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writes:Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think we are is sex on legs. Why do you act this way, and towards young woman who are obviously to young for you? My dad says i should take it as a compliment but i dont i find it as degrading as calling your own wife a ho. Excuse my context of words but i feel strongly that we deserve respect. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Double M gave you the answer.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Hey,
I feel so sorry because it’s blame on guys.
I know there are max amount of guys are like this.
I don't think all guys are like that. WOMEN are respectful and they deserve it honestly. If any person want respect from other then 1st that person have to respect other guys should know that.
Behaving ways, looking ways should be respectful.
I feel so sorry if u facing this problem. I hope u will also meet some one with whom u will feel good.
Best of luck
Take care
arianz
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): I used to think also, 'can't guys just control themselves and their reactions?' But now I see as I have a teenage daughter she reminds me of my younger self...a little flirtatious, clothes are a little tight (not skin), and dolled up. Now I think if a girl doesn't want ALOT of attention, the reality is to scale down. I've noticed in my 'natural' look with modest clothes, men treat me with more respect. And think of muslim woman in their complete robes hiding their face...now that's extreme.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Sometimes, yes, there are men in the world that do.But there are also ones that don't. We are the ones who aren't on the dancefloor dry humping every woman in sight.We are the ones that don't really hang around nightclubs because they are fronts for morons and nothing more meaningful then casual sex.But sex does cross all men's minds. And sometimes lust boils in us like the fire of hell itself.The good men learn to control it. The useless ones don't.Flynn 24
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reader, Griffo +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Well this is my opinion at first yes we do we want to have sex with you it's in our nature to feel good. Who wouldn't want that. Then It's your unique things your mannmerisms, personality your care after we get to know you that makes us fall in love with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Sorry... them guy who shout out things are idiots. They usually do it from far away or in a speeding car so they can run. Nothing you can do with them except to tell them to *bleep, bleep, bleep. They have issues, they can't get a girlfriend and this is the only way the know how to talk to women. Ignore them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Sorry.. I tried the looking ugly in bad clothes thing myself. It didn't seem to make much of a difference, men still look. I think it's their biology and they find it difficult not to look at women. It changes when they know you, then they can admire your funny ways, your great conversation and they will realise you have a brain. Men passing by can't see these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): The fact that a man finds you sexy and looks at your body is not a sign of disrespect. Your beautiful so a man looks, many can't help themselves. Is it disrespectful for me to look at flowers and roses, is it disrespectful for me to look at a rainbow. It's difficult to stop a man from admiring something beautiful, and it's actually a compliment to you. The best way to get men to stop looking is to dress very badly in ugly, baggy clothes, stop wearing makeup, don't care for your hair, and try to hide your beauty away. Other than that, it's something you really just have to get used to and deal with, otherwise your gonna be angry for a long time. Don't worry you are now young and beautiful, one day you will be older and start to sag and the guys will start looking at younger and prettier girls.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 You are correct that perhaps a slight majority of men - particularly when younger and among peers - are crude, rude and disrespectful of reasonably attractive females. It's basically a sort of mob mentality spurred-on largely by a childish need to establish and exhibit their macho territoriality. In other words, they are immature and dumb-ass regardless of age. More thoughtful and tasteful men may privately conjure very similar carnal thoughts between their ears, but they express those ideas with much greater tact, such as smiling and suggest spending an afternoon or evening together. Unfortunately, too many young women spurn the nice guy and succumb to the brutes, thereby encouraging and providing justification to lowlife sloths and propagating their behavior.
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reader, steaknife +, writes (22 December 2008):
honestly it sounds like those guys are just despicable. my best friend actually dumped his gf because she wanted to have sex and he was wanting to wait. so not all guys are that, would rude be acceptable in this case?
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