn't play with me sexually over the phone or ask for any ... (read in full...)

Texting - he said he could tame me sexually so I gave him some back and he didnt like it!

Q.   There's this guy I've met offline and he and I are 12 years apart. I don't know if it's the age difference or my immaturity that's causing him to shun me for my behavior. We were texting about sex and he said he could tame me and I started talking a ...

A.   6 September 2014: Hello, thank you for responding; much appreciated. I haven't known this guy a full month yet but he resides in another state. I usually don't take things to heart, however, I'm trying to notice my own behaviors through another's perspect... (read in full...)

Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?

Q.   I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...

A.   13 November 2011: Lol, I've read it and I must say, "Wow, that's messed up." I'm at the point where it doesn't bother me, much, when ex doesn't call or reply to my texts; I txt once and if he doesn't respond; I leave it alone. He eventually gets curious and pulls out ... (read in full...)

Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?

Q.   I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...

A.   11 November 2011: THANKs Alot! ;) I wish you the best, Maimine, and try to be strong yourself. You must be full of anxiety. Tell me how it goes. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?

Q.   I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...

A.   10 November 2011: Miamine, Mariab and CindyCares, thanks so much for your thoughtful answers. I won't assume too much because that'll mean I'm expecting something. I just want to be his friend again because i haven't seen him in three years; I can't say I still kno ... (read in full...)

He thinks he can do no wrong in our relationship, and that I'm always the one in the wrong!

Q.   My bf and I had a nice and comfortable talk about our problems. The whole time I listened to him; the more I had a big question in mind. I noticed that he NEVER said he did ANYTHING wrong in this relationship and, so, everything that happened was ...

A.   11 July 2011: Yes, you're right about my word choice; it was a bit bold. I told him that I might be using the wrong word but it was too late. He told me that he knows he's not perfect but he tries to be. I dnt want him to be; I jux want him to admit, tO himself, ... (read in full...)

I don't enjoy masturbating!

Q.   I am a 16 year old girl and I do not enjoy masturbating. I have masturbated before, I've tried different techniques, I've watched porn, and I cannot enjoy it. All it does is frustrate me. Is there anything I can do or any suggestions on how to enjoy ...

A.   10 January 2011: I'm the same way; it's not very enjoyable. Maybe you would feel better with a massager of some sort. That works for me...;)... (read in full...)

I don't see a future with him but I love him!

Q.   i've been dating with him about 4 years and now we're gonna hit the 5. i have a problem with him. seriously, i think he is getting bored with me. we're having a long distance relationship and not seeing him for 3 months. i donno whether i should ...

A.   10 January 2011: If you're not happy with him, but you stay because of love, why aren't you trying to rekindle that love? Since you obviously don't want to leave him... You could try.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend dumped me because he knew I missed my ex!

Q.   To make a long story short: a few months ago I was sooo hooked on my ex and my bf knew it and broke up with me because of my actions. I straightened out, stopped all contact with ex because I felt so miserable without my bf. I missed him so much ...

A.   6 January 2011: The question wasn't mine. I'm still with him. Whoever wrote that question for me got my stuff twisted. Anyway, I know what you mean and that's why I stopped ALL contact with dude cause I wanna be with my bf. (I had thought I could've been friends ... (read in full...)

He can't have sex with me because I'm pregnant

Q.   I am 24 weeks pregnant and today I tried to have sex with my bf. We started but then he stopped, stating that we shouldn't keep going. I asked why and he said he doesn't know. What? I wanted an answer. He told me that he think it's a males intuition ...

A.   28 September 2009: Thanks everyone! I guess I was going through an emotional stage because I look like I have a big pot belly and breasts. LOL you'all made me laugh, blush and feel beautiful. Thanks!... (read in full...)

Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?

Q.   It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, ...

A.   27 January 2009: Thank you, everybody! Umm...Cerberus, I have tried...a bit...of flirting with him(don't want him to think I'm easy as his friends) but he never flirted using body language. He always verbally flirt. I talked with him a lot. I just don't understa... (read in full...)

Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?

Q.   My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...

A.   20 January 2009: You should go visit him to show that you're still caring(some-what) even though he hurt you. You should be the mature one. If he's trying to reason with you, then let him know that you're only there to make sure he's okay. Then wish him luck and ... (read in full...)

How can I move from orgasming in the tub to orgasming with my bf?

Q.   I think there's something wrong with me. I can't orgasm during sex with my boyfriend, but when I'm in the tub, under the faucet, I orgasm a lot. I've been using the water masturbation every since I was 6 years old! I always fake moan with my ...

A.   17 January 2009: OMG! Double M you are so funny! (giggles) crazy. (smile) But my boyfriend is a beginner in the giving oral part. So I really understand that he could never help me get off orally if he isn't experienced. He tries so hard. He even tried to do diff... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin & pregnant

Q.   Well in order for people not to think I'm nuts I have to explain Myself. I am a 19 year old female and I have been in a relationship with my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 years. We always try to be intimate and I try to loose my virginity to him but ...

A.   16 January 2009: Well please don't get mad at me for this: You should try not to punk out. Maybe a little foreplay will help ease it a bit? If you have to, bite, scratch, whatever to keep from quiting. Does he do oral? Maybe he should finger you(sorry for the blun... (read in full...)

He wants me to stay single, but he's taken?

Q.   He got mad at me when I got a boyfriend. I gave him opportunities, but he said that he can't.He must don't like me. But when I try to hug him, he says, "Can' get too close to youcause that vibe I got for you." He hugs a lot of girls, but not me. ...

A.   16 January 2009: Thank you for the advice, esepalo1. It really helps.... (read in full...)

I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

Q.   I'm in Year 9 and recently I've started to fall for a sixthformer in Year 12. I'd say we're reasonably good friends and we get on well, but I don't know what to do. He's generally a nice person but he's being really nice to me, I don't know if ...

A.   15 January 2009: Well I hope this helps. Talk to him in private somewhere and ask him questions. You may ask him about his recent girlfriends or girls he had liked. Joke around with him when asking these questions. He won't know that you're serious if you joke. Th... (read in full...)

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