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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 19 March 2010: Whatever Mr... your advice is no help at all, as I said before the poster has moved past all of this, and wasn't looking for your defence.
Now do you have any advice or suggestions that will actually help, or are you just here to look down upo... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 March 2010: Lonely Two, this is a long conversation that we aunts have had with Jason. He accepts that we were offended by his words about his wife, and we felt the need to defend her. He has apologised, and we have all moved on.
Please read the conversa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 3 March 2010: Wonderful Jason, thanks for the update, got to admit, I was a little worried about you. Glad your looking into what this means and how you'll rebuild your future in a better way...
As you say, everything happens for a reason.. :)... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 18 February 2010: Hahaha... I started to wonder if he had changed and could be good... But Time reveals all.. I've been watching your posts and wondering, but didn't have anything usefull to add..
Now I don't have to... The dog done himself in... HE'S A LIAR, HE... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: Had to quote this again..
"But all of them fall under the heading of "Femdom" or "Domination". You're not equal partners. He's the slave, the submissive, to you....... But you BOTH have to be fine with it. If this is just you punishing him beca... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: "But TTM, why would they drool over something they don't want in real life?"
Did somebody mention Q again?...
The answer of course, is because it's fun.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: LAWYER!!!!!! You got to get one of those right away.... no more booze, you got to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Yea.. please stay off the alcohol and booze... I don't want her to see you crushed and needy, as you said, there's already enough talk. You got to keep your head clear and held high. What's wrong with a man wanting to have a normal married life.
... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Jason, has she had any sexual abuse in her childhood, or abusive relationships in the past?... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't like her so much no more....no thank you, no talk... nothing... at the moment, I got a lot of nasty words to say about that lady.... sorry.... she dosen't bloody deserve you. I so wanted things to go well. :(... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: hahahaha.. your getting slow Q.. was waiting for you to notice that.... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: Trouble, KC, me and some of the others did agree that delaying sex could be fun... but this strange woman came back and said, no her partner is not happy, he dosen't like it and this makes her feel more sexy and hot.
Even our tantric guy tried to... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: I plead 5th amendment cause Q paid me...... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 15 February 2010: *Has this guy ever told the truth?... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 15 February 2010: You been with this guy for 2 years. He constantly lies and hurts you, untill you have enough and tell him to go sort out his head. He tells you he loves you and wants you back, but he's still lying, he's been screwing some girl behind your back. ... (read in full...)
How to provide her with comfort?
Q. Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters ...
A. 15 February 2010: I don't know if you've ever lost someone close to you. She promised her life to this man, and now she has to make a new life without him. That's hard, and birthday's and holiday's remind her that she's alive and he is dead. She is going through ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is going down the drain... help!!!
Q. Dear Cupid, Aunts and Uncles: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Our relationship is going down the drain and I'm trying desperately to save it, but I'm in need of advice as I don't know how to deal with this. I consider myself to be a s...
A. 15 February 2010: He is a new person, he's not the guy you fell in love with. That guy liked partying and having fun.
This new guy seems to be a committed Christian and his bible is important to him. To be a good Christian he no longer wishes to have sex with you... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):
" You are one of 2 things:
1- A serious poster, and then I do not blame you, but you need professional help,and you need it badly.
2- You are a troll, and then you need to be doing somethin... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: mmm.... I was wrong... your boyfriend isn't having a good time and he's not enjoying himself...
A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010)
"I've dated girls that did this. But I haven't dated any of them for very long."
Nope, don't... (read in full...)
I was raped and need advice on what to do
Q. i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...
A. 15 February 2010: And don't think because we're asking you to go for help that we are not here for you, or your not welcome. Your always welcome to come and talk to any of us at Dear Cupid at any time.... (read in full...)
I was raped and need advice on what to do
Q. i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...
A. 15 February 2010: Here are the telephone numbers for the UK.. You've been brave enough to tell us, and we don't think your dirty. We haven't rejected you. It's up to you if you want to talk to the police, right now it's your well being that I'm thinking about.
... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't like me but its confusing?
Q. I still have feelings for my ex. He already made it clear he only sees me as a close friend. We never did anything when we were together not even kiss this is why we broke up he saw our relationship as more as a friendship, we act more like a couple ...
A. 15 February 2010: Confused I think...
Young lady, I think this touching thing could be dangerous and things might go too far sexually. At the moment, you are feeling sexy and your testing your powers on him and he is responding.
But he's not your boyfriend, ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I know I love my best friend
Q. [MOD NOTE: Two questions combined from the same poster] 1. What does "seeing each other" mean? I know it has something to do with boyfriend/girlfriend, but I dont know! 2. Help, please! I think I love my best friend. Well I don't think, I know it...
