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writes:Dear dearcupid website providers, I am very much excited to join you .I will discuss all my personal problems concerning relationships.Do you believe me if i tell you that until age 32 currently I do not have a love partner! This is due to my bad childhood experience. I did not got enough love from my parents specially from my father. I had grown up full of stress in difficult situation. Even though I do not have a love partner I am very much successful in school and currently in my career. I can tell you that I am not ugly,I have brown eyes and brown color. I know i am attractive. I have a very good body shape and length .But I cannot find my love partner.Could you please give me your suggestion please. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 Rahel,
Sure I can believe you if you say you don't have a partner. This is a common problem for many people around the world, in all cultures, and apparently at all ages. Happiness is elusive.
There can be many reasons for your situation. You describe yourself as pretty and I believe you. The way a person looks is important, because we have to catch a person's eye if the person is to become interested, but, in the end, a happy relationship is based on personality. This is not to say you have a bad personality; I don't even know you. I just mean that you may not be seeing the problem correctly if you think that looks would solve everything.
A childhood like yours does make you need affection to a degree that other people perhaps don't understand. But it's only part of the problem. Some people badly need love and they manage to get it.
I guess we could help you better if you described your problem giving more details. For that, you would need to think about yourself, and that would only be so good.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Yea, when's the next flight to Ethiopia???
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