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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I (Phil.)are appart for more than 3yrs.(residing in Ca.) and we have 3-yr.old son but he havn't seen our son since born.This past 2007, we had an argument that really botherd me much but we already resolvd that. Since then our communication becomes irrigular same with the finnancial support...and I'm uneasy with it.. When i'm asking him something important(thru internet)he doesn't reply..I feel that his care for us decreases and He doesn't prioritize us anymore. Some judgement is coming in my mind that He maybe have an affair with someone.How would i approach him to tell him bout this matter?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): You are a doormat!
He's your husband but you don't live together.
He's your baby's father, but he hasn't seen him in 3 years.
He gives financial support, but it is irregualar.
He doesn't talk or communicate with you on a regular.
And you argue at times when the two of you do talk.
This sounds real strange to me. Is he having an affair? The question is why you haven't started an affair and found someone who loves you both? This is not the actions of a man who is in love and wants to be a father, but I guess, your culture is very different from my way of thinking.
BadVoice
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Ask no questions and tell no lies.
If you want to know whether he is having an affair,
hire a PI or you ask a friend to check up on him...
Asking him in anyway will not get the truth out of him.
You can only suspect since you live so far apart.
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