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writes:I know this sounds like a really simple question, but how can you tell that a guy likes you?Usually the guys I have been out with have given really distinctive signs, however in this case i really have no idea at all. For example, the guy does spend loads of time with me, and does playfully flirt, however other times he can be really distant, or hangs round with my other friend who is a girl also. All i really want to do is to ask him out, but i dont dare incase it goes wrong. Please Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice. I think i am going to wait a little while longer and see how the situation develops before I ask him.The one thing I am worried about is I dont want to loose him as a friend, recently we have been really close, and i would really hate to loose that, it scares me to be honest.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 For example, the guy does spend loads of time with me, and does playfully flirt, however other times he can be really distant, or hangs round with my other friend who is a girl also.
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The guy is interested in you or he would not have spend loads of time with you.
Sometimes, you could not be responsive or not in the mood or he found your other friend more playful than you.
Nothing venture , nothing gain.
Just ask him, you won't lose anything but only some pride.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): He is not giving a clear signal because he is clearly not interested. The end. Do not I repeat do not ask him out. When men are interested in a girl they do something about it. If he is, he will ask you out. You know how to let him know your interested without asking him out. You are already doing that.
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reader, obliv +, writes (5 March 2008):
If he likes you he will be with you for the majority of the time. Being a male I should know this. The last thing I am going to do is hang around with someone I dont like. You said you were wanting to ask him out but fear the rejection. In simple terms just ask the question but in a friendly way, I mean rather than "will you go out with me" just ask "If I were to ask you out, what would you say", your giving him the oppotunity to give you either a yes, maybe or no answer. Either way you get the answer and you have not asked him the direct question, its more a "what if" scenario
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reader, xxshaunaxx  +, writes (4 March 2008):
I know you don't want to hear this; but all guys are different. I'm actually in a similar situation right now. me and the guy will flirt a lot and we talk about a lot of different stuff, but sometimes its like he's avoiding me. I've decided that I am just going to take it one day at a time. and every day, I'll give more obvious hints that I like him. and if things work out, great! if not, then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.hopefully I somehow helped..best of luck to you!shauna
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