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I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.

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Question - (7 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love him so much

I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me.

I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt, so didn't want to be in that situation again.

Now i have lost my true love and am hurting real bad. If only i had followed my heart and believed his love for me was true. We've been broken up now for 6 months, i'm seeing someone else, so is he. I so much want him back, i truly love him so much what can i do? I wrote him a letter explaining why i did what i did, but he refuses to see me. Please help, what can i do to get my true love back x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

Thats very sad to hear what happened to you but sometimes we need to let go off the ones we truly love and except what we have done, its hard to say but he felt you let him down, it will be hard for you to move on but you must try dont beat yourself up for what happened try and talk to him again in person and truly make him beleive that you are sorry even if he does not want to start the relaionship back up just tell him you understand but make sure he knows that in your heart you are feeling sad and you mean what you say about the situation and then he may warm to you once again.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

You need to mend your ways, forget about the other guy (the damage is done), and work with the current guy in being happy together, being faithfull or become single if he isn't good enough.

You need to find out who you are, your feelings your needs. You need to get connected to yourself, understand why you did things in the past, and change these things you don't like.

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A female reader, sarah_s United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

sarah_s agony auntWill he still have the heart to talk to you? That's the only way to interact with him. Talk to him. Although, it sounds to me his moved on sweetheart because, remember he was the one heartbroken. If there's a chance you will have to learn your lesson.

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (7 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntTough..keep your legs closed in the future...good luck to your ex in finding a "true love"

You wont get him back......if he has any sense...

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (7 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntPray for a miracle !

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