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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been involed in a relationship with a married woman and we have fallen in love with each other. Her marriage has ended but he won't leave. They were only married for just about 2 yrs. been bad from the beginning. I've never felt love like we have in my life. What should I do?!?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 January 2013):
 what do you mean HE WON'T LEAVE? does she own the home?
is he going to charge he with abandonment if she moves out? (that's grounds for an expedited divorce in my state)
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 Why can't she come and live with you...or you both get another place together? I can't see the problem here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2013): If the marriage has ended legally then she is free to walk away, she does not have to wait for him to go. He has been cheated on by her and only been married for 2 years. He is probably devastated and angry.Tell her to move in with you if you need her so much but I don't think you will ever be happy together. You already know she is a cheat and a liar.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 Well hello, unless she is chained to the floor, or has her feet nailed to the floor, or is totally immobile there is no reason why she cannot do the leaving. Is there?
If the marriage is over, and they are divorced (are they) we can assume a settlement has taken place (has it) and all assetts and belongings have been taken care of (have they) which would mean there would be a judgement about any homes they own, and legally one is not supposed to be there, which means, if it is the ex husband who should be leaving your girlfriend can call in the cops for some assistance.
IF, on the other hand, there has been no divorce, no settlement and no legal judgements maybe the husband doesn't know, or is unaware or hasn't been told the marriage is over, in which case you can either stay, with the husband in situ or you can choose to move on to pastures greener, with no husband in the picture.
Really, what you do, and what you accept are up to you.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 So who told you that her husband won't leave? If she told you, are you really going to believe a person who lies to their spouse, who cheats on their spouse?? Do you really think that person is telling you the TRUTH??
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