Would he be turned off me if iI told him the truth?
Q. ive been single for 14months i get alot of guys cos guys think am cute and sexy.. but they just want me for sex.. and obviously i didn't give in and they've all disappeared.. i like sex when am in a relationship and in love. and ive ...
A. 18 February 2010: Well, I dont think its a bad thing at all. In fact, he will probably respect you more. You guys are building up the anticipation and are actually courting, which is something that isnt done this day in age. I think its wonderful. Good for you, girl! ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 10 February 2010: Hey Miamine! Im not getting sensitive but people kept putting in their posts that Im not having anything to back up my arguement. I felt like they were saying that I was making this stuff up and they wanted to see proof so thats what I did. I hope ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: No, thank you! People keep thinking im pulling this crap out of thin air when its alive and well. Hopefully, this will shut some people up instead of attacking me... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/10/07/AR2006100701070.html
www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvQel-sIKwM
http://www.blackstarnews.com/news/125/ARTICLE/6191/2010-01-01.html
These are a few links to the discussion of why bl... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: Miamine, Thats what I tried to do. Jet Li is chinese lol. I dont know if people notice but the people on the list are all different races. I also decided to do an experiment. Beingblack told me that maybe its just me and Im making race the ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: DeadEyeDick,
Just from your statement I can tell that you are an opinionated person and might actually be a good guy. I dont have a type but just how you came at me, open and honest, very attractive. And I havent met you! Lol
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Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: DeadEyeDick(Great name btw),
So hostile! I love it. In your own way, you just called me attractive. Thanks! And I am. Thanks for the post, sir. And yes, what you're saying is very true. Once you get to know a person, they can be the most hide... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 8 February 2010: Thank you Carrot2000! But check out my other post. I turned the bickering into a game. Check it out, it should be fun!... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: Beingblack, dude, I have no problem with myself. OMG! Seriously, I dont. I think that Im cute and fun, with an outgoing personality. I have confidence but Im wondering why guys, probably like you, dont see it and dont see it in other black women ... (read in full...)
I eat less and excercise but I keep putting on weight!
Q. I Do not know what is going on with my body! I eat less do more exercise , walk atleast 1 hour now per day (try to). How ever i keep on getting fatter. My stumic is like huge i never had one now its big and wabbley . The last few months i realised ...
A. 5 February 2010: I think you may be pregnant. Run out right now and get test from the store. Then go to your doctor appt to make sure.... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 5 February 2010: The founder effect??? Hmmm, Im gonna have to look that one up. Thanks for all the responses. Most of my replies are coming from non-Americans. Maybe I should just move to you guys country lol. Thanks again!... (read in full...)
Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???
Q. I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...
A. 5 February 2010: Ok maybe I was unclear. I noticed a lot of the people that responded were not from the US. A lot of the countries are a bit more accepting of black women but in the US thats not the case. And I really am an educated woman. I dont project any ghetto ... (read in full...)
I cheated twice and now my wife is emotionally distant. How can I get back in her good graces?
Q. I have been married 8 years. My wife emotionally is not close to me. I admit I have done some wrong. I have cheated on her twice and I deeply regret it. Ever sine then I have done everything I could possibly think of to get back into her good grace ...
A. 5 February 2010: Maybe. Cheating once may be forgiven but cheating twice well you better be glad shes only emotionally distant. I think you may have wronged her in the worst way possible. I know if I was your wife, I would have divorced you after the 1st time. Your ... (read in full...)
How do I reduce my "love handles"???
Q. heyy. this ones a bit random, but does anyone know how to loose the weight on your sides (the love handles) cause i dont know which exercises will help reduce them. help pleasee x...
A. 2 February 2010: Pilates. Pilates is a great way to firm and tighten your abs. Its core training which means your stomach muscles are always engaged in whatever you do. Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
Can this guy be sexy?
Q. Can a normal guy (say, an 8/10 in looks) be very confident in his own skin around people, yet be obviously nervous around girls he likes (but isn't with), and still be sexy to most girls who look 9/10? ...
A. 2 February 2010: I agree with the below statements. Sexy isnt always about the physical looks. There are guys that I see that first off I wouldnt say that they were good looking but they have sex appeal and thats what Im attracted to and most of the time these guys ... (read in full...)
Could masturbating too much cause infertility?
Q. Is masturbating more than 5 times a day normal? Is it healthy? Could I risk infertility if I continue doing so?...
A. 2 February 2010: No masturbation will not cause infertility... However, 5 times a day does seem a bit much but then again maybe you just have a very high sex drive. Not to get personal but, do you engage in sexual intercourse frequently? With multiple partners in a ... (read in full...)
I have a guilt riding on my conscience about trying to take someone away from someone else!
Q. Could really use some help here. I just started a new job and came across the most beautiful girl I have ever met. The problem is that she is in a relationship with another man. The thing is that she has been in this relationship for over four years ...
A. 2 February 2010: Just kinda ride it out. This is a difficult situation. You DO NOT want to be the rebound guy. You can provide a shoulder to cry on and ears to listen but just be a friend to her right now. And if she breaks up with this guy then also give her time ... (read in full...)
I'm loosing my virginity on my 20th birthday, ...advice needed.
Q. so in a couple of days i will be 20, and on my 20th birthday my bf is taking me away and we have discussed us sleeping together then. I am aware of the big step, but am also aware of how ready i am with him to proceed with this. He is also aware of...
A. 2 February 2010: Ok heres the thing... Planning for something like this is kinda nerve racking because u'll have these high expectations for something and if they dont live up to ur expectations then u'll be very disappointed. So relax that night and just enjoy ur ... (read in full...)
Is she acting differently because of what I said?
Q. If a woman is interested in a man, might she change the way she acts based on what he says? For example, I said "you're awfully confident today." and the next time I saw her she was embarrassingly over-confident toward me. It was charming. I don...
A. 31 January 2010: Yes, Sometimes women can be so desperate for a guy to like them that they will change who they are and what they do accomadate men wishes.... (read in full...)
Why not me? Whats wrong with me? Am I really that unattractive?
Q. Its either my face, my weight, or my color... I am 23 and I turn 24 this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I tried to join dating sites and I get rejected by every guy that I try to contact. They dont even try to tell me that they arent ...
A. 26 January 2010: Thanks for all of the responses. To Petra at home, thanks a lot for the tough love. Maybe I am whining about it and I guess the dating sites aren't for me. And to the others, as for my weight I didnt think that I was huge. Im like a 14 sometimes 12 ... (read in full...)
We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things
Q. I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...
A. 25 January 2010: Well, if he really loves you and is really your friend then he will respect your decision to not have sex. Just let him know how you feel. ... (read in full...)
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