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Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?

Q.   Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...

A.   16 April 2008: "When it comes to women and pregnancy anything can happen. It is supposedly a safe time, but really there isn't a safe time. I was on the pill and i fell pregnant and to confuse the issue i still had periods!" -Waterloo Sunset- ... (read in full...)

Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?

Q.   Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...

A.   16 April 2008: You ovulate 14 days from your 1st day of period. On the 12th and 16th day is your most fertile period. The egg can only survive for 48 hours. Whether you will be pregnant or not depends on those sperms finding the egg. You have got a h... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   7 March 2008: 2 Corinthians was written by the apostle Paul. He urged believers not to form lasting relationship with non believers so as not to compromise their beliefs. It could weaken their integrity , commitments or standards. This is not God's law bu... (read in full...)

broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. But I'm crushed..advice?

Q.   I broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. I never cheated on him. the thing is years before meeting him I had a friend with benefits, who a couple of years later met and introduced me to my now ex. I was quite young, 15 at ...

A.   3 March 2008: Sometimes , it is easy to give advice because one is detached and not involved in the case and we do not know the depth of the feelings of the poster. Understand that it is not like black and white . There are grey areas. What ever happened in... (read in full...)

I didn't really want him but now we've split up, I do want him...

Q.   I was dating this wonderful man. For some reason when i was with him i felt like i really didnt want to be with him. But now that we broke up I am miserable. The reason we broke up was b/c i was texting an ex of mine. And he ended up calling me a ...

A.   3 March 2008: You need to communicate with him. Then you will better understand him as he is a man and he does not know how you feel or think.... (read in full...)

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

A.   3 March 2008: I am glad to hear that things are moving in the right directions for you. Your marriage has been given a new life line. Be positive thinking and focus on his good sides and you will think of him in a positive way.... (read in full...)

If I walk away it will be like tossing her aside when she most needs me...but my heart needs to heal...what should I do??

Q.   Hi, I'm considering giving my ex a text message to ask how she's doing. Earlier in the week she text me after we hadn't spoken for a little while to ask if we could have a chat. During the conversation she revealed that an uncle of hers had died. So...

A.   2 March 2008: She is cold and calculating.When she finds that you are no more beneficial , you will get your fragile heart broken again. She will have no qualms about doing it again to you. When she is down , she only has to think of you , since she has no o... (read in full...)

My friends want me to buy stuff for them...or else they say they will spread rumours about me.

Q.   I took my friends to our vacation villa last summer, after that they kept me asking to buy things for them. Once i refused and they threatend to spread rumours about me, so i had to keep on buying them stuff, what should i do??...

A.   2 March 2008: If you have done nothing wrong , why should you be scared of them? Don't play their games. They are blackmailing you . Stand firm and tell your parents if they do that.... (read in full...)

Do I risk my childrens' sake by returning to my abusive ex whom I still love?

Q.   Last october i got out of a 8yr relationship 18months of it i was married....my husband was violent towards me...he could be the most wounderful man and also be very nasty...i walked out in last year not looking back...i have managed to set up my ...

A.   2 March 2008: Change your telephone number and report him to the police for harassment and intimidations.... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?

Q.   honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...

A.   2 March 2008: Where is there a law in society or country that says you cannot do that? If two individuals want to fall in love and go to bed willingly, it is their business. Other people should just mind their own business and stop giving their judgmental... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   2 March 2008: There is God, there is the Universal law, the Common law, the Karma and the all powerful unknown force. Whatever you believed in , it is your right. You can believe there is no GOD.I would not try to convince anyone to believe what I believed... (read in full...)

He dumped me twice then denied we had a relationship, why is he treating me like this?

Q.   OK,so,i've been out with this guy twice. I really loved it when i did and i know he did to,although he dumped me within a week. I went out with him again and he dumped me again. I was at school the other day playin truth or dare and someone aske...

A.   2 March 2008: Your only crime is loving a boy who has not grown up yet. Find someone who can understand you and treat you well.... (read in full...)

I didn't really want him but now we've split up, I do want him...

Q.   I was dating this wonderful man. For some reason when i was with him i felt like i really didnt want to be with him. But now that we broke up I am miserable. The reason we broke up was b/c i was texting an ex of mine. And he ended up calling me a ...

