Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 14 March 2008: Do not have too high an expectations from her.
You will be terribly disappointed.
Learn to love her by giving her space and allowing her ,her freedom.
Don't choke or suffocate her.
For your obsession will either stunt your growth or wil... (read in full...)
Why is he keeping me a secret?
Q. Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is g...
A. 5 March 2008: If you separated in an amicable way , a man would buy presents for his ex..
If it was a vicious and dirty break, then he would not give a damned.... (read in full...)
Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 29 February 2008: Go slow and remember to have fun and don't push her that question.When the time comes, she will give you a positve answer.... (read in full...)
I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?
Q. Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with ...
A. 27 February 2008: The only way to get out of this problem is to go far far away from him for a few months and change your mobile number.
If you can uproot yourself from your place.
If you cannot uproot from there ,just change your mobile number , be more asserti... (read in full...)
Why is he keeping me a secret?
Q. Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is g...
A. 27 February 2008: He should cut off his ex and if he is still talking and doing things for his ex, that could spell trouble for you.
You are standing on dangerous grounds.... (read in full...)
Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 27 February 2008: Do not rush her . Just enjoy each day with her and have fun. You need to be more patient.
A woman does not fall in love easily but when she does , she cannot stop like a runaway train without brakes.
... (read in full...)
We have very different views on showing affections. What should I do?
Q. Hi there, my husband, Rick is one of those clingy types; He always wants to spend every waking moment with me. I’ve always thought of him as quite possessive. But I suppose, the most annoying thing about him is that he is always declaring hi...
A. 27 February 2008: Each of us should respect the other's opinions , limits and boundaries.If one is uncomfortable with too much external demonstration of emotional love, then he should tone down and should not criticize you for the lack of affections.
This is immat... (read in full...)
I love him with every bit of my soul, even though I'm constantly getting my feelings hurt. Advice here would be greatly appreciated!
Q. I've been dating this guy since August of 2006. We've lived together since November of 2006. We've known each other since elementary, and just prior to our dating that August, his girlfriend of 13 years broke up with him. We did jump into our ...
A. 27 February 2008: Keep that secret locked and throw the key away .No one has to know and do not mention it or give any hints to him.
What happened in the past , let it fade from your memory.
Live in the present.... (read in full...)
Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???
Q. I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...
A. 27 February 2008: Whether you believe it or not , what has happened has happened. Some day you may learn the real truth and if you know the truth what will you do?
... (read in full...)
She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...
Q. She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...
A. 27 February 2008: Do you think she is a cheap and immoral woman and would sleep with her friends ?
Ask yourself this question and it will answer your agonized soul.
Don't let your imaginations run wild.... (read in full...)
When I get angry he calls me mad and when I get upset he has little compassion!
Q. I just feel total resentment for my boyfriend of 6 years. We don't live together, he is 20 years older than me (43), we have sex maybe once a month. I broke it off last year and he met someone else (just a fling, we got back together and he crept ...
A. 27 February 2008: You cannot change anyone . You can only change yourself. He is what he is and if you find that he is not up to the mark, you do not have to carry this baggage.
Why hang the stone on your neck? Let go and be light and fly where you want.... (read in full...)
OMG!!! Why did I let my friend kiss me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he makes me really happy, I love him so much. In that time I've had a few men interested in me, and I've never wanted to or felt the need to cheat. However last week my male friend, who I've known for a ...
A. 27 February 2008: It was just a little kiss and sometimes things just got carried away. Don't be too harsh on yourself.
There were too many sparks in the air and you got zapped.... (read in full...)
Does he like me? what do I do?please help!
Q. Okay, I know there's so many questions about this but I really need help with my situation. I started to like this teacher at my school when i was 13, and now i'm 16 and leaving the school i've realised I do love him. Don't tell me it's a crush or ...
A. 27 February 2008: You said you are in love with him but do you know what real love is?
If you have real love, you would not have all those types of feelings and emotions that is afflicting you right now.
