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writes:Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me somewhere I go crazy for him. I want to make him really really want me, i've asked him about it but he said he's more than happy, but when it happens again i want to surprise him. Any ideas? I've done the whole dressing up, wearing something sexy and he likes it, but i want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him. Nothing seems to work! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Reminds me of a wise old man who told me that God, in his wisdom, created a great many toys for men to play with.
The main problem was that he put 95% of them on women's bodies!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): The penis is like a crank on an old 1900's automobile. To get him arouse and wild, this is the only place. Caressing his testicles and any other part of his body is pleasure, but won't drive him nuts like touching his penis, and yes, always going there isn't great over the long haul.
The act of you holding his naked body next to his, like clinging to eat, touching his skin, sucking on his nipples (not to hard), nibbling on his neck, always keep close tight contact will make him feel very good.
God was mean to us men, he didn't provide the same erogenous zones like he did on a woman, maybe because he expected men to get in quick and squirt and then go back to work.
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reader, banditsmom1124  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 have u tried kissing/lightly biting/sucking on his neck/ears/chest? guys love that!!! also sucking/lightly biting on his nipples will work too...try it sometime.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Well he's a man and not the same as us women.
Try this and watch him flip out.
Wear a corset with the garters and fishnet stocking with tall stiletto heels. Poofy messy hair and lots of makeup. Be confident and show off. Don't be all hiding and timid.
Put on some music and dance for him and then push him down on the bed, unzip his fly and give him oral. let him finish on your breasts. he will flip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): A man has two sexual organs - his penis and his brain and the two of them are more or less linked together.
There's nowhere else on a man's body that gives quite as much sexual excitement, so I reckon you're looking for the Holy Grail - something that probably isn't there.
Different men get turned on by different things. For some it might be their favourite perfume, for others sexy underwear. Personally, my favourite is stockings and suspenders - particularly fishnets to give that 'whore in the bedroom' impression.
Annalisa is the best 'Aunt' to ask about this - she's an expert by all accounts.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Men's G-Spot
Maybe this one may help you.
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html
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