How to talk 'again' with a guy without it being awkward?
Q. So I met this guy on Facebook and he really seemed nice, I really wanted to talk to him and the only way was on Facebook because I don't know him personally. I was really nervous about all this so I asked my best friend for advice and she told me to ...
A. 19 February 2013: Hey. If I find a woman who talks to me on Facebook interesting, I usually reply openly and will do my part to keep the conversation going, regardless of her own lack of input. It's way too early to judge in the matter though. I suggest you find ... (read in full...)
Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?
Q. Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was grea...
A. 13 February 2013: As a guy, I'm telling you, this chick sounds terrible.
I also don't understand how it works in the USA. Do you people go on dates with several people at the same time? Where I'm from, that is really frowned upon.... (read in full...)
Why did this girl give me the cold shoulder on the day after our perfect date?
Q. A girl added me on Facebook about 1 and a half week ago. I live about 1 hour away from the capital (with plans to move there soon) so we kept touch via Facebook for that 1 and a half week. We really clicked, on Facebook at least, so naturally, I ...
A. 4 November 2012: Thank you. That's probably it. First time this happens to me. Really weird.... (read in full...)
Based on her response after our first date does it look like she's uninterested?
Q. I recently went out with a girl for the first time. I had a great time on the date and thought she did as well. I waited a couple days to contact her after the date to let her know I had a great time and that she was good company to be with. ...
A. 4 November 2012: I think you waited too long, but I agree that if she was interested, she should have wanted to talk about the date more, not just kill the conversation there.
I still think, if you like her that is, that you should invite her on a 2nd date. Th... (read in full...)
After my past experiences now I hate women!
Q. I have a really good relationship with my mother and sister so I was raised on the belief that women were wonderful creatures. My dad was a junkie and in 2007 it was his undoing. So in reality, I should respect women..HOWEVER.. I have been wit...
A. 22 November 2011: I just don't understand why every woman I am with lies to me and is unfaithful in one way or another. I never lied to any of my girlfriends, I treasure them and try everything to make them happy.
I'm good looking, honest and fair.
Funniest thin... (read in full...)
After my past experiences now I hate women!
Q. I have a really good relationship with my mother and sister so I was raised on the belief that women were wonderful creatures. My dad was a junkie and in 2007 it was his undoing. So in reality, I should respect women..HOWEVER.. I have been wit...
A. 21 November 2011: Miamine.
I don't date ANY women anymore after the last one.. But if I had to date one, It'd be a nice girl, not a ''partyslut'' like the last time.
I don't think I'm doing anything wrong anymore.. I used to live a bad life but I'm not sure if ... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 20 November 2011: Please don't. The world doesn't need more cheaters...... (read in full...)
Should I carry on having fun, or should I settle down with a nice man?
Q. I'm 28 and have recently been getting out and about hitting the clubs a lot. I've also met a few guys from internet dating sites. This is the first real time in my life that I've been going out a lot, and meeting new men regularly. I'm really ...
A. 20 November 2011: I only read the first paragraph of your post and I strongly suggest you stop ''hitting the clubs'' aka. 1 night stands as you describe if you ever want to settle down with a nice man..... (read in full...)
Still not over the fact that my B/f cheated on me with his ex, 2 yrs ago. I cannot help but compare myself to her..
Q. My bf basically cheated on me emotionally (just not physically) with his ex about a year into our relationship. We had a massive argument about it all and he suggested he would drop all contact with her to make things work with us. He did this and ...
A. 20 November 2011: Well I've had many problems much like yours... Something I really wanted to get over but couldn't... I never got over them and I hear that it's not easy to get over..Ever..If possible at all for some people (I know it's not for me).... (read in full...)
After my past experiences now I hate women!
Q. I have a really good relationship with my mother and sister so I was raised on the belief that women were wonderful creatures. My dad was a junkie and in 2007 it was his undoing. So in reality, I should respect women..HOWEVER.. I have been wit...
A. 20 November 2011: Thank you for your answers.. However, some answers have missed a very vital point.. I will recite it: ''I work a respectable job and I don't hang out with a bad crowd anymore.' The problem seems that the damage is done.. I'm not calling women... (read in full...)
