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writes:wel me and my bf have been together for 5months and we are really happy 2getha!!!But we had a argument the otha nite and we said some things in the moment and he said that our personalities clash and it has made me think whether this is true, and if it is can we stil work if our personalities do clash???Please help!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): My fiancé and I clash all the time. He reacts to my reaction and I react to his reaction of me.Its the most stressful ever. Think about what gets you into the fight in the first place, that is your messure of wether your personalities clash or not.example. My man gets upset because I maybe said something sarcastic, then he blows up, then I wonder what I have said that is so bad to get him so angry, then I get upset that he is upset over my sarcasm and wish sometimes he could just ignore me and get irritated not upset to the point of anger. Then I also get angry and feel I have to defend what I said, how I said it or rather dude get used to it this is me. If you are getting into a normal argument about who was supposed to pick up the milk on the way home. Then relax your personalities dont clash. You are living like a normal couple.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 No two people are alike and when it is a man and a woman , the differences is even wider.
There will always be differences. It is a matter of how you handle them correctly which will make or break your relationship.
Do not be stubborn or adamant. When you argue, respect his opinions and say , maybe it is another perspective . Don't force people to accept your views.
If they cannot accept your views, so be it.
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reader, Miss-Blonde +, writes (4 March 2008):
just think to your self, was it anger taking over him, in that case he didnt mean it. And every relationship has an argument but then you can sort out your problems and grow stronger because it ALWAYS happens with me in friendships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): When people aruge, people either come out with their true feelings that they hide, or things that they just want to hurt you with. Think of the way he said this to you, and then decide which way he said it. This could make a world of difference. But even if he did mean it, it doesnt mean that you have to split up! You can work out your differences, like you always seem to have done.
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