A.   2 March 2008: Familiarity breeds contempt and absence makes the heart grows fonder. When he is there, you do not learn how to appreciate him and when he is gone , you realized you missed him. Each of us have a bad and a good side. Try to focus on his g... (read in full...)

We became very familiar, having constant communication - how to avoid (falling in love with) him as I am already married?

Q.   I have met this guy in a Christian group and he was married with 3 children and from the conversation that we have his relationship with his wife was not good for a long time when he discover that her wife has another affair with someone. We are ...

A.   2 March 2008: FEAR GOD! Keep that in your mind and it will stop you from crossing into that devil's territories. Treat him like a Christian brother and nothing more.... (read in full...)

I am a little concerned that I maybe pregnant. Any advice??

Q.   Hi All, Alright, so I had unprotected sex with my fiance. This happenned about 2 days beofre my period was due. It has now been 5 days since my period was due (7 days since having sex) My peiods have been pretty exact so I'm just a little concerne...

A.   2 March 2008: You can search for your answers on this site ;- http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/pregnancysigns.htm... (read in full...)

Can a relationship work between a Catholic and non-Catholic??

Q.   My bf is Catholic and i'm Anglican (christian religion). His family are really strict about their religion, where as mine arent. I dont go to church or anything, but I do believe in God and I think that alot of my morals and values are from my ...

A.   2 March 2008: If you love him , you just follow his religion and there wont be any problems. Whether you are Anglicans or Catholics, you are still a Christian. Don't be bothered about all those ideologies as long as you love your b/f... (read in full...)

If I walk away it will be like tossing her aside when she most needs me...but my heart needs to heal...what should I do??

Q.   Hi, I'm considering giving my ex a text message to ask how she's doing. Earlier in the week she text me after we hadn't spoken for a little while to ask if we could have a chat. During the conversation she revealed that an uncle of hers had died. So...

A.   2 March 2008: Steel your heart and walk away. She could be using you only . Don't listen to all those sob stories.... (read in full...)

How long after conception do women experience morning sicknesses? Am I paranoid?

Q.   Okay, I know almost every month I have some question about pregnancy, but it is my one big fear in life. With that said, on to the question: A few days ago I almost had unprotected sex. I say almost becuase we were fooling around and one thin...

A.   2 March 2008: You can read what are the symptoms of pregnancy on this site;- http://www.babycenter.com/0_pregnancy-symptoms-top-ten-signs-you-might-be-pregnant_1146468.bc... (read in full...)

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

A.   2 March 2008: It is always the case that the men think they are more matured when they start working.They do not know the real situation. What is holding him from coming back to you ? From the way you described his actions, it looks like he wants to come bac... (read in full...)

I just can't work out if he really does have feelings for me or not...any advice?

Q.   Hi guys, so I'm 19 and have been working in a solicitors for a year and a half. About a year ago a new solicitor started, 19 and single. I've been in love with him since he started. He is one of the most amazing people I have ever had the pri...

A.   2 March 2008: Don't draw your boundaries. This is a border less world. Explore your new surroundings and just let nature takes its course.... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   2 March 2008: When the children are 18 years old , they can decide what they want to believe. Normally ,the non Christian men would let the wife decides or whoever is the dominant one in the marriage. Religion is not about been born in the family . It does... (read in full...)

I love him too, should I however let him go or hold on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago but I still love him. When we hang out he'd tell me he loves me still but now that he has a new girlfriend, he can't just leave her and be with me. But he keeps telling me that he's happy with me and he just ...

A.   2 March 2008: Most men are fence sitters when they love two women. They try to maintain the situation as long as they can. You have got to make the decision for him if he is incapable of making any. You will be in my thoughts.... (read in full...)

My friend is finding motherhood very stressful. How can I help?

Q.   I've been staying at my friends house while her boyfriend is away as they have a 4 week old baby and she wanted some company and help. I knew they were finding being parents hard, this is their first child and they are both 23. Last night I woke up ...

A.   2 March 2008: What she needs is close support and a friend. You are doing the right thing to be there for her. That is all you can do till she becomes stronger . ... (read in full...)

I love him too, should I however let him go or hold on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago but I still love him. When we hang out he'd tell me he loves me still but now that he has a new girlfriend, he can't just leave her and be with me. But he keeps telling me that he's happy with me and he just ...