RJ, both justified and unjustified
Q. Has anyone here ever gotten over RJ (Retrograde Jealousy) in a relationship? Both justified RJ such as a mate having slept with your friend or enemy and unjustified RJ such as mate having just slept with other people before the relationship. ...
A. 7 October 2011: Guess that settles it.
It's not something you simply forget and get over with time.
I tried for 3 months, nothing changed. That's my experience anyways.... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 21 September 2011: Found out she also lied about a bloke she slept with days before our relationship.. My mother likes to think that everyone lies about such things, yet I never lie as I know it causes more damage than repair...What are your opinions on this... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 20 September 2011: A fucking tornado of hurt this is....
I broke up with her. I can't take this anymore. My advice to anyone with similar issues break it off right now and stop lying to yourselves that you can live with it and that she is worth it.
I CAN'T BE HA... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 16 September 2011: I had some answers that changed my opinion on this matter. I talked to a friend who met a woman and broke it off with her even though he loved her, I'm not sure why he did it, but he spent his entire life looking for a woman exactly like her... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling a tiny bit betrayed about LDR boyfriend's actions?
Q. Yesterday evening, my LDR boyfriend from on the Continent met up with one of his female friends for a bite to eat and a couple of drinks. For a laugh, they decided to sneak into the place where he works since they weren't too far away and he has a ...
A. 15 September 2011: From a males perspective, this sounds a bit like he is a little insecure like most men in relationships (due to the fact that women have a much easier time getting hook ups).
He most certainly didn't do anything with this girl and I doubt there we... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 15 September 2011: Adamantine: He already told me and she admit it later.... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 14 September 2011: To the anonymous woman who says I am treating her like a piece of meat:
This couldn't be further from the truth. I treat her with up most respect and I really care about her, which is why I am here to seek help. She didn't just ''fool around''... (read in full...)
I'm shocked at the extent of her lies, but I feel like I should contact her to make peace
Q. i dated this girl for a little while, and she wound up doing me really, really wrong. she lied about everything from the start. and i mean everything. she lied about having only one semester left before earning her masters degree in computer ...
A. 14 September 2011: She's mentally ill if what you describe is true. A pathological/compulsive liar. You should text or call her and tell her that even though she does not have your respect or love anymore, you bid her a good life. After that, do not, ever, cont... (read in full...)
It hurts that she said she cared for me so much over the past 6 months then threw it away over one bump in the road...
Q. I've been dating this girl (she's 29, I'm 30) for about six months now and everything has been going absolutely great. About a week ago we got into an argument, our first, at work and i yelled at her a little bit. the whole thing lasted about 20 ...
A. 14 September 2011: She could be using that argument to end a relationship that she did not want to be in in the first place.
I know I've done that several times myself.. Waited for an argument and then using that argument to break things up, when I already wanted o... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 14 September 2011: I'm getting 50/50 answers here so I'm not getting much help.
This is not RJ (Retrograde Jealousy) because I am not at all worried about her sexual past.. I am worried about the fact that I witnessed her sleeping with my friend and the fact tha... (read in full...)
She slept with my friend on the day we met
Q. Hi...This is my first post here.. I'm a 21 year old male and I met the girl of my dreams 1 month ago.. However, there are complications. I met her at a ''party'' at my friends house where she was the only girl... I chatted with her for a while ...
A. 14 September 2011: Thanks for your reply Person12345. The reason I take it out on her is because we really clicked at that ''party'' and she admitted that she was into me and I showed her tons of signs until I was told to please BACK OFF, so EVERYONE could see it.
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Wife got drunk and molested in her sleep at a party. How to put back together the pieces?
Q. I trust my wife, and I truly believe her when she told me it was a mistake. My wife went to a party and drank. She felt too drunk to drive and didn't want to wake me and our child up to come get her. She texted me that she was staying the nigh...
A. 13 September 2011: I feel very sorry for you but this is cheating in my opinion. As my boss once told me when I told him I was late because I forgot I had work... Which was the truth... ''Sometimes, it's better to simply lie''. The fact that she actually tells yo... (read in full...)
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