How can you be loving someone when you don't even know ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband treat his family this way?
Q. I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive ...
A. 27 February 2008: He was born in an abusive environment or family or his father was an abusive man and he picked up his father's abusive ways.
To him , it is normal as he comes from such a background.
He comes from a dysfunctional family and does not know how to ... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex who has a new girlfriend and now I'm really confused.
Q. I made a huge huge mistake last nite!! My ex boyfriend and I ended badly because he really hurt me but we both new we loved each other still but he needed some space. He now has a new girlfriend whom he's been with for about a month, and they've ...
A. 27 February 2008: A cruel twist of fate or a long night with many endless dreams.Who knows the dream might end happily with you two back together again ?
Whether this dream will come true or not will have to depend on your ex.Fate will decide the outcome.
Good... (read in full...)
He's dying......And I think I'm going to break....
Q. I fairly recently split up with an ex... I was very much in love with him.... but there was a big distance between us and I very rarely saw him... I was so unhappy I ended things. Since I have found a lovely guy nearer... who I am happy with.... But ...
A. 27 February 2008: I am sorry about your ex.We have to accept destiny. We can only keep him in our prayers and let him know that you are there if he needs you .
You should keep your chin up. He would not want to see a sad face or be reminded of his time.
Keep hi... (read in full...)
Can you fall pregnant if you still take a period?
Q. Can you be pregnant if you're still getting your period??? ...
A. 27 February 2008: According to Tracey Telles, obstetrician and fertility specialist
Well, no, you can't get your period once you're pregnant — once your body starts producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) and your pregnancy is established, your men... (read in full...)
He doesn't look at me during sex...any ideas why??
Q. My boyfriend is very passionate during foreplay but when we have sex he stares off into the distance with his eye's open. I know men are visually stimulated but he isn't looking at me... he gets a kind of glossed over look like he's not there. Any ...
A. 27 February 2008: He is 100% thrusting and withdrawing and enjoying it and there is no more space to think or look anywhere else. It is like he is out of the body experience. LOL!... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...
A. 27 February 2008: You need to be assertive. Stand up to him and he will respect you .You need to show him where are your limits and boundaries are .
... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...
A. 27 February 2008: It could just be a phase in his life or it could be an addiction that is hard to cure.
If it is just a phase only , he may get tired of it and lose interest and come back to you .
It depends on your tolerance levels. How long will you be able... (read in full...)
I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??
Q. hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a ha...
A. 27 February 2008: [Quote]
When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a half away he said he was under too much pressure and couldn't commit to a date.
[Unquote]
When a man said that , he is putting you on hold.He could be... (read in full...)
As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?
Q. I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...
A. 26 February 2008: They were unofficially and technically married as husband and wife with a house and child and it was just the formality of holding a wedding to solemnized it.
Your friend is right. In your love for her, you could not see the truth. The definiti... (read in full...)
Why does a man just cut contact with you?
Q. why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings ...
A. 26 February 2008: Those men are not hardwired like you and when they have lose interest in you , they will delete you or terminate you from their radar.
Their brains are not programmed to reply to any message from you or simply your request is forbidden to reach... (read in full...)
She went back to her abusive ex. How do I get her back?
Q. I met this girl on the internet. She is 28 divorced and has two boys. When i met her she said she came out of a abisive relationship that she was in for 4 yrs. I am 40 and have a son. I know i took some of the retionship for granted because she said ...
A. 26 February 2008: If you love her, you should set her free. Tell her you are sorry for what you did and asked her for another chance .
The ball will be at her feet. If she does not want to kick the ball to you then you will have to move on and find another one.
... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I got my period?
Q. i had unprotected sex on the 9th and 10th of febuary,but i had a period on the 12th which was lighter than my other periods and only lasted four days. i've had a pain lately in the lower part of my stomach and my mouth has baeen tasty funny but no ...
A. 26 February 2008: 7 days before and after your period is your fertile period.Your most fertile period is 3 days before and after your first day of the period.
