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writes:2 Qs in 1:1] I read something on here about someones bestfriend kissing her on the cheek for the first time as a family gesture and I was wondering if that means its wierd? I kiss my best friend on the cheek sometimes because shes like a sister and if Im honest I wish she . Admittedly I dont do it in public if anyone knows us but thats Im quite conscious of that kind of thing in general with anyone. Is it wierd even if they are like family to you?2] I hold my bestfriends hand sometimes if we are just hanging out together watching a film or if she or I are having a private conversation about how we are feeling about some crap in our lives. Ive had a gf since knowing my bestfriend and she didnt care about it because she knew there was nothing there but she is now my ex because she was a bitch if Im gonna be brutally honest. Is that wierd?I know some of you will say 'are you sure its only platonic on both sides' [which it is and always has been] or 'would you do it in front of your gf? if not it seems suspicious' [I wouldnt but if my gf was there Id be paying attention to her] or 'why are you bothered what other people think if they dont even know' but Im just wondering what you think to be honest.thankyouben [18]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2012): i think its quite sweet coz it shows you care about your friend alot and you appear to be in the middle ground between 'best friend' and 'sister'.
Obviously it would be different if you ended up kissing her on the lips or touching her intimately etcetera but it doesn't appear to be the case here and it doesn't seem to be where it is going either. If everyone is being honest about the feelings behind it and if it changes then they are admitted i don't thing there is an issue and i don't think its weird.
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