A.   2 March 2008: When you are in love, you lower your defenses and you can easily get hurt. That is the price we pay for love. Sometimes to get what you want , you need to walk away. If the old does not give way , the new cannot come. Think positive ... (read in full...)

She says she wants space. How much space is space?

Q.   Hi. Could do with some advice. My girlfriend of three years (great relationship etc) recently told me she 'needs space/a break'. Not 'breaking -up', just needs 'space'... Everything was good until she started studies on her university course...

A.   2 March 2008: It is not the end of the world. When one door close , another will open for you . You may grief but do not grief too long. There are many things you can do and experience in life. It's a new world out there. ... (read in full...)

Things are gettin awkward...and he says it's because I am clingy and anti-social.

Q.   OK so I noticed things have been getting wierd between my bpyfriend and I. Long periods of akward silence, him living me to go hang out wit the boys, puuling away when I go to kiss him, and several other things of that nature. As it is we really o...

A.   1 March 2008: Ask him to be more specific and cite examples of what he considers as clingy and anti social.He may have a different concept from yours. You should have more friends and have some social life instead of just working all the time and no time for... (read in full...)

Somedays he is nice to me, other days he almost completely ignores me. What could this mean?

Q.   I've really liked a guy for ages but i'm not sure whether he likes me. We go to the same college and we talk and flirt a lot in lessons. Whenever i talk to him, its like i enter a box and he holds my whole attention. am i desperate? I've noticed t...

A.   1 March 2008: He has a split personality, a Dr. Jekyll and Hyde. Sometimes , these people just walk pass you like you are invisible and at times they are so warmth and chat with you. It depends on who is in the driver's seat on that day and time. ... (read in full...)

Doesn't he want to be with me any more?

Q.   I have been seeing my Bf for about 3-4 weeks now, but for the last 2days he hasn't texted me or answerd my calls, i know he doesn't get paid till the end of the month, so he might not have credit to text me back, but he could still answer the phone! ...

A.   1 March 2008: You won't really know the answers unless you go to his place and confront him....Why not pay him a visit ? Or you could use your friend's phone to call him and see if there is any response. ... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   1 March 2008: It is my own Christian beliefs that blessings from God falls on everyone irrespective of whether you are a Christian or not on this Earth. It is like the showers of blessings on Earth. It does not discriminate anyone. Otherwise how would you ex... (read in full...)

My bf's ex is pregnant with his child, I just cannot look at him without thinking of her, help!

Q.   hey i have been with my boyfriend for less than a year i recently found out that his ex is pregnant for him . since he found out that she is pregnant his out look on life has changed now he is so afraid of commitment and he does not see him self ...

A.   1 March 2008: Which do you think is much easier to do? To leave and be free of this pain or to stay and suffer intolerable pains. It could fester like those cancer cells and in the end you will lose your life. Is it better to lose some part of you or... (read in full...)

One day we are flirting...the next we are fighting...what should I do??

Q.   hey, was wondering if anyone can help me with this... I basically went out with a guy at the start of the summer, didn't feel the same so split up with him. We go through really rough patches one day we're flirting the next we're fighting. hes real...

A.   1 March 2008: Like little children , they fight and then make up and fight again over some toys or attentions. Your relationship is like an emotional roller coaster. Hope you enjoy the highs and the lows.... (read in full...)

I can't help being jealous about my bf going out with other girls...

Q.   I'm starting to have a real problem.. I've been with my boyfriend 15 months and we've had our bad times like any couple, but always quickly pulled through and we're still going strong. But when he goes out with girls.. I worry and it ruins my whole...

A.   1 March 2008: You should go out together and have fun. Why should he have fun while you sulked at home? That ain't fair. Do everything together and it will bind you more tighter. Do not know what he is doing and it will free your mind.... (read in full...)

I love him too, should I however let him go or hold on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago but I still love him. When we hang out he'd tell me he loves me still but now that he has a new girlfriend, he can't just leave her and be with me. But he keeps telling me that he's happy with me and he just ...

A.   1 March 2008: If you can accept his two timing, then hang on. If you cannot , then give him a time frame to decide who he wants. Either you or she. ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel unwanted in your old one?

Q.   is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel like your unwanted in your old one?...

A.   1 March 2008: I am sorry about your heart problem. You need to change your attitude and think more positive. Maybe , if you know more about God, you may see life differently. We cannot depend on anyone for our happiness. We create our own happiness. If we w... (read in full...)