A. 15 February 2010: I'm sorry honeypie, but I think you and him are too young. Your not really sure what going out or seeing someone is, so I don't think your ready for dating. He is older than you, but he's still young. He's probably not interested in girls at the ... (read in full...)
I had an " Accident " during a lap dance. How can I prevent this from happening again?
Q. While attending a particular club, I became extremely aroused. I finally found this glorious sexy lap dancer. I nearly made it to the end, but as she was grinding me, I unfortunately ejaculated. I was incredibly embarassed and rushed to...
A. 15 February 2010: Masturbate before you go, so you won't get so excited. Or stop going to lap dancing clubs. The girls job is to make you happy and make you loose control, she's done her work fine. I think your supposed to pay her extra.... (read in full...)
My husband didnt buy me anything for Valentine´s Day :(
Q. I am really sad because my husband didnt buy me anything for Valentines Day, and the worst part is that he tells me in the morning that he didnt get me anything, and that he will buy me flowers tomorrow.(which he probably wont) I just said its...
A. 15 February 2010: Some men just don't think that presents are important, and they don't understand how it makes people feel devalued. I always find it easiest to just tell them what to do. I write instructions telling them what to get and what to buy, and if they ... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 15 February 2010: Think of weed as if it were alcohol... someone drinking every day is way over the limit and damaging their health. Same goes for weed, but the health bit isn't damaged as much. Stimulants or depressants of any kind shouldn't be used too much, ... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 15 February 2010: hahahaha.. you are the soul of reasonableness and open mindfulness and that is so refreshing to see....
"Would it seem reasonable if I asked if he could just smoke at night, or when he gets off work? I mean, do those conditions seem easy to bend ... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: Stuff that... punish him all you like honeypie.. I'm sure he enjoys it.. hahahahaha.. :)... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: Bharat Mehta thank you very much, the aunts and uncles were starting to make me feel bad about my sexual habits. I was starting to wonder if only me and this young women were the only freaks.
Dear Poster, I don't think it's good for you to use s... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 15 February 2010: I will however say.. you are 19, weed is definitely bad for teenagers and can damage your long term memory as well as raising the probability of you suffering mental problems like schizophrenia.. so don't be tempted to join him.... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 15 February 2010: mmmm.. I'm pleading the fifth amendment and will only say, no comment.... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him!!!
Q. He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...
A. 15 February 2010: Hey wait a moment.. your 16-17 and he's been your friend for four years... that makes your older married man your good friend since you was 12-13years old....
He can't stay 2 years in a marriage, but he's gonna be with you until the day he dies ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him!!!
Q. He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...
A. 15 February 2010: Ok.. I'll try to see it through your eyes.
1. You knew him before her, you've been friends for 4 years, and he got married when you was away.
2. They have an unhappy marriage, (but not unhappy enough to avoid having sex and making a baby)
... (read in full...)
How can I guild up my self confidence from within this relationship?
Q. I have placed quite a few questions here and have had some very good advice and observations from the kind people who have replied. Unfortunately my continued postings here have frustrated some people as most have said the same thing: That I should ...
A. 15 February 2010: I can probably guess that the aunts and uncles have pointed out that this relationship is unstable. She has admitted she doesn't love you, and you are falling out of love with her. You share little in common and seem to only see each others bad ... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 15 February 2010: Jumping in Q1605, move out the way...
mmmm.. weed, read the real information on it's effects. You know an awful lot about it original poster. As you said, it's his short term memory that's is temporarily impaired as well as his co-ordin... (read in full...)
Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.
Q. I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost imme...
A. 15 February 2010: Sorry we can't help, you must go back to your doctor and ask them to refer you to a gynaecologist, you need expert help.... (read in full...)
Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.
Q. I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost imme...
A. 15 February 2010: Sorry we can't help, you must go back to your doctor and ask them to refer you to a gynaecologist, you need expert help.... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 15 February 2010: Actually, we've probably been a little hard on you, harder than we usually are. But it seems like you are drifting into an affair, and them things usually end up nasty and sticky. Far more better to look at your situation first, check your options ... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi, thinking of you both today on valentines day... hope you made it a romantic and special time, or just stayed away and got on with your life.
Doctor's tomorrow, good luck, hope all goes well. It's best to talk to them first and they are the ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi Jason.. thinking of you today on 14th February, hope things are going a little better for you.... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 15 February 2010: Oh yea.. certain words you use.. I don't like..
Dumb, immature, stupid... please don't say stuff like this. You are young and learning. Don't allow anyone to talk to you like this, and don't hurt yourself with such harsh words. It's not fair... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 15 February 2010: I was sharp for a reason, and yes it's unpleasant when people talk to you this way. I wanted you to see how bad everything sounds on paper, I wanted you to have a good clear look at your life and evaluate where you are going wrong.
