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Men: the ideal body size for a woman?

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Question - (22 December 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *ourdestiny writes:

Just was wondering do men really like woman that are skinny or do they like woman with some meat on there bones? Whats the ideal body size of a woman that men think is sexy.

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A male reader, DuncanGreen United States +, writes (24 December 2008):

DuncanGreen agony auntSome men like their girls slim, some like them with a slim body and large breasts, or with a little junk on the trunk, or really petite girls that are slim and short. There is no ideal body size because every man has a different taste. Perhaps though, overall I think most men like a woman with an hourglass shape.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

Yep Eyes!rightly said! me and Daniel are having a Donuts break?Wanna join?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhy do we keep getting these ambiguous questions all the time? Everybody's got a different ideal blah blah

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

The older I get, the more I see confidence turn people on. Not just body size.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (23 December 2008):

Danielepew agony auntDonuts, Bugs :-).

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A female reader, yourdestiny United States +, writes (23 December 2008):

yourdestiny is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you everyone for your insight

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

...well, if I was a woman with a slim and sexy body then I'd certainly have a healthy body, carry myself with confidence and like myself!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

Fortunately for us most of the men don't think like the male anon here.

Any man who just wants to be with you "just" for your looks is not even worth a single minute of your day.

Tisha nailed this answer.Please read and reread the answer till the message sinks in.

Donuts Daniel?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

Not fat. Not thin. Just slim and sexy! If she's too thin your 'she has psychological problems' alarm bells start to ring. If she's too fat your 'she may have trouble with body odour' alarm bells start to ring. It really is that simple. Men really are that superficial. I don't think I've ever fallen in love with a fat bird or a stick insect - and I don't think I ever will. Woe betide if your slim and sexy woman piles on the pounds during a long term relationship - of course he's going to (want to) stray!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (23 December 2008):

Danielepew agony auntMaybe you will be surprised to know that most of us do want some flesh in our women. Slender is right, anorexic is not. Obssessed about weight isn't, either. Once I met a woman (not a girlfriend) who was always counting how many "carbs" she was having for lunch, dinner, supper, whatever. That was awful. I'm sure her husband wouldn't have cared about some extra pounds if he could eat without calculating "carbs".

As to the ideal size, Tisha is right.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (23 December 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI expect that the ideal body size is all in the eye of the beholder, so every man will have a different ideal. Some like tall, some short, some like fuller figures, some like slimmer, some like muscles, some like slender.

As long as your body is healthy and you carry yourself with confidence, and you like yourself, what else matters? The man thing will sort itself out.

Take care.

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