I felt a burning sensation in my penis after "woman on top" sex, help!

Q.   when i had sex with the woman on top. afterwards my penis was hurting from inside. it felt like a burning sensation. Why was that?????????????? please help!!! What can i do to prevent it???...

A.   1 March 2008: If it hurts too much , you need to go see your GP.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel unwanted in your old one?

Q.   is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel like your unwanted in your old one?...

A.   1 March 2008: If you feel that you have no friends and unhappy , you could go to a new school. But you need to check yourself. Is it you or the school? Going to a new school may not solve your problems.... (read in full...)

My fiance hangs out with other girls. Is this a problem?

Q.   My fiance "hangs out" with other girls. Should I be concerned about this???...

A.   1 March 2008: If you think it is a problem , it will be a problem. You should communicate with him about your feelings and if he insists on doing it , then you can go and hang around with your male buddies and see how he would react. What is fair for the goo... (read in full...)

Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?

Q.   Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...

A.   1 March 2008: Your sperm can live inside of her for 5 to 7 days . So , 7 days before her first day of period and 7 days after is an unsafe period to have unprotected sex. It does not mean that you will 100% be pregnant during this period. It depends on the a... (read in full...)

The guy I like is 3 years older and has a girlfriend. I cant just sit back and do nothing, can I?

Q.   we were on a school trip and me and my friends met up with these guys, some three years older than us, i really really liked one of them and he was so nice and funny... but he is three years older ad he has a girlfriend i cant just sit back...

A.   1 March 2008: Do you subscribe to the idea that a guy with a g/f is out of bounds? If you do , then just forget about this guy. There are no laws which say you cannot go after a man with a g/f. I believe that as long as someone is not married, he/she i... (read in full...)

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

A.   1 March 2008: If you want to get over him , just be civil with him and do not get involved in his affairs . Do not chat with him except only those that concerns your daughter. This way , you can break the bond with him as a former g/f. Don't listen ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and never had a bf! Help!!

Q.   I am a 14 year old female, and have never had a boyfriend. I have always been a shy person, but it has never affected my friendships with boys, and I make it very clear that I like a boy, but when I think a boy likes me, it leads to nothing, help me ...

A.   1 March 2008: Getting a b/f is like climbing a 39 steps stairs. Some can be more lucky and find theirs only after a few steps. Some may not be lucky and may have to climb more to meet their b/f's. So which steps you will meet your b/f , we do not know. ... (read in full...)

broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. But I'm crushed..advice?

Q.   I broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. I never cheated on him. the thing is years before meeting him I had a friend with benefits, who a couple of years later met and introduced me to my now ex. I was quite young, 15 at ...

A.   1 March 2008: When you fight verbally , you hurt each other and when you are hurt,you become irrational and have abnormal behaviour. You lashed out at the other.The person you loved the most gets the full brunt of the hurricane force.With friends , you may ... (read in full...)

Six months into this marriage and it's very rocky...advice?

Q.   married 6 months, husband is a christian, is so busy and works till 8 to 10 at night, sex life is as he needs it, romance is not good, he is constantly worried about money, the weekends come and we should be happy come mon through friday the ...

A.   1 March 2008: Is your husband a workaholic? I think your husband need to seek professional help . He needs to balance his career and family life. Why does he has a preoccupation about money? Money is not everything and it is no guarantee of happiness.... (read in full...)

The guy flirting with me is undecided, while the older one is worried people would judge us. What to do about them?

Q.   I really like this guy and he's been flirting with me since last November but he hasn't asked me out yet, and when i tryed he said 'I dunno'. I also like another guy but he's four years older than me and he likes me too but he said we can't date ...

A.   1 March 2008: Your flirting guy is not an initiator and you will have to be the initiator or be the more dominant partner. The other guy, you can consign him to the museum.... (read in full...)

How can I trust my father to baby sit my newborn, if he is a porn addict?

Q.   My mother and I are both having a huge issue with my father and online porn. He has always had porn in the house but always hidden and never brought out the whole time I was growing up. Now I am in my mid 20's and he has discovered the internet. ...

A.   1 March 2008: If he is in his early 60's , there is no way you can change his habits. Your mom have lived with him for so long and has learned to tolerate his habits. As long as he behaved in the proper way , you should leave him alone and not judge him. ... (read in full...)

