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writes:My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really often. By the way, we already had sex about 2-3 times. Thanks.TannedDoll 3
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reader, diosiasirne  +, writes (30 June 2010):
I am a 15 year old girl and hey dont worry about it that happens all the time with me and my boyfriend and he said that he wants just to spend time with me since we r rarely alone.
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reader, TannedDoll +, writes (25 December 2008):
TannedDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh no worries guys. I don't make a fuss about it :) It's fine with me.. but I was just wondering. I heard that if you think of something really discusting.. it will go away? Is that true?
Thanks for all your replies. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): Don't worry about it. Over the past four months, me and my bf have had sex OVER 125 times....Sometimes over 3 times a day...and to this day, his soldier still stands up when we cuddle or share a nice, intimate kiss.
Chances are, it won't just go away.
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reader, zahmin89 +, writes (22 December 2008):
As a guy I have to say I hope you don't fuss over it too much. It really hurts to have a girl be upset over something like that. I can't necessarily speak for all guys, but at least some guys feel like we're sick or perverted because of it. I know it was one of my biggest fears for a long time when I hugged my girlfriend.Even if you can't come to like it, hopefully you can come to accept it, or else stop dating men for twenty years, because if you make too much out of it it's probably going to hurt him and there's about a 99% chance that he won't be able to do anything about it :(NamasteNathan
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (22 December 2008):
 This is COMPLETELY normal. Boys at this age, are nothing but raging hormones. It won't happen that easily in a few years. Come 25, a single hug won't cause an erection. LOL And trust me, this isn't something you want him to get rid of...
I couldn't help but giggle at this post. I remember those old days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Lucky you! You could have a lot of fun getting rid of these erections!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): He's doing what nature intended him to do. You want to get rid of this?! I don't think that will be happening anytime soon. (lol) If he's hugging you and gets turned on...be absolutely thankful he's a healthy, robust young man who cares for you and is plainly attarcted to you. Wait until you are in your 50's. Your complaints about a man's 'equipment', might be startling different. Enjoy the moments, dear. :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 TannedDoll3, this is the sign that your boyfriend does like you. It is difficult to "get rid" of that. And then, sometimes you won't want to. Unless it happens in embarrassing moments, such as when you're both in line for communion, I think you could forgive him for liking you that much?
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