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writes:my sister is 16 and has recently been diagnosed with cancer and she is really sick. im soo worried about her because she like my best friend and i dont know what i would do with out her. the doctors say she will be in hospital on christmas day. i dont know what do to do any more.its going to be soo hard without her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Hey,
It will be a hard journey, but you'll all come through it. I've fought cancer four times in the past five years and am now clear - the treatment is amazingly effective these days. Give your sis love, friendship and as many laughs as you possibly can! Being positive, even if you feel down, is the best weapon you can use.
Stay strong. It's tough for everyone involved, including you, but you can get through it.
All the best,
Tom x
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reader, janea88  +, writes (21 December 2008):
hi.. just stay strong don't let your sister see you like that. You should be the one whom she can get her strength with. since you and your sister are so close, do some bonding activities that can lessen her pain or sadness (it's not fun at all to be in the hospital bed all the time. try make her happy all the time. this can help her spirit in fighting her sickness and holding on. If she will be in the hospital for this Christmas then you and your family should be with her... Remember that God always have reasons for everything. This is the time to show your sister all the love and care that you have for her. Stay strong.. And have faith..
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 It is going to be hardest on her, dear poster. There is something you can do for her on Christmas, and that is be with her. Maybe the whole family can do it. You can go there and have your Christmas celebration as you would if she were at home. Let her know that you're all happy because she's there with you, as she's always been. Let her know that you're all praying for her to continue with you for many, many years.
Don't focus on the sadness of losing her. Focus on the happiness of her being here with you. All these years she's been with you, you have enjoyed her company and didn't realize of that. Now, let her know how much she means to you and the blast you have been having all these years.
She will thank you beyond words, believe me. And you will feel better, too. I wish I could give you the miracle of your sister's health. Unfortunately, I can't. I can tell you, however, that you will feel much better if you act to help your sister. As of today, you're only hoping for the best; if you act and give her love now that she needs it the most, you will not feel forlorn. You will be doing something, all you can do; instead of just suffering the pain, you will do something to relieve it. Because you can, dear poster.
Tell your sister that there are complete strangers out there who wish her the best. If you send me a private message and give me an e-mail address, I will send her my best wishes on Christmas.
Be strong, because your sister needs you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): Christmas is a time of miracles.
The birth of Christ is the biggest miracle in the world.
You need to believe that a miracle is really possible.
Faith works wonders.
You need to be strong for her.Cancer is completely beatable with modern technology and treatments.
Lord bless your Sister.
Decorate her hospital room.Add cheer to her.Crack some jokes.Its tough I understand.Believe!Please do!That's all it takes for a miracle.
Merry Christmas Dear!My prayers go with you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 One of our Aunts is going through this with her sister and she just got wonderful news and her sister is on the road to recovery. I pray that you will get that same great news in the not so distant future. Modern medicine is amazing.
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond +, writes (19 December 2008):
 we know its hard but you need to take it day by day minute by minute if thats what it takes, we know its gonna be hard for you as our friend has recently been through this, and yes you need to spend as much time as u can with her, make every second count, you know deep down she will always be in your heart no matter what, if you need ANY help at all you can contact either one
of us through the site. our thoughts are with you. the Cancer survival rate is rising all the time, more and more people are recovering, dont lose hope. we wish you all the best and hope and pray for you and your sister.
Cloudnine-andbeyond and baybee-x-sparkii
xxxx
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 Sorry.
It's not impossible for a cancer to go into remission, but chances are rather slim. Don't loose hope though. Miracles do happen every now and then. I've seen it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008):
Im so sorry to hear about your sister, just be there for her like you normally would, go in and visit her make xmas feel special for her like it normally feels.
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