He asked me for my phone number, presumably to promote work material. Could he have been interested in me, to be so persistent?

Q.   Hi everyone, well something crazy happened to me tonight, unexpectedly. I went with my mother to Union City to get laundry detergent, and we went by Dominos to pick up her food. Well when i went in to pick it up for her, the young guy that works ...

A.   1 March 2008: He could be killing two birds with one stone. Getting to know you and trying to push a sale.. ... (read in full...)

How can I tell my boyfriend that once we would be engaged, I don't want to rush things?

Q.   Once you are engaged, how long should you wait to get married? We are dating now more than three years and I'm longing for him to propose me, but think I would have wait at least an other year or even more... Recently I discoverd that he thinks, ...

A.   1 March 2008: You will have to tell him that getting married for him is easier while you need more time to prepare for the wedding. Your situation is exceptional because you have to go through those official clearance. I am sure he will see your views after... (read in full...)

I'm afraid if we have sex our friendship might never get back to the way it is, any advice?

Q.   A ton of guys that i know have been pressuring me to have sex with them. I went along with it at first thinking the were kidding, but nows its obvious they weren't. I want to have sex, and i know who I want to lose my virginity to. I want to do it ...

A.   1 March 2008: If you know something like that will happen to your relationship with him , then you don't do it because you value his friendship. When you are ready , you will know who you want to give to.... (read in full...)

She says she wants space. How much space is space?

Q.   Hi. Could do with some advice. My girlfriend of three years (great relationship etc) recently told me she 'needs space/a break'. Not 'breaking -up', just needs 'space'... Everything was good until she started studies on her university course...

A.   1 March 2008: Some women can be very ambitious and can be very focussed and nothing can distract them. Take this as a very long sojourn into the black space. If you are right for each other , your paths will cross again. Sorry, but don't feel sad, it i... (read in full...)

broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. But I'm crushed..advice?

Q.   I broke up with my BF yesterday because he thinks I'm a whore. I never cheated on him. the thing is years before meeting him I had a friend with benefits, who a couple of years later met and introduced me to my now ex. I was quite young, 15 at ...

A.   1 March 2008: It is a lover's tiff. If he loves you , he will come back for you . You both are young and hot headed.Let things cool down for a few days and it will be easier to speak to each other again. If you do meet again , do act normal and try not to b... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   29 February 2008: So if you were a real Christian before than God will never let you go. God would not like to let you go but He respects your decision if you want to leave Him. God gave us a brain to think and he gave us choices.He will be sad if you leave Him... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   29 February 2008: So if you were a real Christian before than God will never let you go. God would not like to let you go but He respects your decision if you want to leave Him. God gave us a brain to think and he gave us choices.He will be sad if you leave Him... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   29 February 2008: "You should not continue this relationship with your BF if you are a Christian. The bible says Christians should not marry non Christians" This is precisely the type of Christian who preached to others and judge them. There are plenty of such '... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   29 February 2008: In Christianity , it is a relationship of you and God only and no others can tell you what to do or cannot do. We all have different levels of faith and we should not judge each other but to accept them as whatever they are. We should lov... (read in full...)

No sex before marriage... or should I?

Q.   My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

A.   28 February 2008: AS long as you do not get pregnant before marriage , there won't be any moral or religious issues. You may not get pregnant but you will have to deal with your conscience and it may trouble you since you come from a conservative Christian backgrou... (read in full...)

My friend is finding motherhood very stressful. How can I help?

Q.   I've been staying at my friends house while her boyfriend is away as they have a 4 week old baby and she wanted some company and help. I knew they were finding being parents hard, this is their first child and they are both 23. Last night I woke up ...

A.   21 February 2008: She could be having postpartum depression . She needs to go see a doctor for medications. She needs close support and care.What about her parents or relatives? You have been doing a great job of keeping her company and giving her your support.... (read in full...)

She says she wants space. How much space is space?

Q.   Hi. Could do with some advice. My girlfriend of three years (great relationship etc) recently told me she 'needs space/a break'. Not 'breaking -up', just needs 'space'... Everything was good until she started studies on her university course...

A.   31 January 2008: I don't think you should be the first to write to her and tell her the relationship is over. Do not say that when it is you who love her more.Do not ever mention about breaking up. She asked for space, give her and then wait and see.She may want... (read in full...)

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