Thank... (read in full...)
Help!! How can I find out more about his past sex life without sounding paranoid???
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he is far more sexually experienced than me. We have been sexually active for months now with each other and he claims that our sex is the best he's ever had. But ...
A. 14 February 2010: Your crazy!!! If you feel insecure now, when you don't know nothing about his past, then it will drive you totally insane when he is honest and gives you all the details.
And he doesn't want to know about your past either. There is no need to ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 14 February 2010: yea ... I know your not Chinese race, but I thought you might be a Chinese citizen... sorry, I'll get it right next time... :)... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: sorry.. OFF TOPIC, but it's nice to see you back Laura.. with your spirtality moving the world, there is never no judgement, people are people, and you always have that guiding light to solve every problem or leave us with wisdom instead. In your ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: To true Mal, you always got to look at the man (woman) in the mirror.. there are compromises you can make, you can talk.. but if you can't look yourself in the mirror, then it's the wrong decision and it's the wrong way.. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Exactly Q.. live and let live, have fun, one life to live..
But Jason's not happy, and you know how kids change things.. Jason's story is different, but it would be good for people with minor stories to hear what he has to say.... (read in full...)
I have 126 days to ruin his wedding!!!
Q. okay, ive had the guy as my best friend since we were 10 and 11.. we are now 24.. he is getting married in june to his uncle's step child... and he and i have been through everything together... he has always called me to tell me that he loved me ...
A. 13 February 2010: Denise, rawr1645 is young and 14.. She's still hopeful enough to think love conquers all.. we are older, we've had a bit more experiences, we can see signs to show us that this guy isn't acting like real Prince Charming dose.. Love is strong, but it ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Damn Q .... I was already feeling sad over Jason and his wife's story... so much love, different interests make it difficult to work...
And now you go and hit me with this....
"She will be the one that go's down as the person that turned her ... (read in full...)
I have 126 days to ruin his wedding!!!
Q. okay, ive had the guy as my best friend since we were 10 and 11.. we are now 24.. he is getting married in june to his uncle's step child... and he and i have been through everything together... he has always called me to tell me that he loved me ...
A. 13 February 2010: He's known you for 14 years, he's had sex with you and still he hasn't ever thought to marry you. Yea, he loves you probably, like he loves the women of his family or he loves his best friend. But he doesn't love you enough romantically. There is ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Jason, she hasn't just gone like that babes.. you two are married, walking out isn't the end of the story. We had to push you to make a decision, you were so angry with her, you were starting to loose respect.... Wait, she'll be calling soon, but ... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 12 February 2010: The idea that staying together because of the kids is always the best way is very foolish. Children get damaged in bad marriages, they pick up things easily. An unhappy mother who sleeps around, a father who doles out emotional abuse, children ... (read in full...)
I want these feelings for my teacher to go away! Please help me!
Q. i'am in love with my teacher, he is 26 and i'm 14 i know this is wrong, and i dont want to feel this way. but when i see him my heart beats really fast and my face gets really hot, and i feel conscious! i have tried to tell myself that i just admire ...
A. 12 February 2010: No babes, it's not wrong to be attracted by your teacher, I hope we haven't made you feel like that. It's not wrong to like anyone, you like who you like, and there is nothing wrong with that. The problem we adults have is when young people try to ... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 12 February 2010: Fishdish, mmmmm... why you scared to have people disagree with you... why you think I or anyone else want to curse you out.. you don't know me, and I don't know you, so please don't worry about what I think of you.. You have your opinion and I have ... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 12 February 2010: Hi Leonie, it's glad that your on board... yep, I thought that you loved this guy lots and that's why you stay. As I said, I can see lots of good stuff in him.
Yep, I also know that you started partying and dating only when you were away from him... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 11 February 2010: Where is Leonie now, is she still with you or has she finally left you for someone else and refuses to see you?
What's your relationship with Lauren, are you still seeing her, are you still running back between her and Leonie? What dose Lauren t... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 11 February 2010: Damn!!!! This is one of the sickest relationship that has ever appeared on DC. This is not love, it's a form of destruction, torture and abuse. I see one of you ending up dead, probably her, these kind of mental games are torture and could lead ... (read in full...)
Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!
Q. Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...
A. 11 February 2010: Yep.. It's long one.. (Miamine goes off to make tea and have a cigarette)... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 11 February 2010: lol... interesting theory Q.. do you have any supporting evidence to back this up? hahahahaha... ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: Jason, Jason, Jason.. thank you very much. Sorry we are asking you to stir up a hornets nest by being truthful and putting things on the line. But this is necessary, things can't go on like this, the truth needs to be told. I am hoping with all ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 10 February 2010: lol... should have made it clearer that I was talking about all men, and wasn't actually picking on one race.. :)... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: Fatherly advice... yep you hit the target with that one. Your right, it's not a question of attractiveness or black and white. (as I explained about the situation in the UK) The problem is, for whatever reason we are turning out inadequate men. ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: see.. Q is white in the deep south.. he don't understand racism and see's tits and ass.. :P... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 9 February 2010: "If you want him, divorce your husband."