You chances of being pregnant is quite high but you can only confirm your pregnancy on the 5th or 6 wee... (read in full...)
Can anything be done to help my partner maintain an erection??
Q. Can anything be done to help a man who is unable to maintain an erection long enough to have intercourse. My new partner is unable to complete sex because his erection doesnt last, is this a common problem and how do we sort it? It is very ...
A. 26 February 2008: Some men do have those problems .Viagra can help him maintain his erections.
There is no need to end the relationship.Ask him to try it.... (read in full...)
Tips to compensate for smaller than usual size?...
Q. Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). ...
A. 26 February 2008: Have fore play with her till she orgasm and then you do your thing.She will be satisfied. It is not your size that matters because you need a brain and not a big dick in how to satisfy her.
You can read a very good article here ;-
http://www.... (read in full...)
Am I unattractive, for my husband to prefer porn to being with me?
Q. me and my husband have been together for 5 years. lately he acts like I am not even here. i feel like he does care about me anymore. i love this man with all of my heart and i dont want to ever lose him. he doesnt seem interested in me in the ...
A. 26 February 2008: You may have to communicate to him your problems and let him know how you feel. Talk to him frankly and see what is his problems , ED, stress, fear or whatever that caused him to lose his libido.
The problem seems to lie on his side. ... (read in full...)
Am I unattractive, for my husband to prefer porn to being with me?
Q. me and my husband have been together for 5 years. lately he acts like I am not even here. i feel like he does care about me anymore. i love this man with all of my heart and i dont want to ever lose him. he doesnt seem interested in me in the ...
A. 26 February 2008: Many women cannot understand why men want to watch porn. It cannot be explained by women's logic. It has something to do with his testosterone and maleness.
You are a normal woman and you have the right to feel that way.
You have three optio... (read in full...)
How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?
Q. I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost ...
A. 26 February 2008: Contentment is the key to happiness. I found my God and it gave me peace and a spiritual awakening.
I count my blessings and even though I am not rich by the world's standards, I am happy because I have a healthy body and I have never been sic... (read in full...)
I've made my mind up...what are my rights??
Q. It is thanks, by and large, to the really helpful replies and other articles on this website that I have now found the strength to tell my unfaithful, lying, controlling, husband that I will no longer tolerate his awful behaviour to me. While I was ...
A. 26 February 2008: Tell him , you want a divorce and you will go and see a lawyer or better still to go together to the lawyer's office .
If he does not want to go with you, it is no problem.You can sign first and ask him to sign later.
If it is a mutual divorce... (read in full...)
Why do I have to suffer and love him so much, and how can I get over this overwhelming pain?
Q. I recently broke up with my ex. About an hour ago. Not the first time, but I think this is the last one. We had been having problems for a long time because he didn't trust me, he dislilked and judged me a lot about my past. He always made me feel ...
A. 26 February 2008: "Casting pearls before swines!"
Look to who you give your pearls to.If you throw your pearls to those animals, they do not know how to appreciate the value of pearls.
This is a lesson in life.Only give your pearls to someone who can apprecia... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 26 February 2008: The damage is there and there is no way you can escape from the hurt whether aggravated or not when it breaks out.
Not all truth will come out, some do and some don't.You have to learn to live with the guilt .
You can only minimize the col... (read in full...)
I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?
Q. Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But ...
A. 25 February 2008: The only person who don't tell a lie is GOD!!!!!!!
Don't be too judgmental of her.
Sometimes , you have to tell a white lie to make a person happy or we don't want to hurt them.
If you confront her, it means that you have been snooping on he... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: You may want to read this post too.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cheated--what-should-i-do-now.html
I think you chose the right decision.
Honesty is not always the best policy. Sometimes , you need to tell some white lies. It is b... (read in full...)
I cheated. What should I do now?
Q. i have been with my man for 3 years and things are great we are getting married in a few months but recently i had it off my ex, help since we split 6 years ago we have remained good friends and now this what to do?...
