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writes:I fell in love with a girl, but I doubt if she will be interested in me. I've been thinking about her a lot of time during the past year. Although we do not even know each other personally, and I don't know of her opinion, but there are objective reasons to believe that she would not need me.The point is, we are both about 25 years old (she is a bit younger); she graduated from a very prestigious university, has a job, lives separately from her parents, is a native citizen of a large city (Moscow), has better social skills and has a significant number of friends.I am still studying, am only in hope of finding a small part-time job, live in a university's dorm, I am originally from a far smaller city, and don't have friends. My educational/career situation is such, that I will not be able to have an income of a full-time job at least for coming multiple years.In today's Russia (it's interesting to know how it is in other places), women strongly prefer someone better and stronger then themselves - especially in a financial way - so I expect that she will not be happy of my interest in her. How do you think, should I contact her at all and make her understand that I need her? Even if she doesn't reject me at once, will I have to continue or I would only annoy her?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 You don't need her.
you don't love her
you don't really know her.
you are interested in getting to know her... and for that I would say go for it.
but just go slow and see what happens do not go rushing in with "I need you I love you I want you"
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reader, Smart_Idiot +, writes (10 January 2013):
I agree with blonde30s. But just want to encourage you to go for it. If you like her as much as you say you do, then it will be better for you to be rejected now, than ask "What if?" years down the road. Make sure you have no regrets. And if she rejects you, don't let it get you down. It isn't meant to be in that case. Good luck.
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