I think we missed a bit. Why are still with your husband?... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: mmm.. Q is a man, and he's white.. he only sees ass and tits, he can't understand racisms... ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: sltaylor, don't get all sensitive on me and take this personally and get aggressive.. we don't want to match up to the stereotypes... as you can see, the aunts and uncles are trying hard to understand your question and find a solution.. but many ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Totally understood Katyani, if you look down, you'll see an apology from me as well.. :)
Mr husband, as you can see, we want you and your wife to be a happy.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: hahaha.. sorry original poster, for some reason, it seems like all the aunts and uncles have fallen in love with your wife, and keep thinking about what's best for her and are ignoring your valid complaints.. she must be one hell of a woman.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Harsh and unfair Katyayni, he said he just wants the sex games to stop, so they can settle down to have a normal family. Yes he played, but now he wants to stop and she won't. He loves her, but he can't get her to leave other people alone.... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: hahaha... I'm loving it girl.. thanks for me evening reading and the video stuff.. :)... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 9 February 2010: Reader anonymous, every situation is different. I hear you pain, and can feel the depth of your confusion and love. This situation seems different. Sex is the main thing that is mentioned, there doesn't seem much love on this ladies part. She's ... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmm... your assessment is fair Q, I kinda pictured it that way meself.... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 9 February 2010: Sounds like he's interested... Dive right in, go on, break this man's heart, and use him for your sexual pleasure. Doesn't matter that he may love you with all his heart, and he may be suffering. Your a big woman, your desires come first. Your ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 9 February 2010: Thanks Fatherly Advice for sharing your story...
mmmm.. I think I'll go out and look angry and aggressive with a "don't bother me" face. I like smiling, and it gives the most creepy men the wrong ideas. Hope your smiles and confidence don't wo... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmm.. time for some old fashioned man behaviour..
Do what you said, grab your wife and shake her and tell her.. "NO BLOODY MORE! I WANT YOU, I DON'T WANT OTHER PEOPLE HERE NO MORE..." maybe it's time to stand up to her and stop letting her call... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Slezzy!!!! NO! There are far too many judgemental people here for what is supposed to be an advice site for people with sexual or relationship problems. From what I can understand our aunts and uncles mostly were only defending your wife from ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: "My point is that no matter how unpopular this O.P. is, he is fundamentally still just a man who has changed his mind about being married to his wife"
Hold your horses anonymous, I don't remember this guy saying he didn't want his wife. You seem... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Actually I was flippant with my answer, because I'm angry the way you talk about your wife. But the more I think about it, the more it makes sense. She really needs to know that the "swinging" scene has made you loose respect for her.
As fa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: You know what.. show her your post, show her exactly what you wrote to us. Then she will understand exactly what you think of her. I don't think she'll mention anything more about children, and all your problems will be solved.
I am so glad tha... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: hahahaha... yippie.. we get to choose... but I think we should also think about looking sexy people from different races.. :) mmmm.. thinking about handsome Chinese people now.. ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: Nope beingblack.. it's my fault.. me and some Chinese guy started a little race war and her original question got lost... sorry, my fault, I must apologise for that., But as you know Mr. British guy with black sisters, this often happens when the ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: yep.. fatherly advice.. it's not the physical beauty that attracts me, or the colour of the skin or even the race or physical build... I like the way men move.. so I don't really like will smith or brad pit.. but I love lawrence fishbourne, paul ... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: Danny DeVito... hahaha.. he's as ugly as sin, very funny, very vulnerable, and everytime I see him I just want to cuddle him and take him away.
Perfect husband material, and that fact that he's short and ugly, turns itself around and makes hi... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: I miss Paulie.. :(... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: I miss Paulie.. :(... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: I miss Paulie.. sigh.. :(... (read in full...)
Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?
Q. Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (...
A. 8 February 2010: sltaylor, you are an absolute star.. yep, that black woman post got a bit heated, and I totally love this new having fun thing.. lol... now how do I play.. :)
I only know Brad Pitt and Will Smith. Both of them are physically attractive, and both... (read in full...)
I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry
Q. I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...
A. 28 January 2010: I'm getting confused, your messed up love life is hurting my head..
Guy A... he's the depressed one, the guy you move in with and start having sex with after a month. He's also the one you shared alcohol problems, cheating, trust issues, domestic... (read in full...)
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