A. 25 February 2008: There are always two sides to a coin.
You have two options.
1) Tell and confess your sins to him and be prepared for the consequences. He could forgive you or you could be history.
2)Keep your dark secrets and locked them up forever.
... (read in full...)
Any advice please on how to reach my ex?
Q. I want to get in contact with my ex, i have a boyfriend for a couple of years now and he later moved on to a new girlfriend after realizing i was with someone new he knew he was done in my eyes. I broke up with him but he beg me to stay with him but ...
A. 25 February 2008: You could ask your friend to call him from her phone and if it is him , then you can speak to him.
You should let the past go. It would not help you anyway and may even give you more problems . If you dig up the past, there could be more skeleton... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to have sex until he loses weight, how to convince him to reconsider?
Q. I am writing to you about this problem I'm having. Me and my husband have a good sex life, but recently his latest suggestion has made me feel sick. I wore sexy lingerie in bed one night, but got no response sexually from him. I asked him why ...
A. 25 February 2008: There is a very good article here , link given by Mandy. It would come as a shock to many men who have not realized the importance of pleasuring their wives.
Tell him to read this article. LOL!
"Pleasure your Woman and Enjoy Peace!"
"Wh... (read in full...)
He ended our relationship quite abruptly, will he ever come back to me?
Q. i was in a realionship with my partener for seven years. we have a 5 year old daughter together 3 weks again he telephoned me and told me it was over and hed meet someone else he has started a new relationship with her and i'm totally heartbroken i ...
A. 25 February 2008: If a man's heart is not in it , you should move on and stop crying over spilt milk.
You should take back control of your life and start rebuilding your life without him.
Live each day as it comes.
Over time the pain will heal and you'll be ... (read in full...)
Any one have advice on how to become less needy and dependent, aside from getting a hobby?
Q. I know that I'm an extremely dependent and needy person. I see my boyfriend at least an hour every day, but it's at night for about an hour. He comes over to my house and we pretty much go straight to bed. He's got a very heavy homework load wit...
A. 25 February 2008: You can broaden your circle of friends and you do not have to depend on him alone for your happiness. Friends are like multi vitamins.
You could exercise regularly and that can take your mind of him and it can make you fitter and more healthie... (read in full...)
The man I am dating goes to social events and does not invite me, should I suggest him that I'd like to accompany him?
Q. The man i am dating the last year sometimes he goes out to social occasions without telling me to go with him. He usually tells me after, that he went to a social event. Should i tell him that i would like to invite me to these events or not telling ...
A. 25 February 2008: Some men are obtuse and sometimes just selfish. They have a simple mind and they never give a thought if you are also interested to come along.
If you are interested, you need to tell him directly that you would love to go out with him to some of ... (read in full...)
Why do I always have the feeling I'm gonna screw up?
Q. okay...so i'm in a bit of a dilema... my boyfriend just got back from basic training and we are really happy together... but when we are apart i get this feeling that i'm going to screw it up... i get afraid that i might hurt him and it makes me ...
A. 25 February 2008: You don't usually last with guys because they are not the right one's for you. If he is the right one, he will laaasst!
Be philosophical about guys that don't last. They are just your training ground to make you a man killer .LOL!
... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: If you realized your follies, then you should just trashed it and throw away those thoughts about that crazy incident into the deepest ocean and never see it again.
It is your life. You don't have to share those details with anyone .You did it w... (read in full...)
I asked my husband for a break because he is always out but now he's found someone else... will he ever come back?
Q. I asked my husband for a break as he is always out. I want him home and he says I'm not coming home. I ask is he ever coming home and his reply is I don't know what the future holds. He wants me to move on but I can't until I hear the words I'm ...
A. 25 February 2008: I am sorry for what you are going through.
If he is the one for you , he will come back to your side. Men are creatures of habit.They would prefer to do things the usual and same way.They will missed all those familiar things.
Give him some... (read in full...)
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