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writes:hii have read that sometimes when boys and girls say something it might not mean the literal stuff.. so i want to know that my guy keeps sayin that," you are too good for me.. at times i feel like dont deserve you..."so is this just trying to flatter me..or is it that he is not comfy with me..or am i trying to read more into his simple conversations..and brooding un necessarilyguys wat you think?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012): i asked him if it was the case..as you suggested that he might feel i love him too much and he said it might be..just to clear u..we spoke all this in english hence no language translation issue here..now i on my part dont feel i love him too much on contrary m sure of the realtionship since he is 6 yrs younger to me..i am 28..he is 21..hence i hold myself back..m not sure if its infatuation or real thing..hence there has not been real opening up or too much loving from my end..what do i do now??how can he feel more loved when i m not not even sure?! and he knows it..we discussed my confusion wrt our age difference and my dislike of his certain bad habits..he knows am taking my time as yet..still he feels so? what can i do? does this mean he is waiting for break up from my end?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2012): Its real easy to read to much into some thing and normally i would say never assume any thing accept on this 1 subject. Always assume a situation is simpler than it may seam.
Trust me on this 1 because it alone has changed my life in a major positive way....Have a great day.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 If you speak Hindi and then translate this into English it could be out of context. There are two possibilities. If your relationship is good it can mean that everything is perfect now and he is afraid to do something to mess it up and lose you. Or, he is not ready for the next step like serious commitment and is using this to gently let you down. He feels like you love him more than he loves you so the pressure is just too much to continue. Ask him what he meant. If you are still having fun in your relationship then stop brooding.
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